Girl chasing Guy
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How well would you agree with this statement?
'When a girl chase a guy, the guy will never appreciate her more than one that he chased. Even if they ended up in a relationship, she will often be 'inferior'...'
Disclaimer: This doesn't represent my stand, just wanted to bring this to an AA discussion and stir some mental 'agony'.
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Define chasing
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"Chasing Guy" also have techniques right? Haha!
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left hand holding an axe..Originally posted by rainee:Define chasing
right ahdn holding a gun.. -
ok, i have never done that thenOriginally posted by blackchickenahkai:left hand holding an axe..
right ahdn holding a gun.. -
that one is when it turns sourOriginally posted by rainee:ok, i have never done that then -
no leh...even if it turns sour, that's not my style osoOriginally posted by blackchickenahkai:that one is when it turns sour -
* scary look on rainee's face *Originally posted by rainee:no leh...even if it turns sour, that's not my style oso
women/girl/small girl who are not so brutal on the outside are v evil with in
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no leh...usually i just admit defeat and then walk away lor...wat for torture myself over someone who is no longer concerned abt meOriginally posted by blackchickenahkai:* scary look on rainee's face *
women/girl/small girl who are not so brutal on the outside are v evil with in -
Originally posted by rainee:Define chasing
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Originally posted by CoolMyth: is not the definition leh
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all the symptoms of ...............Originally posted by rainee:no leh...usually i just admit defeat and then walk away lor...wat for torture myself over someone who is no longer concerned abt me 
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yes?Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:all the symptoms of ............... -
Originally posted by rainee:yes?
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really no feeling when got dumped? -
*rubs chin*
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of cos got la...Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:
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really no feeling when got dumped?
but after a while, i will realize life will still go on ma, wat for hating someone and torturing myself... -
Nope! I disgree,it all depend on the couple maturity and how they treat each other.. As a guy I will not think that way,if she is good and someone I like ,I will accept and cherish. Treat her like treasure.
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I think that will put the man at a higher position bcos he will feel that he's being wanted, he's so good that the girl dun mind chasing after him.
But whether the man will appreciate her or not.. I think it depends ba.. if initially both of them like each other, but the girl took the initiative, then I think the guy will still treat her nice nice. But if it was all one sided, and the guy is ok to be with her but dun feel anything for her, then maybe he wun appreciate her. -
it varies over individuals....
sum ppl r n r nt wat dis statement says so can't really agree or disagree to dis statement as it applies on each independently....
cannot juz generalise everyone based on it... -
Actually depends la...if the guy already has feelings for her, and then he is the passive type who doesnt want to make the first move, then the girl makes it instead, that wouldn't be so bad I guess. Cos the interest is already there for both parties.
But if the guy initially doesn't feel anything for her and he got together with her just because he wants to feel wanted or maybe treating her as a substitute/spare tyre (who wouldn't want something that is being offered to them continuously, free of charge?), then yea, the girl might be the one suffering in the r/s. -
Maybe what im saying next is too generalised.. but it really sets me wondering..
if the statement is true, then why..
when guy chase girl, girl will appreciate.
when girl chase guy, guy wun appreciate. -
hmm depends ba...some guy chase girl oso the girl wun appreciate if the chemistry and feelings are not there. Similarly, if a girl chase after a guy who feels that he has no feelings for her, the guy oso wun appreciate...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Maybe what im saying next is too generalised.. but it really sets me wondering..
if the statement is true, then why..
when guy chase girl, girl will appreciate.
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generally girl chasing aftr boy is an advantage to some boys..
i have seen a few of my friend who got chased after by girls..
they play a fool with them and then dump them..
sicko..why dont chase after me
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Originally posted by rainee:
so agree...
[b]Actually depends la...if the guy already has feelings for her, and then he is the passive type who doesnt want to make the first move, then the girl makes it instead, that wouldn't be so bad I guess. Cos the interest is already there for both parties.
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coz i'm like dat...haha -
if no feeling, then y chase in the first place?Originally posted by rainee:hmm depends ba...some guy chase girl oso the girl wun appreciate if the chemistry and feelings are not there. Similarly, if a girl chase after a guy who feels that he has no feelings for her, the guy oso wun appreciate...
so desperate ma? chase le then see whether can cultivate feeling?