M i having depression?
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Consulting a teacher when you have problems, it's normal. Just don't care about your friends. If they are truly concerned about you, they won't be shunning you.Originally posted by OasisBlue:i have consultmy teacher...i left a real bad impresion on all my frenz... -
OasisBlue,
It is rather common that friendship got steered out of course. At the moment just leave things as it is, some things cannot rush into it and further misunderstanding may occur as a result.
At the age of 14 you should be in an environment that allow you to interact with more peers of your own age. This may be through CCA or even among your own classmates. I am not asking you to disown or disregard your group of current friends (whom currently are not in good relationship with you) but to socialise more.
Your health problem like insommia, loss of appetite may be due to stress that relates to this issue. In the absent of sleep and food, the mind may be triggered to think irrationally. Therefore, start having regular sleep and meals again and the situation will improve. However, if this persist over time, I will advise you to consult your teachers, parents. -
Some of them have quite weird or common looking e-mail addy... Can't possibly remember them all...??Originally posted by alexkusu:u can view ppl by their email address on msn tho.. -
DOn't always think about how others are looking at you with discrimination... You're just you, and should be who you are... The more you think the others hold something against you, the more you'll distance away from them... Including those people who really ain't having any problem with you....Originally posted by OasisBlue:wad do u mean? -
You can start by making some online friends...? Then you'll realise you're really not that bad...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:Yes very lonely and hurt dat i have no frenz...dis is de first time i have no frenz...i just cant bear de loneliness...
Nth can stop me...its too deep...
i dun have money to visit dat...and i dun wan to inform my parents...
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Hmm...Originally posted by browniebaobao:chatted with u this afternoon.
I feel that it is not that u don't have anyone to turn to. The fact is you don't want to seek help from them. -
I just seek help from de sch counsellor...she will be talking to my frenz soon...Originally posted by browniebaobao:chatted with u this afternoon.
I feel that it is not that u don't have anyone to turn to. The fact is you don't want to seek help from them.
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that's good..Originally posted by OasisBlue:I just seek help from de sch counsellor...she will be talking to my frenz soon... 
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Take it easy yeah...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:I just seek help from de sch counsellor...she will be talking to my frenz soon... -
Thx i hope dis resolve =)Originally posted by Devil1976:Take it easy yeah...? -
i tink u tink too much
look on the bright side...
i will be ur fren -
If anything goes wrong, just PM me and chat ok? Can even exchange contact number if you want...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:Thx i hope dis resolve =) -
ThxOriginally posted by Devil1976:If anything goes wrong, just PM me and chat ok? Can even exchange contact number if you want...? -
Sigh...i want to let my fren go and let her be happy but in return, i will "gain" sadness...deep sorrow...i try to change my attitude...but she dun realise i m working hard...she thinks i m slacking and not improving my bad attitude...
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your sch counsellor will approach your friends on this matter?
So serious ar? I seriously wonder what went wrong.....
anyway, good luck to you k...whatever happens, you can always make new friends...
remember: friends come and go, but only true friends stay.. -
long term sadness will turn into depression ....
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very true...Originally posted by Redblood:long term sadness will turn into depression .... -
Just talk to anyone if you feel a need to, don't keep anything to yourself...Originally posted by OasisBlue:Thx