am i doomed to be alone?
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so shld i say this
u seem in perfect condition
Come join me
Im on my way home..
care for a race?
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i'm speakin from a guy's perspectives: Most guys aren't rely looking for some gorgeous, model-like GF. Yes we would prob look a second time at the babe with big boobs or hourglass figure... but ultimately it boils down to "connection"... ur ability to share ur thoughts and feel at ease when u are with the gal...Originally posted by Baoliandeng:i hope to find someone who can look beyond outer beauty.you mentioned plain janes who have bf..they have managed to find guys who dont mind looks..but go for personality i guess...
there are some guys who upon seeing the looks of a person will just feel she cant make it and refuse to know her better
As my fren put it, there are 3 types of gals in this world
1) The type to be friends, buddy for a long time (looks dun matter)
2)The type for one-night stand, fulfilling all our sexual fantasies (of course looks and figure matters)
and lastly
3)the type as GF ... she wld fall somewhere between the 2. -
I'm 23 going on 24 this year and I've also never been in a relationship before. I believe it's better to take things slowly and make sure you choose as your partner someone who's genuinely compaitable and in love with you, rather than rush headlong into a relationship just because you think you need to.
As for what guys look for in a girl, appearances are not really as important as you might think. What really matters is a kind gentle heart and good temperament. -
true, very true.....cannot rush, if not might end up with a divorce......
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no lah. u're not one of the rare ones, dear. there're many girls out there like you (or maybe, those ard me). Maybe it just happens that the guys that you like dont like you, while those that went after you are those that you loathe? So it seems as if no one was ever after you.Originally posted by Baoliandeng:i guess im one of the rare ones to encounter this problem..he is avoiding me in e company.and last heard he is shifting to another company.am i really so repulsive?
sometimes,when i say hi to him on msn,he simply put away and his status and refuse to greet me or just say got it..
Cheer up, there's more to life than guys.. who cares abt them?
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hmmm juz dat somebody doesnt reciprocate the love uve shown doesnt mean that there's seriously a big problem with u. haha sometimes our dear mr Cupid shot the arrow of love wrongly and in the end sad stuffs happens.
Let's nt get dejected when we're rejected shall we =]]]] *Nvr noes who's in love with ya smilE* 
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i guess alot of ppl are unattached b4. applies to mi, SNA for 22yrs le. i've low self esteem n is tryin hard to improve.
sometimes really wonder izzit appearance or watever which makes mi mei nan ren yuan. sometimes when i'm alone, i yearn to haf someone for mi n wld like to get into a r/s at that moment. but i noe tis kind of thing cant rush one, so i'll juz wait n enjoy singlehood. i dun wan to get into a r/s simply for companionship w/o love. at the moment, i must say i'm still as happy being a single. my attached friends envy mi, envy my freedom. we can do so much things they cant do.
so u're not alone! u still haf friends, haf us. guess the few of us can haf some pte talk when we're feelin low n down sometimes. feel free to pm mi.. -
Perhaps you can consider joining dating clubs such as SDU and such.
I think probably it could be because there is lack of contact/ exposure. -
You are doomed to be alons if you doom yourself to be alone. Why not cruise the bars? Don't sleep with anybody if you don't want to... hint, to a older man, all youngs girls are good looking no matter how they look....Originally posted by Baoliandeng:i have never been in a r/s. now 24 years old already.in the past, i had several crushes on a few guys and have been in love with a guy for the past 3 years.i confessed recently to my colleague but he simply rejected me crudely and brushed me aside.am i destined to be single? when i see that he is so upset over a failed r/s , i feel so bad.its as if im worthless ,so much inferior compared to his ex,or girls that he is interested in. We had several heart-to-heart conversations but ive failed to win his heart. its seem so impossible to him to be in a r/s with him .he even said something like yes to sex but absolutely no to love.am i so worthless and unlovable in his eyes? told a friend about that.he said something like u think he will like u meh with yr this kind of pattern.he makes it up as if im so awful.im losing my limited self-confidence..I had to ber rejected.i have little hopes of finding a guy who is willing to accept my love
no guys have ever expressed interest in me.i wonder is anything wrong with my looks.pls advise