How Do I Tell A Guy I Can't Stop Thinking About Him??

• ShrodingersCat

  11 Apr 06, 23:32

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Hmm... It's more like striking a balance and depending on who you're with...

  ideally that is the case. But until your reach the point of maturity where you can maintain the balance of give and taking, and meeting someone who is equally understanding - then I think it is best not to have the illusion that simply because you are loving, you deserve to be loved.
  
  
• Devil1976

  12 Apr 06, 11:20

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  ideally that is the case. But until your reach the point of maturity where you can maintain the balance of give and taking, and meeting someone who is equally understanding - then I think it is best not to have the illusion that simply because you are loving, you deserve to be loved.
  
  

  Hmm... Yes. I think quite a handful of people suffers from that...
• tsh

  12 Apr 06, 18:11

  and sometimes because you love that person too much, you forget yourself too. If the other is thoughtful, s/he will appreciate and make you happy in return. However, there are also some people, those who like to take things for granted and not treasure what s/h has until losing it.
• tsh

  12 Apr 06, 18:44

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  so thats why you come to sgforums?
  
  well, send him an email

  
  
  Maybe it is more with me ...although we were just good friends ... not deeply in r/s ...but sometimes I do miss a good time I used to share with a Sing friend and that's why i come here ...Hehehe
  
• ozzy-gurl

  13 Apr 06, 07:33

  tsh..................you have a sing froend too?
• tsh

  14 Apr 06, 13:58

  Yes.
  
  So whenever I transit in Sing, when the air plane lands on the ground, I feel like he is waiting to pick me at the gate. When the planes takes off, it stirs my emotions up. When I come back to Australia, I miss the Sing English accent. When I walk around Mel Complex, I miss the time we had in Genting. It was a deep r/s, but it was a special moment I treasured in my life when knowing him.
• pretzel

  17 Apr 06, 10:03

  ooh man i love blondes. are you blonde
• cyrusv

  17 Apr 06, 20:02

  Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:

  Well i have a very big problem that has been bugging me for the last 5 months! there is this guy i really,really like.i spent a month and a half with him when i first met him,at my work.i clicked with him from the first moment i met him.we became close,and then he had to go home to sg!
  
  he knew i like him a little bit when he left,,,,,,but i dont know how to tell him that he is what i think about every day!
  
  at first i thought i just got along well with him like a friend,as i always get along with guys better than with girls.
  
  but as time went on,i found myself crying when he left.....and i think i love him.
  
  i am going to be seeing him soon,but i think he has a gf now.
  
  how am i supposed to be happy for him,and act as if i dont have anymore feelings for him than a friend should have?
  
  i dont want to put him in a bad position,and i dont want to embariss myself.
  
  but i feel like i have to tell him how i feel. i know he's excited to be seeing me again soon,but i dont know if he likes me as anything more than a friend now.
  
  please help...im so confused....i dont want to make the biggest mistake of my life.
  
  i could tell him i think i love him.....but then he might freak out and i could lose his friendship.
  
  or i could not tell him,and i could lose any chance i might have of being with him!!
  
  help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  same guy in ur other forum?