BGR Problem: What should I do now
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What other problems you have?Originally posted by photo_seeker:Actually I got other problems which I've overcome. But I can't overcome this problem. Though I know we may not break up after she reconsider, I also fear that she will want to break up. And yes, the wait is very unbearable.
If you ever see me MIA from sgf and the next day paper report of a suicide case, then it's me. -
Why reopened?Originally posted by M©+square:edited: Thread reopen -
Family Problems.Originally posted by Devil1976:What other problems you have? -
lol, some pple like dat wad.....Originally posted by olala:hip hop ur wrong la...
considering her choice bcuz of being seen with her bf?
so ego comes first...DUMB!
maybe be dere are some unknown reasons?..... -
Open yr bible and ask God for direction,don't do stupid things! Let God leads u,if not,then u be Christian for what?Originally posted by photo_seeker:Actually I got other problems which I've overcome. But I can't overcome this problem. Though I know we may not break up after she reconsider, I also fear that she will want to break up. And yes, the wait is very unbearable.
If you ever see me MIA from sgf and the next day paper report of a suicide case, then it's me. -
I know. I managed to call my friend and speak with her regarding this and prayed about. Feeling better now.Originally posted by CannyOng:Open yr bible and ask God for direction,don't do stupid things! Let God leads u,if not,then u be Christian for what? -
17 years old also wanna suicide.....1 word ...siao !! wat so big deal ? in our age only got puppy love....but no true love.....FOREVER LOVE never Exist...plus tizz us ur 1st gf....dun worry so much..later u get a new 1 u will forget tiz 1 liaozz......Steady boy !!
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I know I'll get this kind of response. It's alright.Originally posted by siongs:17 years old also wanna suicide.....1 word ...siao !! wat so big deal ? in our age only got puppy love....but no true love.....FOREVER LOVE never Exist...plus tizz us ur 1st gf....dun worry so much..later u get a new 1 u will forget tiz 1 liaozz......Steady boy !! -
1st of all, no suicide. You suicide I go your body kick you then say you siao ah!
2nd of all, 1st relationships are always like that. Tend to have a heavier stronger impact on people.
3rd of all, relax man, if she's not meant to be she's not meant to be. At the end of the day, 2 scenarios. She still be with you or she's not. Don't force yourself on something that might just not work out.
Cos you wouldn't know, going down the breaking up road might just lead you to the REAL girl of your dreams. Your future wife. Your love of your life. And you are her love of her life.
Nothing wrong with being emotionally affected, its perfectly normal. But have some control, and discipline in your mind.
Last of all, no suicide. Don't be dumb. -
I've broken up with my GF already. Handling things well.
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Take care ya?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've broken up with my GF already. Handling things well.
Anything can PM me.
p.s i'll be in Genting tomorrow, so don't bother sms me.
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well...there's always the first time...when i broke up with my first...didn't seem to be a big deal for me...Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've broken up with my GF already. Handling things well.
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Be friends with ur ex
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just pray... youre a christian nothing can get you down
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Are they bothering you much now?Originally posted by photo_seeker:Family Problems.
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You sure yeah?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've broken up with my GF already. Handling things well.
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It is for the best.Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've broken up with my GF already. Handling things well. -
So that you can come back and 'la kopi' with us....Originally posted by photo_seeker:Why reopened? " -
maybe you should really end your life now... becuz in life there are much more worse things than this... sooner or later might as well do it soon.
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hey bro, ur onli 17! dun tink of dying so easliy...as a senior, as someone been thru this thing b4 and as a christian brother to u... i seriously advice u to relax..cool down and think!
hmmm she may be moody..she may have 2nd thoughts abt the relationship with u...since she told u abt it..why don't u take the time to cool down and think abt the future of ur r/s too... i know how much it hurts to break up..been thru tt 5 times alreadi... mostly separated for various reasons ranging from gf runnin off with someone else to juz well clashes of personality...and well i definitely know how much it hurts to lose someone u realli cared abt.. but well ur only 17..u will definitely find someone better to spend ur future with..
and as a christian..we always believe in God making a way for us rite? well how would u know if she is someone God decides for u? God will know and God will let u know who the one is gonna be and when it is rite for u to marry ok... look to ur bible...read the gospels...look to JOhn 12:14..anything u ask in His name shall be given to u...so yea..ask for direction in life...i did and felt the burden rise frm me..so bro as a christian brother to u...i'll ask u to pray and read the bible...get away frm ur sucidial thots...its nt frm God...
ok if u need animore advice or well something frm ur christian fren here...feel free to pm me k -
Happy to hear you have moved on. Please do remember this occasion that suicide is never a solution.
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Well, really thnz for your advice. Actually I'm also at fault for ignoring the unequally yoke relationship and went ahead with it. This break-up is actually more of a clash of personalities cause she was saying she don't like one of my point and thus the break-up. But she didn't specify and don't wish to say. Well, I don't want to force her.Originally posted by aknoo123:hey bro, ur onli 17! dun tink of dying so easliy...as a senior, as someone been thru this thing b4 and as a christian brother to u... i seriously advice u to relax..cool down and think!
hmmm she may be moody..she may have 2nd thoughts abt the relationship with u...since she told u abt it..why don't u take the time to cool down and think abt the future of ur r/s too... i know how much it hurts to break up..been thru tt 5 times alreadi... mostly separated for various reasons ranging from gf runnin off with someone else to juz well clashes of personality...and well i definitely know how much it hurts to lose someone u realli cared abt.. but well ur only 17..u will definitely find someone better to spend ur future with..
and as a christian..we always believe in God making a way for us rite? well how would u know if she is someone God decides for u? God will know and God will let u know who the one is gonna be and when it is rite for u to marry ok... look to ur bible...read the gospels...look to JOhn 12:14..anything u ask in His name shall be given to u...so yea..ask for direction in life...i did and felt the burden rise frm me..so bro as a christian brother to u...i'll ask u to pray and read the bible...get away frm ur sucidial thots...its nt frm God...
ok if u need animore advice or well something frm ur christian fren here...feel free to pm me k
I've gotten my Christian Friends to really pray for me and with me. Now the thought is really gone. I think it's because it's my first relationship and I'm very serious about it and thus the withdrawal is a hard hit to me. I know God will show me the way He wants me to go. Since I've also drifted from God recently and my spiriture life isn't growing., maybe He's using this to bring me back to Him. -
I know. Thanks for the support that I've gotten.Originally posted by pwnz0r:Happy to hear you have moved on. Please do remember this occasion that suicide is never a solution. -
Never consider suicide as one of your escapes.
Glad you figured things out. Now, want to go to some parties? I can introduce some girls to you.
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i know you like me!!Originally posted by photo_seeker:I know. Thanks for the support that I've gotten.
i kow you really do!!!