are you scared of "paiseh" ?

• forfun_cash

  22 Apr 06, 14:41

  i have this problem .. everytime when i go out with my frens , we will tend to dare each other to ask numbers frm any chiobu we see ..but im just really scared of paiseh ..
  
  recently , my frens and i went to bugerking ..he dared me to go to the counter and ask for mee siam and nasi lemak .. i was like .. WTF .. who will dare to ??... then i dared him back .. " if u dare i give u 10$ " .. he immediately stood up and headed straight to the counter ..but to my amaze , all he got frm the staff was a big bright smile ...
  
  im beginning to think tat whether im adnormal or wat .. why everything also scared of paiseh .. is there any way to cure it ?
• lalala1999

  22 Apr 06, 14:45

  dont let your friends force you to do anything that you dont want to.
• browniebaobao

  22 Apr 06, 15:21

  aiyo.. i bet he din ask for nasi lemak and mee siam.. instead he might have sweet talked to the lady, say she's pretty watever.
  
  y ur frens so bo liao wan ar?
• Anti-RuleSS

  22 Apr 06, 19:46

  Don't ever scare of paiseh. Paiseh attitude will ruin your career.
• hisoka

  22 Apr 06, 19:50

  so easy to cheat our money leh. the 10 bucks i cna just go up and tell them its fro a dare and then ask them lor. or as the other guy said just talk cock
• Ito_^

  22 Apr 06, 19:55

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  so easy to cheat our money leh. the 10 bucks i cna just go up and tell them its fro a dare and then ask them lor. or as the other guy said just talk cock

  i'd do that.
  
  but if im the staff, i'd say out his request aloud and make him pai seh instead.
• SexyChin

  22 Apr 06, 20:02

  Wah, $10 so easy to earn. Anyone could have done that.
• Patrik

  22 Apr 06, 20:14

  
  Nasi lemak?
  Chicken rice dun want chicken.
  Fishball mee dun want mee.
  Go to a fishmonger and ask for pork.
  
• papercut87

  22 Apr 06, 21:05

  do you have to listen to everything ur friends ask you to do?
• ozzy-gurl

  22 Apr 06, 22:02

  what is paiseh?????
• R3SsH|n

  22 Apr 06, 22:11

  Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:

  what is paiseh?????

  shy...embarrassed...
  
  welcome to singapore
• alwaysdisturbed

  22 Apr 06, 22:13

  juz b urself la...
  wats wrong?
  
  
• forfun_cash

  22 Apr 06, 23:23

  i know i dun have to listen to my frens .. but the thing is .. im not happy with myself being so humji ..becos this will hinder me in finding jobs and galfrens .. right ?
• NewAge

  22 Apr 06, 23:32

  i also afraid of paiseh.
• CoolMyth

  22 Apr 06, 23:36

  Me too.
• The man who was death

  22 Apr 06, 23:38

  
  
  i paiseh and blur
• Ledikusa

  22 Apr 06, 23:41

  next time those of dares happen, jus face it... If the girl is really pretty, no harm in noeing her.. but the wiser thing to do is just change the subject with ur friend... Like suddenly asking about some DOTA stuffs.. Or ask abt the basketball match the previous day.. Blar blar blar.. .DAring him back is the stupidiest thing to do..
• Unidentified

  22 Apr 06, 23:42

  i though im the only one afraid of paiseh
  there more actually
  
  - i dun dare to speak to a girl i know happen to pass by me , but if someone i know better , got no prob
  - dun dare to ask receptionist question , dunno why leh but if i really got to speak to them i would plan my speech 1st
  
  many many more , cant finish them ........
• Unidentified

  22 Apr 06, 23:43

  is there a cure for it ?
  or any way to solve this prob
• playmemory

  22 Apr 06, 23:47

  Train yourself not to get pai say ... that's the solution ...
  
  Its very very simple ...
• hyperactivechatterbox

  23 Apr 06, 02:47

  I think you are just nervous... Dun think about it, just go there and chiong!!!!! Once its over and done with, you can gloss over it again. Cheers.
• latterrain

  23 Apr 06, 03:15

  You can overcome your paiseh problem by looking at everyone and smile at them
• ubermagicseller

  23 Apr 06, 06:31

  If you are paiseh because your friend dare you to ask for number, first thing that comes to my mind is that you are too retarded.
  
  Tell your friend to get a life or try some sport which is more healthy.
• ozzy-gurl

  23 Apr 06, 13:53

  oh ok...i inderstand now...paiseh means embarissed or shy..got it.
  
  well i used to be shy a lot...i wouldnt even say hi to someone if they said hi to me first......but i cured myself.
  
  it takes a lot of courage.but it is a great feeling when you make yourself walk up to a stranger and introduce yourself...dont feel intimidated by anyone.......you are you,and if they dont like you,thats their problem.you shouldnt be shy......you get a lot more out of life if you take every chance you get......you never know what you might miss out on if you dont introduce yourself to the pretty girl at the office (example)
• acegem84

  23 Apr 06, 18:01

  haha it's alrie to feel embarrassed. dat's the basic instincts of human. alrite. haha bt alrite wat. it's alrite to ask number wat....dats wat i do whenever those gers who apporaches me to do some dbs surveyS haha! *you fu chu you shou huo* bt nt everytime gers r willing yeh haha!