M i having depression?
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Ok erm i have search thru dis forum for depression...i have seen them...but i m still uncertain bout my situation so i decide to post it here.
so erm becuz of my major fren problem...http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=182467 i tink i m suffering from depression....
Im quite a cheerful person...so erm dis matter has a great impact on me...dis is de first time i m so depress... so lately...dun feel like socializing...feel like crying everday...lost my appetite..and suffering from insomnia...and de most worst thing is...whenever my mom opens de window...i got dis tendency to jump off and get over with it...but of cuz i din...so everytime i m near de window...i will grab on de bar which is below de window so i wun fall...
and dere was once when i had dis tendency to poke my eyes with my pencil...so i can go blind...not wishing to see all the negative side again...
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Symptoms sounds like depression. But it may not be depression. See psychiatrist for a detailed diagnosis.
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face it that wat u did cannot be undone... as for your friend jz be nice and hope for the best... if cannot work out jz let it go... u should hang out with other friends for now....
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only u can self-cure urself n seeking psychiatrist doesnt help at all cos the medicine can only kill part of ur brain cells n addictive.
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too serious for a 14 yr old rite?Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Symptoms sounds like depression. But it may not be depression. See psychiatrist for a detailed diagnosis.
i dun wish to tell my parents...dun wan them to worry... -
yea...but seriously...i have no more other frenz...and new ones hard to make...Originally posted by BrUtUs:face it that wat u did cannot be undone... as for your friend jz be nice and hope for the best... if cannot work out jz let it go... u should hang out with other friends for now.... -
dysthymia.. a milder version of depression.
but from the looks of it,. u'r prolly upset,disappointed,miserable etc.. but not really suffering from depression ba.
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not a serious depression yet, cause if u are u won't go ard asking ppl if u are having the symptoms or not.Originally posted by OasisBlue:Ok erm i have search thru dis forum for depression...i have seen them...but i m still uncertain bout my situation so i decide to post it here.
so erm becuz of my major fren problem...http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=182467 i tink i m suffering from depression....
Im quite a cheerful person...so erm dis matter has a great impact on me...dis is de first time i m so depress... so lately...dun feel like socializing...feel like crying everday...lost my appetite..and suffering from insomnia...and de most worst thing is...whenever my mom opens de window...i got dis tendency to jump off and get over with it...but of cuz i din...so everytime i m near de window...i will grab on de bar which is below de window so i wun fall... and dere was once when i had dis tendency to poke my eyes with my pencil...so i can go blind...not wishing to see all the negative side again...
how how...
anyway dude, take it easy.
b4 u jump pls think aof the ppl ard u, especialy those who cares abt u.
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wat makes u so depressed?
ur friend?
feel free to talk to me.
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just had your bday celebration, and back to work in counselling?Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat makes u so depressed?
ur friend?
feel free to talk to me. 
Happi Bday!.. 
because you felt guilty towards your friend, as such, you feel negative about yourself. However, i am not too sure on your current state, because i dont know how close you are to your friends. If you are only 14 years old, i am sure such things shouldnt affect you that much, unless your relationship to your fren isnt as simple as friendship..
You mentioned that because of that incident, 2 other friends have ostracized you too right? Am i right to assume that now in school, you do not have friends and anyone to talk to? You lost your 3 best friends, so you felt lonelines.
Under what circumstances do you feel like crying? Enlighten us abit on details if you need some help here..
Try opening up yourself to others, talk to people so that you will not feel lonely. Take up some activities to make yourself busier.
Most people do not know that family members are best to talk to if you need someone to talk. try talking to them about your feelings or problems first. Seeking help from psychiatrist may be an opinion when you think that you cannot control your own feelings. Nobody is too young or old to seek help
BTW, you said you wanted to suicide? This is actually quite serious. I suggest you talk to school counsellors first if you feel that your family members cant help you... Do it quick dude... -
Talk to your school teacher about it... Have him / her refer you to the school counsellor or a psychiatrist... Personally, I feel that there's a need for your parents to worry about you at this point... They're your immediate family members and adults... It'll be easier if they know about it and hence can help you cope with things... I think it'll be quite unfair to keep them from things... Not letting them worry about you now doesn't mean that they won't have to worry about you in the future... You're a part of the family, they should be working your life out together with you if they can offer to...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:too serious for a 14 yr old rite?
i dun wish to tell my parents...dun wan them to worry...
Talk to your parents (especially your mum?)... Let the closer members to you know as much about it as possible... If you can let us know, why not let them know too..? Besides, it's a good time to communicate with them now...? -
If you don't want to tell your parents, then so be it....Originally posted by OasisBlue:too serious for a 14 yr old rite?
i dun wish to tell my parents...dun wan them to worry...
Just make sure you actually do talk about it to someone you can trust. Like your form teacher or something. If your school has a formal counsellor, go and consult her. -
keke.. bcos i have great frens, that's why i really enjoyed myself for the past.. 3 weeks ba.. celebrated bday since 3 weeks ago till the actual day.Originally posted by darknessfall:just had your bday celebration, and back to work in counselling? Happi Bday!..
because you felt guilty towards your friend, as such, you feel negative about yourself. However, i am not too sure on your current state, because i dont know how close you are to your friends. If you are only 14 years old, i am sure such things shouldnt affect you that much, unless your relationship to your fren isnt as simple as friendship..
You mentioned that because of that incident, 2 other friends have ostracized you too right? Am i right to assume that now in school, you do not have friends and anyone to talk to? You lost your 3 best friends, so you felt lonelines.
Under what circumstances do you feel like crying? Enlighten us abit on details if you need some help here..
Try opening up yourself to others, talk to people so that you will not feel lonely. Take up some activities to make yourself busier.
Most people do not know that family members are best to talk to if you need someone to talk. try talking to them about your feelings or problems first. Seeking help from psychiatrist may be an opinion when you think that you cannot control your own feelings. Nobody is too young or old to seek help
BTW, you said you wanted to suicide? This is actually quite serious. I suggest you talk to school counsellors first if you feel that your family members cant help you... Do it quick dude...
If my advice can help someone in agony, then why not? Both benefit mah. She happy, I happy. I have her contact in my msn, but recently too many people added me, so I'm always confused.. who is who?
so OasisBlue, if u see this, can come chat with me. -
I don't know about the severity, but you still have to tell your parents. Solve everything together as a family. Take this time to improve family bonding. You can talk to school councellors first though. Other things you can try out include keeping a diary, drawing and reading. Use these to distract you, as well as pour out your feelings. If you have a soft toy, it would be nice if you talk to it. No doubt like talking to a wall, but at least, you say out what's bothering you and you will feel better.Originally posted by OasisBlue:too serious for a 14 yr old rite?
i dun wish to tell my parents...dun wan them to worry... -
i have consultmy teacher...i left a real bad impresion on all my frenz...
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Especially when they keep changing their nicks in MSN...?Originally posted by browniebaobao:keke.. bcos i have great frens, that's why i really enjoyed myself for the past.. 3 weeks ba.. celebrated bday since 3 weeks ago till the actual day.
If my advice can help someone in agony, then why not? Both benefit mah. She happy, I happy. I have her contact in my msn, but recently too many people added me, so I'm always confused.. who is who?
so OasisBlue, if u see this, can come chat with me. 
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Quit thinking about how others might be seeing you for now... Learn to take care of yourself 1st....Originally posted by OasisBlue:i have consultmy teacher...i left a real bad impresion on all my frenz... -
u can view ppl by their email address on msn tho..Originally posted by Devil1976:Especially when they keep changing their nicks in MSN...? -
wad do u mean?Originally posted by Devil1976:Quit thinking about how others might be seeing you for now... Learn to take care of yourself 1st.... -
how do u get amnesia btw? i wanna have amnesia...
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how r u today? hope u r fine.
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Yes very lonely and hurt dat i have no frenz...dis is de first time i have no frenz...i just cant bear de loneliness...Originally posted by darknessfall:just had your bday celebration, and back to work in counselling? Happi Bday!..
because you felt guilty towards your friend, as such, you feel negative about yourself. However, i am not too sure on your current state, because i dont know how close you are to your friends. If you are only 14 years old, i am sure such things shouldnt affect you that much, unless your relationship to your fren isnt as simple as friendship..
You mentioned that because of that incident, 2 other friends have ostracized you too right? Am i right to assume that now in school, you do not have friends and anyone to talk to? You lost your 3 best friends, so you felt lonelines.Under what circumstances do you feel like crying? Enlighten us abit on details if you need some help here..
Try opening up yourself to others, talk to people so that you will not feel lonely. Take up some activities to make yourself busier.
Most people do not know that family members are best to talk to if you need someone to talk. try talking to them about your feelings or problems first. Seeking help from psychiatrist may be an opinion when you think that you cannot control your own feelings. Nobody is too young or old to seek help
BTW, you said you wanted to suicide? This is actually quite serious. I suggest you talk to school counsellors first if you feel that your family members cant help you... Do it quick dude...
Nth can stop me...its too deep...
i dun have money to visit dat...and i dun wan to inform my parents... -
yes i agree that u need some professional help.
its not necessarily depression though u have some of the symtomps of it..
i think u jus need someone to talk to.
as suggested by devil, try talking to ur sch tcher and get a counseller.
amnesia? in wat sense.....
i think u are jus going thru a rough patch in ur life...dun think too much... -
lonely is only in ur heart n mind dat u feel it.Originally posted by OasisBlue:Yes very lonely and hurt dat i have no frenz...dis is de first time i have no frenz...i just cant bear de loneliness...
Nth can stop me...its too deep...
i dun have money to visit dat...and i dun wan to inform my parents...
think of it this way...
Human beings are pathetic dat they so scare of lonely n need company, otherwise they will die. so they seek friendship to ward off dat feeling. but even u got a bunch of friends, how many of them can be sincere to u?
for me, i rather have a few close friends who's been there to willingly to share my happiness n sadness for who i am; den to stick wif bunch of losers who r blood suckers, backstabbers or hypocrises who measure friendship as wealth, power n someone who is of use, entertain.
even if i am left all alone, i am happy cos i can do think MY WAY n freely as no one can control my lifestyle.
if u cant control tis feelings, u might go n do some charities work or volunteers by doing flag days, or go to temple/ church to soul seekings. i believe u can see a different views in life. -
chatted with u this afternoon.
I feel that it is not that u don't have anyone to turn to. The fact is you don't want to seek help from them.