Relationship with my cousin
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Dear friends,
For months i've been having a problem.....a relationship with my cousin. Is it appropriate to fall in love with a relative? I do understand people have experience the same thing as me. I am afraid my family will disapprove...what should i do?
I am really in love with her, its true love.... -
distant cousin or?
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My father's neice....Originally posted by rainee:distant cousin or? -
so far u have oni been describing yr feelings. does your cousin feel the same way? n how far into the r/s have both of you gone?
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same surname so more. cannotOriginally posted by cannonprinter:My father's neice....
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bo bian liao lor.....can't do with it....Originally posted by cannonprinter:My father's neice.... -
Err.. as far as i know.. ur problem is not tt remote. There instances of such case n i wouldnt classify tt as incest though. But somehow or another, it's not as accepted today compared to say 50yrs ago.
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oh my gawd!!....incest!!
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erm.... true love conquers all?
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same surname meh?Originally posted by LinYu:same surname so more. cannot
cannot the niece be his dad's sister's daughter?
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the reason why incest or a r/s with a close relative is forbidden is because it might cause your offsprings to be born handicapped in a way or another...
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ya ya...Originally posted by LinYu:same surname so more. cannot
dang mei cannot, biao mei...jiak!
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it's "tang"...Originally posted by Ah Cek:ya ya...
dang mei cannot, biao mei...jiak! -
what i understand is....if its ur father niece, dan its a no-no.
if its ur mother niece, dan maybe can.
but to be absolutely safe, its best not to go into a r/ship with relatives.
Its just...unthinkable.... -
fathers niece does not nessacarily mean same surname.Originally posted by LinYu:same surname so more. cannot 
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i can feel that she likes me too.. but then.. some how in a way i feel that shes avoiding me because she feels that we are related so shes holding back. we have been together for 3 weeks.Originally posted by skeujin:so far u have oni been describing yr feelings. does your cousin feel the same way? n how far into the r/s have both of you gone? -
U feel onli mah.....but she got say/tell you or not???? Don't assume...Originally posted by cannonprinter:i can feel that she likes me too.. but then.. some how in a way i feel that shes avoiding me because she feels that we are related so shes holding back. we have been together for 3 weeks.
Anyway, how old are the two of you? -
err so far u have said alot of nuthg at all. these are your words n yr thgts. nuthg from her. and wat do u mean by u have been together fro 3 weeks?Originally posted by cannonprinter:i can feel that she likes me too.. but then.. some how in a way i feel that shes avoiding me because she feels that we are related so shes holding back. we have been together for 3 weeks. -
So u guys got tgt afterall..Originally posted by cannonprinter:i can feel that she likes me too.. but then.. some how in a way i feel that shes avoiding me because she feels that we are related so shes holding back. we have been together for 3 weeks. -
3 weeks to soon to test out a r/s but pls check ur family tree first before stepping in too deep.Originally posted by cannonprinter:i can feel that she likes me too.. but then.. some how in a way i feel that shes avoiding me because she feels that we are related so shes holding back. we have been together for 3 weeks. -
Her actions tells me that.. for example, she tells her friend i am her boyfriend, she does not let anyone but me to pick her up from school, we go out together often. etc. well.. maybe i think too much.. but long story short, i just like her alot.Originally posted by skeujin:err so far u have said alot of nuthg at all. these are your words n yr thgts. nuthg from her. and wat do u mean by u have been together fro 3 weeks?
what i mean is that all these relationship have been going on for 3 weeks. -
i am 19 and shes 17Originally posted by dcx:U feel onli mah.....but she got say/tell you or not???? Don't assume...
Anyway, how old are the two of you? -
its lust.. u just want her for sex
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Do u have to be so bloody blunt?Originally posted by alexkusu:its lust.. u just want her for sex -
ya thats what me and her fears. I know its hard to comprehend....but why not you try to put your relationship into my "shoes". Imagine the girl you love truely, is your cousin.Originally posted by Ah Cek:3 weeks to soon to test out a r/s but pls check ur family tree first before stepping in too deep.