Relationship with my cousin
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actions are alwys easily mis-interpreted. get her to sit down and have a hertfelt tok. she might not be taking this r/s as seriously as you think it is.Originally posted by cannonprinter:Her actions tells me that.. for example, she tells her friend i am her boyfriend, she does not let anyone but me to pick her up from school, we go out together often. etc. well.. maybe i think too much.. but long story short, i just like her alot.
what i mean is that all these relationship have been going on for 3 weeks.
especialy in cases whr u love or r infatuated w some1. its easy to mis-read all the signals n interprete them as love.
n since you feel that ther will b a huge hinderance from your familiies. giv it a rest. concentrate on yr studies. with time. u will get over it. -
She tells her friend....but she didn't tell you that you're his bf.....in any case, she doesn't want any guy to harress her....i dunno....i think you just think too much....Originally posted by cannonprinter:Her actions tells me that.. for example, she tells her friend i am her boyfriend, she does not let anyone but me to pick her up from school, we go out together often. etc. well.. maybe i think too much.. but long story short, i just like her alot.
what i mean is that all these relationship have been going on for 3 weeks. -
It's lust.........Originally posted by cannonprinter:i am 19 and shes 17
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i guess u dont know whats true love. i rather u go bar than here.Originally posted by alexkusu:its lust.. u just want her for sex -
Love?Originally posted by cannonprinter:ya thats what me and her fears. I know its hard to comprehend....but why not you try to put your relationship into my "shoes". Imagine the girl you love truely, is your cousin.
How you know it's her fear? You don't even know if she likes you in the very 1st place...it's all based on your personal assumptions... -
im notOriginally posted by Gackt247:Do u have to be so bloody blunt? 
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How much do you know abt true love then? Pls enlighten us.....Originally posted by cannonprinter:i guess u dont know whats true love. i rather u go bar than here. -
yes, you're..Originally posted by alexkusu:im not -
and u think u do? then tell us 8 special things that u love about her?Originally posted by cannonprinter:i guess u dont know whats true love. i rather u go bar than here. -
now thats bluntOriginally posted by dcx:yes, you're.. 
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y 8, but not 3?Originally posted by alexkusu:and u think u do? then tell us 8 special things that u love about her? -
sigh...
tink just forget abt it ba...it mite cause complications if you let it get out of hand... -
Dun shy shy la.. taoyan..Originally posted by alexkusu:im not -
thx for the helpful advice, i will try to find the courage to clear it out with her bout this matter.Originally posted by skeujin:actions are alwys easily mis-interpreted. get her to sit down and have a hertfelt tok. she might not be taking this r/s as seriously as you think it is.
especialy in cases whr u love or r infatuated w some1. its easy to mis-read all the signals n interprete them as love.
n since you feel that ther will b a huge hinderance from your familiies. giv it a rest. concentrate on yr studies. with time. u will get over it. -
thread gonna turn into a crapping thread, i predict
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true love has many reasons. lust have 3. S-E-XOriginally posted by dcx:y 8, but not 3? -
then why limit it with 8?Originally posted by alexkusu:true love has many reasons. lust have 3. S-E-X
but for me, i tink true love got no reason leh... -
com'on..you've to face it........it's R-E-A-L-I-T-Y....Originally posted by alexkusu:now thats blunt -
mai la~Originally posted by Gackt247:Dun shy shy la.. taoyan..
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Now i know why the "8"......damn........Originally posted by alexkusu:true love has many reasons. lust have 3. S-E-X -
sorry to be rude, but i just not feeling that well.. i like her personality, thats the main thing that attracts me to her.Originally posted by alexkusu:and u think u do? then tell us 8 special things that u love about her? -
Of all the girls in the world why choose her? Do your families know? How will they react? Meet more people. You can be happy with many different types of people. She can't be the only one.
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Better stop before it's too late.
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it's best to avoid this kind of stituation. You both are still young and will meet more people throughout your life. + you must think of the future as well. Married with cousin increase the risk of having a child with genetic disorder.
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well said !Originally posted by dcx:It's lust.........