How do you check or know if your gf is cheating on you...?
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Get rid of the b!tch. You'll end up happier and she'll be less of a burden when she actually DOES cheat on you. May she rot in hell with others of her kind.Originally posted by freeman_coolman:hi, recently i sense that she is seeing someone else but i have no evidence jus feel.. she clears her msg in her phone all the time which leads to my suspicions.. and there are some numbers that are not in her phone book.. sometimes calling at mid-night..
previously her meetings with her ex who lives near her place was exposed by my fren.. who saw them being intimate at a coffee shop.. i confronted her and she half-confessed.. prompting me with questions (time, place.. etc).. i have half given hope on her..
recently.. she will walk orchard or visit the library alone.. to wat i know.. which i think otherwise.. maybe meetin up with someone or lookin out for new ones..
advise me @@.. there is not much trust from her and she dun give my much security.. hope do i get more trust from her? how to make me stop feeling this way? -
I agree with most of the folks here , just move on this relationship, remember this. YOU DESERVE BETTER !
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stop being led by her then, dump that bitch!
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freeman_coolman,
My advise to you will be to talk to her, and express your concern over this matter. For a couple to mantain a relationship, communication and trust are important.
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If you really like her and don't wish to give up this relatopnship simply. First ask yourself, will you accept her again IF she confessed about her fling to you. Will you be able to try trust her and treat like before? This is a big barrier for many guys who cant overcome this issue.
A relationship come together with open communication and mutual trust, not just by showering love and concern.
Be forward looking before you make any critical decision. Think and plan of your future now and together with her that may put a yes or no to this relationship. -
Hey there..
I think it is best to have a heart to heart talk with her. You have unanswered questions. It will be better if she tells you how exactly she feels. At least you don't have to live your life in paranoia. If she still wanna love you, then ask her what is lacking in you. What do you need to improve on. Tell her what you want from her. If both of you can't agree with each other it only goes to show both of you are not really compatible so it is best to go separate ways.
Whether your gf is really cheating on you, that is not confirmed but she is definitely not acting normal. If you wanna salvaged your relationship, go have the talk. Be sincere about it. If you can't be bothered, what the hell are you waiting for? Cast another bait lor.. -
I think u should just wait and see the situation... coz u also dunno did she really cheating on u... dun trust ur fren totally... how reliable it can be? find out urself by checking on her... later if she nv cheat on u, den u break off... den end up u regret and hiding at a corner and cry... if she really cheating on her, just break up... dun ever give in... coz she will think u can't live without her, and ride onto ur head... think twice before u make any decision k... good luck dude...
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How old are the both of ya...? What are your horoscopes...?Originally posted by freeman_coolman:its been 1 yr plus.. only recent weeks she did that..
she wans 100% attention from me.. but on the other hand.. i dun get that from her.. this had been talked about but nothing came back .. -
Acquire state of the art GPS device installed or embedded into her LV bag. 3G capability phones...
(provided u have 3G service or better) -
if ur feelings tell u that she is seeing some1 else then i suggest u trust ur feelings n break up wif her cuss if u dont, u will feel very broken up when sooner or later she leaves..try finding out from her and if u think she is lying to u i suggest u dump her b4 she dumps u...i've xperienced it once aready tts y i prefer to b single no stress but lonely la but nvm can save money and gt no distractions..
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Really got this kind of thing har?Originally posted by latterrain:Put a location detector in her bag.
Ask PI to find out for you. The most direct way
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if you r suspicious, ur 6th instinct may just b correct. then again, if it is correct, what r u gg to do abt it?
so y dun u just *screw* her and get over it? exact meaning u go figure out. -
I use to have the kind of feelings that u are having now.....but as i goes on in life...i realize that life is too short to think so much about it.....even if she did betray u right...sooner or later u will find out then...after that just break off.....dun think too much...u just make life hard for your ownself...take it easy as life is too short..... while u are with her....just treat her as good as u can...if she leave u....she only have to lose...so u will always be the winner....
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How you think matters. If you love her so much, you no need to care about others. Jealous will make man feel weak.
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dump the bitch. not worth it bro.
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She even got intimate with someone at a coffeeshop?!
That's it. No point keeping the bird in the cage if it wants to fly. No point cooping up a cat which has gone astray. We humans are animals by nature.
It the bird wants to fly, let it fly. Don't defy nature.
You are still only 20, long way ahead. Learn from this experience and be stronger!! Don't even bother to talk it out with her, she must be as young as you, if not, younger. You guys are not mature headed enough. Hearts will flicker easily.
Face it! Do not go soft even though she becomes nice to you again. Your indecision will be the cause of future pain. I guarantee you in the name of this universe. -
from the way u said it + her suspected cheating on u, i think she will readily accept the break up without much sadness, watever ur reason is. if she's not upset, u're not a bastard. so just do it.Originally posted by freeman_coolman:i have been with her for a year plus.. she is nice when she is.. but well.. it gets tiring when u meet someone new again.. rite?
i have to say that she is pretty.. im normal average joe.. she says that i treats her good.. but i have in mind that other guys can shower her with movie treats .. fancy dinners that i cant coz im still a student..
i jus cant find a reason to tell her tat.. to convince a breakup that dun make me look like a bast*r* -
Why must there be a bastard or a Bitch in every breakups?Originally posted by UandMe:from the way u said it + her suspected cheating on u, i think she will readily accept the break up without much sadness, watever ur reason is. if she's not upset, u're not a bastard. so just do it. -
its all about who dumps who first.Originally posted by M©+square:Why must there be a bastard or a Bitch in every breakups?
you're either seen as a bastard, or loser -
Why?Originally posted by coffeeortea:its all about who dumps who first.
you're either seen as a bastard, or loser -
My views are these...
Is there any misunderstanding or conflicts that happened to the both of you? Lack of communication? Lack of time together?
I usually dont encourage pple to break up as i believe that its a gift from fate that brings two together. Nt everyone is blessed with fate to be with someone they like.
Judging from ur post, i can see that u still care for her though tat wall of trust has been damaged.
Cool down. Being worked up and upset wont solve anything. Calm down. Relax.
Perhaps u could have a nice talk with her. At least u would know where the relationship is going.
I know u want to trust her. I know u want to rebuild this trust. But u cant do it solely on ur own.
Sit down over tea or coffeee. talk nicely to her. Dont flare up. Be calm throughout. U could always ask if theres anything tat she is unhappy about or anything that u have done wrongly. Note tat being upset n rising ur voice will neber work. Sound her out.
If her replies are delivered in a half hearted way or rather unsure manner, she is already in a state of confusion. If she doesnt wish to work things out, u can call it quits from there.. i guess..
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thanks dude.. i think the lastest reply serves quite a bit to my problem.. but some of your ar great .. like Maxsee.. thanks alot..
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so cheem and intellectual but is the best answer so far. but sometimes its quite hard to talk face to face....Originally posted by babyreyes:My views are these...
Is there any misunderstanding or conflicts that happened to the both of you? Lack of communication? Lack of time together?
I usually dont encourage pple to break up as i believe that its a gift from fate that brings two together. Nt everyone is blessed with fate to be with someone they like.
Judging from ur post, i can see that u still care for her though tat wall of trust has been damaged.
Cool down. Being worked up and upset wont solve anything. Calm down. Relax.
Perhaps u could have a nice talk with her. At least u would know where the relationship is going.
I know u want to trust her. I know u want to rebuild this trust. But u cant do it solely on ur own.
Sit down over tea or coffeee. talk nicely to her. Dont flare up. Be calm throughout. U could always ask if theres anything tat she is unhappy about or anything that u have done wrongly. Note tat being upset n rising ur voice will neber work. Sound her out.
If her replies are delivered in a half hearted way or rather unsure manner, she is already in a state of confusion. If she doesnt wish to work things out, u can call it quits from there.. i guess..
I hope u both be fine..
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+1Originally posted by FireIce:if u are oredi feeling this way, whether she is relli cheating on u or not will not change ur mind anymore...
the most impt thing about being together is breached....
even if u do find out tt she is not guilty, this thing will be constantly on ur mind and u will view the rship differently...
unless u can trust her fully again, else...
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when the r/s breakdown, not about who is at faultOriginally posted by coffeeortea:its all about who dumps who first.
you're either seen as a bastard, or loser
both parties are involved and responsible for it not working out...