Dilemma
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Hi , I am in a dilemma . I am 26 this year and there is this gal who is only 17 is in love with me. Her hints are pretty clear , I find her a nice companion to be with and I was thinking should I go ahead with the relationship even with her father doesnt approve of her having a relationship until she is 20 . She has already make it clear that she doesnt want to wait until 20. I was thinking if she's the one, by the time her marriage age comes, I will be more then ready to settle down ( I am thinking for the future as well) .
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u sure shes seriously bout u?
u love her? can u do without her? any chemistry between u all?
well..i m sure u can see the fact..if shes serious..she likes u..u feel the same..y not..love is something powerful..nobody can stop it..except the lover involved -
how come hmm si go jalan jalan first then figure out if you both wanna go a step further into the friendship one?
the first thing de si decide if want to go into a relationship even before friend friend? -
Go ahead then if not u there will be someone else. But please be a gentleman, shes only 17.
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Yes, she is serious about me .Originally posted by snop_coolz:u sure shes seriously bout u?
u love her? can u do without her? any chemistry between u all?
well..i m sure u can see the fact..if shes serious..she likes u..u feel the same..y not..love is something powerful..nobody can stop it..except the lover involved
I dont know whether I love her , feeling confused .
Can I do without her ? I dont know, I think If i am with her, I can guide her like an elder brother. -
prolly after your money and at the same time dating with another dude she really love.Originally posted by K800i:Hi , I am in a dilemma . I am 26 this year and there is this gal who is only 17 is in love with me. Her hints are pretty clear , I find her a nice companion to be with and I was thinking should I go ahead with the relationship even with her father doesnt approve of her having a relationship until she is 20 . She has already make it clear that she doesnt want to wait until 20. I was thinking if she's the one, by the time her marriage age comes, I will be more then ready to settle down ( I am thinking for the future as well) .
What do you guys think ?
and she's too young really.
I know u guys have fetish for young gals. try control la -
Dohz !Originally posted by NewAge:G But please be a gentleman, shes only 17.
There is another guy that likes her , 22 years old .. well known .... but she doesnt like him and this guy is not happy with me because probably she sticks close to me. I didnt want this to happen of course . -
if that guy is unhappy that's his bloody business and who cares abt it right?Originally posted by K800i:Dohz !
There is another guy that likes her , 22 years old .. well known .... but she doesnt like him and this guy is not happy with me because probably she sticks close to me. I didnt want this to happen of course .
let him do his whining.
call the cops if he resort to violence.
Don do something u don wish to beause of someone -
wow, 17 very young leh but hor, can pator pator 1st lor....no harm
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This is totally uncall for . That is why I post it here for advices. I have ex gfs but of the age gaps are as wide as this. I have a 29 years old friend with a 16 years old gal , they are ok with it but for me I am thinking carefully before making any decisions. So a more useful advice for me , I appreciate it.Originally posted by FBI:I know u guys have fetish for young gals. try control la[/color] -
i think if you proof to her parents that you are stable financially, and the marriage will not hamper her development (studies, etc), 17 and 26 isn't a problem.
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i have a feeeling shes using u as a shield for the 22 yr old guy -.-.. erm just a wild guess
how do u noe..if shes serious..well..how did u infer? nv trust woman lol! -
so u aspire to be like your fren?Originally posted by K800i:This is totally uncall for . That is why I post it here for advices. I have ex gfs but of the age gaps are as wide as this. I have a 29 years old friend with a 16 years old gal , they are ok with it but for me I am thinking carefully before making any decisions. So a more useful advice for me , I appreciate it.
i jus don want u to get cheated..
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hehehe. similar case. the only difference is i was 19 & he was 27 and my parents won't approve till i'm done with my tertiary education. but, as long as u both treasure each other, it'll turn out to be a lovey dovey relationshipOriginally posted by K800i:Hi , I am in a dilemma . I am 26 this year and there is this gal who is only 17 is in love with me. Her hints are pretty clear , I find her a nice companion to be with and I was thinking should I go ahead with the relationship even with her father doesnt approve of her having a relationship until she is 20 . She has already make it clear that she doesnt want to wait until 20. I was thinking if she's the one, by the time her marriage age comes, I will be more then ready to settle down ( I am thinking for the future as well) .
What do you guys think ?
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O , dont mind I ask , are both of you together currently ? Well for my case , I think about it more carefully before making a decision. She gave me a lot of hints already , I havent say yes or no to her yet.Originally posted by anixel:hehehe. similar case. the only difference is i was 19 & he was 27 and my parents won't approve till i'm done with my tertiary education. but, as long as u both treasure each other, it'll turn out to be a lovey dovey relationship -
yeap togetherOriginally posted by K800i:O , dont mind I ask , are both of you together currently ? Well for my case , I think about it more carefully before making a decision. She gave me a lot of hints already , I havent say yes or no to her yet.
add: yeah yeah you should think about it thoroughly. girls at our age usually act without really thinking of the long term consequences
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If you really like her, wait till she's 20. But you have to bear with the underground r/s. You'll have to control your urge because I'm sure that you want to give your first time to your wife. So, bottom line is, Go ahead with the r/s, but no se-x
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She's 17. Think very carefully!
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get into a relationship first lor. not like askign you to marry her now. try first lor see if suitable or seriosu or not first
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ask yourself do u like her.
My parents can't control me at that age. -
How old are you now..?Originally posted by anixel:yeap together
add: yeah yeah you should think about it thoroughly. girls at our age usually act without really thinking of the long term consequences -
Just like an elder brother or....?Originally posted by K800i:Yes, she is serious about me .
I dont know whether I love her , feeling confused .
Can I do without her ? I dont know, I think If i am with her, I can guide her like an elder brother.
Hmm... Anyway, there's quite a high chance that she (or things) might change in the future.... If you're already talking about marriage and settling down at this point... I think you've probably overlooked alot of things and underestimated many things... -
17yrs old? Just started tertiary studies not long ago?????Originally posted by K800i:Hi , I am in a dilemma . I am 26 this year and there is this gal who is only 17 is in love with me. Her hints are pretty clear , I find her a nice companion to be with and I was thinking should I go ahead with the relationship even with her father doesnt approve of her having a relationship until she is 20 . She has already make it clear that she doesnt want to wait until 20. I was thinking if she's the one, by the time her marriage age comes, I will be more then ready to settle down ( I am thinking for the future as well) .
What do you guys think ?
For me, i'll give it a miss, you see, i'm 26...what i want, this girl might not be able to accomodate or watsoever...Be it s3x or understanding/mindset/maturity...etc....One thing that i think you shld note is that, aged 26, you've been in the working society for quite some times already...more or less, you know what you want....but for a 17yrs old girl..(Note: I said "girl", not "lady" or "woman") whom has yet completed her studies and i can say that girls will tend to change when they enter into the working society...To be fair, almost everyone when stepped into the working society, will change, will mature, will have a different mindset/thingking/plans...blah blah blah....
For, do you know what she want? How true does her words hold? (Frankly speaking, no one knows..)....And how far can you go with her?
As you've mentioned earlier in your previous posts, you've quite a number of ex-gfs before...so, can you TAHAN? I'll be straightforward with you in this aspect for u n i are of the same age... -
till today, we've been together for about a year. and we're on LDR. well... he comes back once or twice in a month just to spend his time with me. you think that helps in making the r/s stronger? hmmm.... in my opinion, i think so. coz i found that i really appreciate him as of now compared to the first few weeks i accepted him...Originally posted by Devil1976:How old are you now..?
ehh... this thing is totally off from the topic
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hMz...seems like you're quite young....good luck to you....Originally posted by anixel:till today, we've been together for about a year. and we're on LDR. well... he comes back once or twice in a month just to spend his time with me. you think that helps in making the r/s stronger? hmmm.... in my opinion, i think so. coz i found that i really appreciate him as of now compared to the first few weeks i accepted him...
ehh... this thing is totally off from the topic