My b/f has asked me to take some pictures
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ask him to take his naked pict..Originally posted by kettie:My b/f has asked me to take some pictures to send him becasue he is working overseas. But the problem is he wants to see me sexy, showing my breast like those online. He said he wants to feel good with me and by doing that, he stays loyal with me?? I dont like this idea because I think it is quite cheap for a gilr to do so. I feel ashamed to do it. I said , when we have holidyas together, we can make love as how much as we like, but not taking this kind of pcitures. We ended in argument and now a cold war.
I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring; But it becomes distant r/s, not sure how our future will be. I just have some thoughts in mind , but not share with him.
What should I do? I am right. We have been together for 3 yrs.
if he post on9 send his picts to me
i'll help u mass post it in all the forums and blogs
pls dont send me yr pict
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dont do that if youre uncomfortable if he loves you he will respect you
judging by his response he takes *** more important than your realtionship -
don't like to do it then tell him you don't like.
if you want to appease him, you'll think of other ways to make him happy rather than providing an outright "NO" -
Quite contradicting. Nice and well educated, but he does not seem to respect your decision, your wish and your body.Originally posted by kettie:I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring.
Once taken, I believe you have no rights to the pictures and he may do what he want them.
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Dun send la if he love u any photo he will also cherish if he want only sexy photo of u it means he love your body more then u as a person ,u maybe need 2 reconsider this relationship ,u should really talk 2 him
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Hmmm... Frankly advising against doing what he had asked for. You won't know what would he do with the pictures.
Relationship doesn't build on just demands, it also builds on understanding and mutual respect.
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he wants to be naughty sometimes so play along but dun show ur parts... cos the tammy incident might occur on u...
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ask him show hand first
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if he said that he wants the pics becos he miss your sexy body, i can undst...Originally posted by kettie:My b/f has asked me to take some pictures to send him becasue he is working overseas. But the problem is he wants to see me sexy, showing my breast like those online. He said he wants to feel good with me and by doing that, he stays loyal with me?? I dont like this idea because I think it is quite cheap for a gilr to do so. I feel ashamed to do it. I said , when we have holidyas together, we can make love as how much as we like, but not taking this kind of pcitures. We ended in argument and now a cold war.
I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring; But it becomes distant r/s, not sure how our future will be. I just have some thoughts in mind , but not share with him.
What should I do? I am right. We have been together for 3 yrs.
but i find it funny if he thinks that by doing it, he will be loyal to you... so is he saying he will be unfaithful if u dont send the pics to him? well... the final decision u still have to make yrself... -
photoshop it?
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From my observations, long distance relationships especially those where the seperation is for several years, have almost a 100% failure rate.
So don't be naive and think that sending him your nude photos will keep him loyal. -
Absolutely not.
Ever read the newspapers? There have been cases of guys who make their girlfriends take naked photos of themselves. And when the relationship is over, the guys blackmail the girls using the pics.
And even if the two of you don't break up, ever thought about what may happen if your bf loses the pics and they fall into the wrong hands? (Hint: Tammy.)
In the first place, if your boyfriend was such a nice guy, he wouldn't have asked you to take naked pics of yourself. He is asking you to do this out of lust, not love. He sees you as nothing more than a sex toy for his own pleasure.
I say dump this jerk and find another guy who knows how to respect women. -
Originally posted by kettie:My b/f has asked me to take some pictures to send him becasue he is working overseas. But the problem is he wants to see me sexy, showing my breast like those online. He said he wants to feel good with me and by doing that, he stays loyal with me?? I dont like this idea because I think it is quite cheap for a gilr to do so. I feel ashamed to do it. I said , when we have holidyas together, we can make love as how much as we like, but not taking this kind of pcitures. We ended in argument and now a cold war.
I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring; But it becomes distant r/s, not sure how our future will be. I just have some thoughts in mind , but not share with him.
What should I do? I am right. We have been together for 3 yrs.
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just take a pic without showing ur head/face and any prominent features lor... and use a blank wall as background. if he still not satisfied then forget it.Originally posted by kettie:My b/f has asked me to take some pictures to send him becasue he is working overseas. But the problem is he wants to see me sexy, showing my breast like those online. He said he wants to feel good with me and by doing that, he stays loyal with me?? I dont like this idea because I think it is quite cheap for a gilr to do so. I feel ashamed to do it. I said , when we have holidyas together, we can make love as how much as we like, but not taking this kind of pcitures. We ended in argument and now a cold war.
I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring; But it becomes distant r/s, not sure how our future will be. I just have some thoughts in mind , but not share with him.
What should I do? I am right. We have been together for 3 yrs. -
He needs it to wank.
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u are right in inisisting that u do not do what he says. Because u must think of the future too. What happens if u 2 do not end up 2gether? Would he post those pics of u online for others 2 see? Why should u satisfy his boredom by doing things that are against ur wishes?
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Just take a normal full body pic with sexy poses but not showing anything that u are uncomfortable with.
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like that also nice guy.
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Ok tell you what... Go ahead and take the pictures then email them to me... I will help you to decide whether they are suitable for your bf
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Me 2 Me 2Originally posted by freakass:Ok tell you what... Go ahead and take the pictures then email them to me... I will help you to decide whether they are suitable for your bf 
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Ask yourself what is the reason he gives as showing him it will make him loyal? could it be him wanting to submit to some Adult site? and wanting to see your breasts make him miss you less??
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So if he don't see those pics, he won't stay loyal and go fool around. Hahahaha, kids.
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we dont need another tammy..........
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people. i dont want to be a wet blanket but this is AUNT AGONY not BAR.
please treat all posts for help here as real n practise giving the benifit of doubt.
thank you.