When a girl says...
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When a girl says... "Don't treat me so good, i no worth it..."
Is already an indirectly reject liao right...
Although I didn't really confess to her...
Really want to give up... please advice..
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yah, she does not want to be with u
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Really want to give up? Then give up....Originally posted by kuckuc:When a girl says... "Don't treat me so good, i no worth it..."
Is already an indirectly reject liao right...
Although I didn't really confess to her...
Really want to give up... please advice.. 
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Her maintainence is too high for you to afford, thats why not worth it.
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maybe she really not worth it?
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She knows she had manufacturing defect and she have no warranty.
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I don't wanna give up... it's her words, being like so cold to me..
Should I ask directly & ask why I no chance? -
Don't find trouble, if you don't want trouble to find you.
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tell her u see her worth lor...Originally posted by kuckuc:I don't wanna give up... it's her words, being like so cold to me..
Should I ask directly & ask why I no chance? -
u better dun bother her or she will find u irritating and she will outright tell u u are not good enough for herOriginally posted by kuckuc:I don't wanna give up... it's her words, being like so cold to me..
Should I ask directly & ask why I no chance? -
Heh... nice one. Sigh..Originally posted by ditzy:Don't find trouble, if you don't want trouble to find you. -
Forget it.
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I've went through this before. It can be she's indirectly rejecting you or thinks you're too good for her due to low confidence. Can be either way round.Originally posted by kuckuc:When a girl says... "Don't treat me so good, i no worth it..."
Is already an indirectly reject liao right...
Although I didn't really confess to her...
Really want to give up... please advice.. -
aiya...ask for wat........in simple, she doesn't like you and wan to be with u lor.........how difficult is it to understand?
If you die die wanna know the reason why, then be prepared for it....
Most prob. "you're not good-looking" is the reason, but she most prob. won't say in your face... -
if dun wish to hear the worst, pls give up.
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take her words .. u dont want to be hurt ..
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hmm....think not absolutely must give up la.
my gf told me that before also. But i didnt give up.
now with her for 3yrs liaoz. planning to register with her this yr. -
listen to Rod Stewart's song...."I dun wan to, talk about it, how u broke my heart..."
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Heh... thanks guys girls for all your advice.
Personally I thought it's useless for me to ask also, coz for example if I ever say this to a girl, I also really mean it.
So... hmm... do take care of yourself friend...
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not necessarily reject lah..Originally posted by kuckuc:When a girl says... "Don't treat me so good, i no worth it..."
Is already an indirectly reject liao right...
Although I didn't really confess to her...
Really want to give up... please advice..
eh..i hav said that before,i dun know abt ur girl but for me i just meant "i dun wanna get hurt". like i m not sure u really want me or u r just playing or teasing me nia,if u r really sweet to me u will only give me heartaches when i realise u were just in it for the moment n it's not gona last.
so just follow ur gut instinct. jia you,mate! =) -
Did the guy continue to approach you after you said that?Originally posted by sqully:not necessarily reject lah..
eh..i hav said that before,i dun know abt ur girl but for me i just meant "i dun wanna get hurt". like i m not sure u really want me or u r just playing or teasing me nia,if u r really sweet to me u will only give me heartaches when i realise u were just in it for the moment n it's not gona last.
so just follow ur gut instinct. jia you,mate! =) -
Nice.Originally posted by photo_seeker:I've went through this before. It can be she's indirectly rejecting you or thinks you're too good for her due to low confidence. Can be either way round. -
Even if you wish to continue and find out more, chances are you'll have to be quite very tactful and not too direct....Originally posted by kuckuc:Heh... thanks guys girls for all your advice.
Personally I thought it's useless for me to ask also, coz for example if I ever say this to a girl, I also really mean it.
So... hmm... do take care of yourself friend... -
Well....This is my 1st post in SgForum...
Never posted anything in there but have been reading SgForum for the past 6 mths...
Today I shall make an exception cos this thread is something close to my heart..
When a gal says "Dun be so good to me, I'm not worth it..." I strongly suggest u back off immediately...
I have the same exact encounter ....
A gal...whom i liked and pursued for 3 yrs....
she told me the exact same words 3 times... but i continue to pursue her relentlessly for 3 years...
during these 3 years...I did lotsa stuff for her ... Tried my best to be not only a good friend and a loving companion...etc.. hoping that she will change and give me a chance...
But in the end... nothing happens....instead my heart was shattered...due to the multiple wounds that i have received in these 3 yrs...
All my friends told me to not be so stubborn and be so nice to her.... friends who are close to me and know exactly the whole story... advises me to give up on her...still i ignore them...thinking that one day...i will melt her heart....
well...it never happens....all these while, the gal gave me mixed signals....and only come to me when she required help in any areas....to the extent of exploiting my feelings for her.....
No one will say No to helping the person they like.... so in the end, i became some sort of a handyman to a gal...whom i adored for 3 yrs and who keep on saying " Dun be so good to me.... I am not worth it"..
That's my experience so far...wonder how u make out of it..
I suggest that u go for it if u feel strongly for the gal....but do not be stubborn and think that u can melt a gals' heart with time....cos sometimes...it just doesn't work that way...... At the very least, u tried to pursue her...But if it doesn't work out....Take the fall graciously and heal...there are tons of gals out there and definitely there will be a suitable for u... -
Hi everyone, this is my 1st post here as well..... my english kinda not up to the standard, so pls be patient with it, thx
Anyway, I am in the same situation as Zelphon, not totally 100% but almost, pursued for 3 yrs ++, did lots of stuff for her bla bla bla.... same old story, and rejected twice for the same words, few weeks ago......
I've been thinking a lot, thinking, why this why that, what should I do, bla bla bla... n bcoz of all the question marks on my head, Im unable to concentrate on my work, didnt get proper sleep and, well might sound lame n funny for most of u out there, tears dropped from my eyes every night....................
And up until today, Im still unable to find the best solution. So, Zelphon, if u dun mind, care to tell us how did u manage to get through this?