BGR Problem: What should I do now
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I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.
With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.
I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong. -
u think too much..
or not enuf details -
U are too young and she is too young to make head or tails of what a relationship is about. Take it easy and go one step at a time. If she pulls back, let her and just observe... just know that whatever bad feelings you are having now will pass. You will feel better after sometime.Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.
With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.
I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong.
Most relationship do not work out so you will be facing this type of "problems" over and over again.... -
ccall her la....
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just like you ran off and didn't follow up with your purchase
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You wanna end your life just because of what...?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.
With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.
I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong.
If you think you could get very upset over things, don't think too much... There're so many things which you still don't know what's happening... Don't spectaculate too much, let alone to kill yourself...
And like you've said, this is your 1st relationship.... I know it might be hard for you to accept and understand at this point, but don't be too narrow-minded... You can spend time with your sleeping pills, might as well you try to find more time to communicate with her...? How old are you btw...? -
maybe she is in a bad mood.give her some time to cool down first then msg her again another day.i guess by then after she has cooled down,she will reply to u.dun worry.
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well, gals tend to be moody (especially if its time
of the mth) .....just dun think too much of it k?
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girl shy not sure what to say to her friends.Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.
With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.
I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong.
give her time as long she is still talking to you is alrite.
usual starting sequence for relationship lar
normal lar... -
I didn't take the sleeping pills at all just now.. Went to sleep instead.. She've replied me asking me to let her reconsider our relationship because of some reasons.. Although feeling better now, I still don't want to lose her...
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I'm 17...Originally posted by Devil1976:You wanna end your life just because of what...?
If you think you could get very upset over things, don't think too much... There're so many things which you still don't know what's happening... Don't spectaculate too much, let alone to kill yourself...
And like you've said, this is your 1st relationship.... I know it might be hard for you to accept and understand at this point, but don't be too narrow-minded... You can spend time with your sleeping pills, might as well you try to find more time to communicate with her...? How old are you btw...? -
Only 17 and you wanna kill yourself just because of this ar....? This is only your 1st relationship ley... If you die already you might be missing someone who could really be LOVING YOU SO MUCH during the later part of your life...? Or who knows a few years down the line you might just coincidentally meet her again...?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I'm 17...
Nobod can really tell what would be in store for you in the future... Like Forrest Gump's famous mama said... "Life is like a box of chocolate... You'll never know what you'll get....." All I know for now is that if you choose to end your life now... It's just like sealing up your own box of chocolate.... You'll NEVER get to know how it's gonna end nor a chance to enjoy your chocolates...
In life, sometimes you can try to MAKE THE BEST out of THINGS.... But sometimes when you can't...? You can always go for 2nd or 3rd best...?
A Love relationship cannot be forced... Would you be happy to know that though she's by your side but she's really unhappy...? -
What do u know?how old r u?
Right on still schooling i guess...
n what thinking of gulping down slping pills is already bad and naive
Grow up,u still have alot to see of this world -
wah lau eh lucky guy 17 n u got a gf........i 18 also dun hav larh...........
hmm maybe she is afraid of frenz see u n her together ba...some pple like this de, dey will feel v shy when pple see dem with their bf or gf........
anyway even in the end u all break or remain as frenz dey are nth to worry abt....she is a mature in a way dat she tinks she nid to re-tink abt relationships.... -
say..u guys juz got together m i right?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I didn't take the sleeping pills at all just now.. Went to sleep instead.. She've replied me asking me to let her reconsider our relationship because of some reasons.. Although feeling better now, I still don't want to lose her...
so when she made the choice to go steady with u..haven she already done all the thinking she ought to have done?or is shejumping on the band wagon juz like everyone else..
Hey!i can read her mind...shes not mature for a steady r/s...
say juz bcuz her friend know abt u both being togetehr...shes thinking of backing out?
dosent she even udnerstand the fundemental of a r/s?
its not about u both..its about both u n her and the people around u..
think thro it boy!
whats important whats not
realise it now!
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hip hop ur wrong la...Originally posted by hiphop2009:wah lau eh lucky guy 17 n u got a gf........i 18 also dun hav larh...........
hmm maybe she is afraid of frenz see u n her together ba...some pple like this de, dey will feel v shy when pple see dem with their bf or gf........
anyway even in the end u all break or remain as frenz dey are nth to worry abt....she is a mature in a way dat she tinks she nid to re-tink abt relationships....
considering her choice bcuz of being seen with her bf?
so ego comes first...DUMB! -
Nearly took all sleeping pills at one go? one pill by one pill? Details?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.
With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.
I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong.
Like that and you wanna die liao....cham..... -
Whole prescription for a week.Originally posted by dcx:Nearly took all sleeping pills at one go? one pill by one pill? Details?
Like that and you wanna die liao....cham..... -
Sigh, today's young people take such inconsequential matters so seriously. Not even a real problem and immediately think of taking your life.
It is that so unbearable?
1st sign of any problem and want to give up your life. Is your life so worthless?
I suggest you to reflect and go through in detail what's important in your life. I hope not to see you on ST, saying boy takes his life due to relationship uncertainty. -
Actually I got other problems which I've overcome. But I can't overcome this problem. Though I know we may not break up after she reconsider, I also fear that she will want to break up. And yes, the wait is very unbearable.Originally posted by pwnz0r:Sigh, today's young people take such inconsequential matters so seriously. Not even a real problem and immediately think of taking your life.
It is that so unbearable?
1st sign of any problem and want to give up your life. Is your life so worthless?
I suggest you to reflect and go through in detail what's important in your life. I hope not to see you on ST, saying boy takes his life due to relationship uncertainty.
If you ever see me MIA from sgf and the next day paper report of a suicide case, then it's me. -
Originally posted by photo_seeker:Actually I got other problems which I've overcome. But I can't overcome this problem. Though I know we may not break up after she reconsider, I also fear that she will want to break up. And yes, the wait is very unbearable.
If you ever see me MIA from sgf and the next day paper report of a suicide case, then it's me. -
Sad to hear that.. Is that one girl worth your life? How about your family? Your parents that brought you up? Do all those count for nothing?
I don't know the meaning of suffering and I can say for certain that you do not either.
With your kind of thinking and attitude, she might indeed be better off without you. I see you no up. -
Is this an undergrd r/s?
Classmates saw nia cannot ma? -
I think she's shy. She've already told me to wait for her. Moderator, can close this thread for me ?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Is this an undergrd r/s?
Classmates saw nia cannot ma? -
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