Relationship with my cousin
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Then you would have much more to learn.Originally posted by alexkusu:hor..i learned sth new today
Yunnie is broke. It's time to seek Yunnie's teaching.
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you are right...i am problematic..Originally posted by winterrealm:probably u must be a problematic guy
did any of my comments say that i didnt appreciate or hate ur answer as "NO"?
did i offence u? i guess not =)
i guess u must be anyhow lottering n utterly lame-ing around juz to get +1 bah..
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chill chill.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:you are right...i am problematic..
i don't go around fucking my own cousin...
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Uncle tell you......you are like this because you are obsessed right now.....still hot, only 3 months correct?
Why not you relax......take up a hobby.....
Btw I dont know anything about the law.....but I think it is not possible to marry her or even formally become a dating couple......because our society will not accept.....and you two will suffer.
Again....all this talk is useless.......because you will wake up and realize yourself.....she will too.....all this is moot point....forget about this whole thing. -
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Hmm.. Interesting... Can ya explain this part?Originally posted by Yunhaier:CloUdiSm states: Love and Relationship is but two separate entities. -
How come become flame topic liao? Don't fight ok?
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okOriginally posted by Devil1976:How come become flame topic liao? Don't fight ok? -
Cheeky DeverOriginally posted by Devil1976:Hmm.. Interesting... Can ya explain this part? 
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you dunno that nowadays its not permanent one?? last i heard they put a clip then later if want can reconnectOriginally posted by ditzy:"I don't love you anymore. Oh fcuk! I can't have kids anymore! Damn you!" -
But I'm genuinely INTERESTED okie..?? <Originally posted by M©+square:Cheeky Dever -
But seriously... I am getting damn broke.Originally posted by M©+square:Then you would have much more to learn.
Yunnie is broke. It's time to seek Yunnie's teaching.
If only I get paid for every post... wah.... *dreaming*
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm.. Interesting... Can ya explain this part?
You can love someone without being in a relationship and vice versa. Being in a relationship is entirely freewill... a choice made by yourself and your partner, while Love is something out of the boundary of freewill. Relationship is bounded by the First Law of Love - it is we who choose our partners, not the other way round. Love is boundless.
(Just to nag a little more)
Every relationship carries some form of bonds (although it is possible for someone to create new bonds this lifetime through freewill. Then the relationship would likely be radical and raw) and bonds are divided into benefic or malefic ones. Regardless, the inherent essence of what 'RELATIONSHIP' does is merely to impart cosmic lessons to the parties involved.
A 'bad' relationship - namely karmic relationship - brings on heavy lessons. So heavy that we thought we could never escape the clutches of our karmic debts. The excellent plot played by our karmic relationship is usually made in such a way that either alternatives means suffering... to accept or not to accept. And usually the option so desired by our hearts often carry a heavier sentence.
We have all the powers in the world to avoid sinking into those karmic relationship, but chances are, human justify the use of 'Love' to accept those challenges, without first applying higher wisdom to understand those challenges are means to understand the end and not the end itself.
I cannot say Karmic Relationship is bad, because like our disciplinary Father who has been rigid and strict with our conduct, a karmic relationship do keep us in check with our attitude and personality with regards to Love. People with glitch in emotional mindset: verdant or veteran, usually suffer the deepest.
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That is... seriously complicated, Yunhaier.
In any case, I think that an intimate relationship with ANY RELATIVES WITHIN TWO GENERATIONS is.... dangerous. Please, do you think your sperm only has your father's genes? Of course not? It has your mother's genes as well! So by the Law of Logic, if the father's side is banned, then the mother's side is banned as well, is it not so?
Genes talk aside, I believe you should just go for it. Though you two have much to consider when you want to "take the next step".
And I mean marriage.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
SELECTIVE READING MODE ACTIVATED You can love someone without being in a relationship and vice versa. Being in a relationship is entirely freewill... a choice made by yourself and your partner, while Love is something out of the boundary of freewill. [b]Relationship is bounded by the First Law of Love - it is we who choose our partners, not the other way round. Love is boundless.
(Just to nag a little more) [/b]
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geesh....... both of u are too young and have been together for such a short period of time dat it's ridiculous to even think bout love. wad do u know bout love at this age? besides, ur 19, most guys dun marry below 25, ur not even an adult yet to vote this yr and u wanna talk bout a serious r/s? the truth hurts but it's prolly an infactuation, give it some time and break it off cos it's simply not right and u know it urself. sides, u'll have many other girls in future.
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father side cannot... if mother side den still can...Originally posted by cannonprinter:My father's neice.... -
I dun think its o.k... sharing same blood.. at least go for further cousin la.. distant one then better. Or else u kana condemn man..
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veri scary leh.. later u meet a gal in the end is ur distant cousin.. sure sianz...Originally posted by BadzMaro:I dun think its o.k... sharing same blood.. at least go for further cousin la.. distant one then better. Or else u kana condemn man..
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at least can have a kid that is 162/2278 albino.
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I think the relationship is ok as both of them have different surnames. Some of you mention that father's side cannot but mother's side can but to the girl its her mother's side so isn't that a bit contridicting? However the hard truth is asian culture does not really cater to such relationships because of our thinking, especially with the older generation. Its hard to swallow but that's how it works. I wld advise consulting each other's parents if you're really serious abt one another before things get out of hand.
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