Relationship with my cousin
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Actually if you she is serious about you too, you can just go for genetic counselling to see if there is going to be any problems it you 2 want to have children.
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Problem with asian culture.
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What are your concerns actually?Originally posted by winterrealm:ermmm I still dont GET it. becoz i went for a Facial Wash yesterday n i was serve by a lady. ended up discussing abt relationship, so i might as well pull out my topic. after what i said, she told me that she have a friend who actually was like my current relationship.And is already married, i asked her r u sure? she extra-double confirm that "Biao" can be together but not "Tang".
the reason why i asked so much is because i want to gain alot of RIGHT ANSWER to able to defeat her parents of letting me to be with her without any doubts.Even though my dad encourage me. But still, i need to do alot of Research!I dont want to fail them by giving wrong answer - becoz of ONLY loving her n juz "aiya heck-care situation" to be together.
I hope u guys can provide me the Right Answer which 100% confirm n not your thoughts.Got any laywers or doctors friends, please help me ask about it.
And pls dont give unncessary comments e.g Forepay and throw her lah,rape her ..etc
Thanks n i will really appreciate it
What are the answers you need?
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asian culture...
it wont happen.....even ifit is real love..
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Originally posted by winterrealm:
Firstly, she's your cousin, not aunt.
-my dad and her Mom[b]Same Surname
-Me and her Diff Surname[/b]
Different surname because Father's surname different.
She's your Biao Mei.
It's a stage of growth and curiosity. -
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Your mean your questions are simple.(?)Originally posted by winterrealm:my answer is simple..
1)Yes or No to be together.
I know is bad for family who is Close Minded and not letting this thing happen, but i dont care.
2)I juz want to know Is It illegal to have this relationship? r we able to married?
3)We r Biao right? should be can mah? not same surname but abit of blood related.
1) YES or NO? You think we're your parents or your conscience? How do we decide a YES or NO for you?
If you truly like/love a person, would you consider a NO???
2) It is not illegal. Yes you can get married.
3) Yes Biao Cousins.
You think too much, marriage...? I don't think you can smell it.
Nonetheless, go for it and see what's the outcome.
Will it last or not? We don't know. -
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Originally posted by winterrealm:
It's Legal in the eyes of LAW.
Thx M©+square.. tats wat i want. So is confirm 100%?
yea.. i want to make sure isit able marriage in singapore or not ..if cant and we able to [b]stop the relationship before it is worse.
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But it may not be approved in the eyes of your immediate Family - RELATIVES.
i can be sure about LAW. But i can't be sure about your family and relatives.
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actually hor.....
sometimes I wonder how long a r/s will last.. coz i have seen many people going in and out of relationships.....after planning this this that that.. and everything.. opening joint accounts.. blah blah.. they break up... so i think ur r/s with ur cousin should be okay unless you are very positive affirmative that the r/s is the going to last super duper long till they day u propose to her....
further more the threadstarter is sooooooo young?? gosh 19 only.. at least 10 more years to get married? -
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Originally posted by silv3rgal:actually hor.....
sometimes I wonder how long a r/s will last.. coz i have seen many people going in and out of relationships.....after planning this this that that.. and everything.. opening joint accounts.. blah blah.. they break up... so i think ur r/s with ur cousin should be okay unless you are very positive affirmative that the r/s is the going to last super duper long till they day u propose to her....
further more the threadstarter is sooooooo young?? gosh 19 only.. at least 10 more years to get married?
That's why all the more, there's no need to discourage them from a relationship. When the time comes for them to experience and learn in this phrase.
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Well...i don't know.Originally posted by winterrealm:wee thx M©+square.. at least u let me know this point clear =)
i got one chicken neinei temporary teacher who is a lawyer student. shes not willing to tell me.
from now on . i must work hard and build rapport with her family. at least let them feel tat she is comfortable to be with me.
maybe is all abt truelove n sacrifice.
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Originally posted by winterrealm:
Not the same surname is good.
ermmm I still dont GET it. becoz i went for a Facial Wash yesterday n i was serve by a lady. ended up discussing abt relationship, so i might as well pull out my topic. after what i said, she told me that she have a friend who actually was like my current relationship.And is already married, i asked her r u sure? she extra-double confirm that "Biao" can be together but not "Tang".
the reason why i asked so much is because i want to gain alot of RIGHT ANSWER to able to defeat her parents of letting me to be with her without any doubts.Even though my dad encourage me. But still, i need to do alot of Research!I dont want to fail them by giving wrong answer - becoz of ONLY loving her n juz "aiya heck-care situation" to be together.
I hope u guys can provide me the Right Answer which 100% confirm n not your thoughts.Got any laywers or doctors friends, please help me ask about it.
And pls dont give unncessary comments e.g Forepay and throw her lah,rape her ..etc
Thanks n i will really appreciate it
-my dad and her Mom[b]Same Surname
-Me and her Diff Surname[/b]
You have only a few worries that I can think of.
1. People disapprove due to superstitions and upbringing and sometimes just pure stupidity. Many people like that. So it is up to you whether you are strong and am able to ignore them or you will feel down everytime they make nasty comments. Your girl also, can she take it?
2. Genetics. Like I said, if somebody mention that you can say no problem, we will go for genetic counselling everytime she is pregnant. Then nobody can hit you on that score.
actually that is all... I can't think of another oh wait...
3. If the 2 of you break up then it might affect your extended family... your parents become in laws as well as brother and sister... even if you divorce, the relationships does not stop like when other people divorce.
4. You might make your relatives womit if they see the 2 of you intimate unlike when they see you intimate with a stranger (non relative.) That will not make them womit. It is like you see a brother and sister kissing passionately it makes you want to womit but if they were kissing other people, you won't. -
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:Dear friends,
For months i've been having a problem.....a relationship with my cousin. Is it appropriate to fall in love with a relative? I do understand people have experience the same thing as me. I am afraid my family will disapprove...what should i do?
I am really in love with her, its true love....
From the above statement, it really worries me. Not exactly about your cousin-relationship, rather the advent of some egregious karmic relationship.
Love is never wrong; just that you got to learn to analysis your emotions carefully. Not every single emotion equates to Love and NOT all love is suitable breeding ground for relationship.
CloUdiSm states: Love and Relationship is but two separate entities.
Environment cannot stop two souls, truly in love, from being in love. But chances are, yours belong to deceptive tricks spun from the heart that made you thought so.
True Love?
I reckon you better reconsider your decision.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
hor..i learned sth new today
[b]NOT all love is suitable breeding ground for relationship. [/b] -
And yes, that cost you 600 bucks.Originally posted by alexkusu:hor..i learned sth new today
P.S: yunhaier so broke now...
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o rly? actually western does not encourage cousin marriage be it father or mother's relative kins, more jialat dat asian.Originally posted by M©+square:Problem with asian culture. -
cannonprinter,
i feel u might be infatuation over ur cousin. happened when both of u r still young.
i suggest both of u get to know more opposite sex. soon both of ur feeling will die down. -
yea.. hope so..Originally posted by 798:cannonprinter,
i feel u might be infatuation over ur cousin. happened when both of u r still young.
i suggest both of u get to know more opposite sex. soon both of ur feeling will die down. -
Originally posted by winterrealm:
wtf...you wanted a definate answer yes or no...i gave you a No...now u tell me u wanna research alot of RIGHT ANSWER...what the fuck you trying to prove?
ermmm I still dont GET it. becoz i went for a Facial Wash yesterday n i was serve by a lady. ended up discussing abt relationship, so i might as well pull out my topic. after what i said, she told me that she have a friend who actually was like my current relationship.And is already married, i asked her r u sure? she extra-double confirm that "Biao" can be together but not "Tang".
the reason why i asked so much is because i want to gain alot of RIGHT ANSWER to able to defeat her parents of letting me to be with her without any doubts.Even though my dad encourage me. But still, i need to do alot of Research!I dont want to fail them by giving wrong answer - becoz of ONLY loving her n juz "aiya heck-care situation" to be together.
I hope u guys can provide me the Right Answer which 100% confirm n not your thoughts.Got any laywers or doctors friends, please help me ask about it.
And pls dont give unncessary comments e.g Forepay and throw her lah,rape her ..etc
Thanks n i will really appreciate it
-my dad and her Mom[b]Same Surname
-Me and her Diff Surname[/b]
if you wanna date her...touch her...rape her..screw her...you already made your own decision...why come and ask for replies to only justify your "made-choice"?
i hate it when people already made their decision and still need other people to help them confirm it...if you are man enough...(going to facial sure is)...take the decision and shove it in your own @ss...don't be an ah gua and just come here look for jusitification... -
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if you don't appreciate true comments..then go fuck yourself and don't ask questions here...Originally posted by winterrealm:u must be crazy huh? im here to find help not picking a fight.
tats wat u think,pls considerate for ppl and keep ur lame comments to urself.
maybe i didnt put the message properly and u juz anyhow humtum ppl.
if u hate then juz shut up. im here seek help "Aunt Agony" not "suanning session"
plus i dont know the law well and family tree tats why im ASKING SO MUCH. TY
if you just wanna fuck your cousin..go ahead...but don't come here and hope to look for someone who agree that you should fuck her...