dont noe wat to do...
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two things..
so jealous of you all able to go into r/s during sec
I was the xiao cao but parents dun allow me to date..
next, there is long way to go , dun spend to much time thinking about r/s at this time. -
point is she said..she dont feel anything is wrong..Originally posted by FBI:ask her wassup.
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and that's a lie and she prolly trying to hide it.Originally posted by snop_coolz:point is she said..she dont feel anything is wrong.. -
yea...but..she seems like shes okay...arrg..i dont noe..i m thinking that i m actually sinking to being oblivious to some facts
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and u are jus like her trying to evade probs.Originally posted by snop_coolz:yea...but..she seems like shes okay...arrg..i dont noe..i m thinking that i m actually sinking to being oblivious to some facts
U knew something was wrong but u jus pretned not to know.
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problem is..if only i can look at the story both side..i m trying to understand her..its like..shes playing her own beats..while i m trying to catch up...i dont noe..mayb it isnt working out..i m not afraid to make the final decision..but wat if the final decision is a lose lose situation...then arnt it pointless =/
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break and give each other time to settle down and solve this prob.Originally posted by snop_coolz:problem is..if only i can look at the story both side..i m trying to understand her..its like..shes playing her own beats..while i m trying to catch up...i dont noe..mayb it isnt working out..i m not afraid to make the final decision..but wat if the final decision is a lose lose situation...then arnt it pointless =/
Thing is if u want to help someone but that person doesn't want to help himself then it's useless. -
lol..y r u so for me into breaking up with her...anyway..i m not sure if breaking up is the best choice..beside..i really asked myself this..would i b happier if i break up with her? i seriously dont think so..if i continue..well..at least i m still leading life as if nth has happened..althought breaking up would definately let me concentrate on my study..better..
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Did you hold hands? If not, Consider breaking up. Trust me. I've been in your shoe before.
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FOCUS on your 'O' LEVELS 1st... Relationship takes 2 hands to clap... Results probably can't give up on you unless you give up on yourself...Originally posted by ChengYong:i'm having my Os this year too. and i have relationships problems. after a patch she changed. totally. its like she expect me to apologize even when i didn't think i was wrong. but fine. i did apologize. i want treasure her. but she took much advantage and was really ba dao. and the reason for her being ba dao is, her dad said girls have the privilage to be ba dao. wth. btw her parents don't approve of our relationship. and we lied to them about us breaking up le. i'm hurt by her lots of times. but i'm still considering whether to brk. like u. i jus fang bu xia. i lOve her alot. i'm worried this would affect my results. and my results is deterioting.
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well, the decision is yours to make le, as ppl said, the ball is in your half now.
To recap, you and she are still offically a couple, as you said you haven break up yet. But the feeling that she is giving you is that she is like not serious in the r/s rite? And this feeling is affecting you that you are thinking if she is not serious, why must you 2 still be together? But you dun wish to give up bcos you wish that this r/s will work out. And when you highlight the problems to her, she will said nth is wrong.
How long have you 2 been together? At which stage of the r/s le? and how old is she?
Do any of your friends know about your problems? Sometimes friends may give you advise that we cant give you, cos we dunno you and ur gf, so we cant give the correct advises.
You have already answer 1 of your qns by urself, that is if you sld break up with her.Originally posted by snop_coolz:
So since you dun wan to break up, and she dun wan to break up, work harder to make the r/s work. But dun neglect your studies
lol..y r u so for me into breaking up with her...anyway..i m not sure if breaking up is the best choice..beside..i really asked myself this..[b]would i b happier if i break up with her? i seriously dont think so..if i continue..well..at least i m still leading life as if nth has happened..althought breaking up would definately let me concentrate on my study..better..[/b]
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This is a damn good reason to break up. What other push factor do you need??Originally posted by snop_coolz:lol..y r u so for me into breaking up with her...anyway..i m not sure if breaking up is the best choice..beside..i really asked myself this..would i b happier if i break up with her? i seriously dont think so..if i continue..well..at least i m still leading life as if nth has happened..althought breaking up would definately let me concentrate on my study..better..
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nvm..messaged her last night...told her its not working out and we should just b friend...i really feel bad..its like..there is a relieve off my chest..but deep in my heart it hurts..crap..and she didnt reply me.. mayb slient means consent
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Or maybe slient mean she is heart broken and is crying off somewhere? Well since you have choosen this path, just have to get over it. Maybe just take it that its a fresh start with her again. Try to know her more this time round, and see if there is any chance of getting back together again mah. That is if she dun hate you.Originally posted by snop_coolz:nvm..messaged her last night...told her its not working out and we should just b friend...i really feel bad..its like..there is a relieve off my chest..but deep in my heart it hurts..crap..and she didnt reply me.. mayb slient means consent
Love: cant live with it and cant live without it
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no..love is bittersweet...geez..2 times heart break liao
still thinking if i had made the wrong decision..anyway..theres no turning back.. i really love her..well guess it is fated..we werent meant to be... -
Live life FORWARD, NOT BACKWARDS... You're still young and have quite a long road ahead of you... One should not be too narrow-minded... Sometimes we just need to make certain decisions in life no matter how painful it might be... It's all part of living it...Originally posted by snop_coolz:no..love is bittersweet...geez..2 times heart break liao
still thinking if i had made the wrong decision..anyway..theres no turning back.. i really love her..well guess it is fated..we werent meant to be...