What is it in guys tt girls are attracted to???
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Like that the guy support the ger all the way la. He no need enjoy, buy clothes, buy his favourite meal.Originally posted by lil_pinkie:I think, ultimately.. girls wld like to settle down with someone who is capable of supporting her, have peaceful life.
Dun say abt girls being materialistic lah.. In SG, if ur (a guy) income is no good, U alone cant even juggle properly..
Moreover, it've always been the guy's job to earn & protect his girl, since dino times.. Technology does improve, ppl upgrade, something become advance.. but this set of theory still apply.
The girl has a part to play in supporting the family. -
dont flame me for saying thisOriginally posted by lil_pinkie:I think, ultimately.. girls wld like to settle down with someone who is capable of supporting her, have peaceful life.
Dun say abt girls being materialistic lah.. In SG, if ur (a guy) income is no good, U alone cant even juggle properly..
Moreover, it've always been the guy's job to earn & protect his girl, since dino times.. Technology does improve, ppl upgrade, something become advance.. but this set of theory still apply.
u mentioned it've always been the guy's job to earn & protect his girl, since dino times...ya i agree but isnt a gals job to stay at home look after child, cook meals, pamper husband after he come back from work etc? i doubt gals this generation is willing to to such things -
Good point, but if there are domestic workers (Maid, if you prefer) to do that, wouldn't girls take the easier way out? But you've made an excellent point... For the sake of love, perhaps, girls might be willing to do that. Then again, might.Originally posted by borntolive:dont flame me for saying this
u mentioned it've always been the guy's job to earn & protect his girl, since dino times...ya i agree but isnt a gals job to stay at home look after child, cook meals, pamper husband after he come back from work etc? i doubt gals this generation is willing to to such things
Anyway, it just seems that most guys' requirements are chiobu, slim, mostly appearance-wise. *smile* -
sg girls liketat one la.... want guy to support family... say its "tian jing di yi" but they nv thought about them self.. whether they are "xian qi liang mu" anot... want this want tat, everything guy pay
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haiz... mai hiam buey pai liao laa..
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translation please.Originally posted by Itachi:haiz... mai hiam buey pai liao laa..
someone here doesnt understand [hokkien?] -
er... "Not choosy not bad liao laa"Originally posted by udontknowme:translation please.
someone here doesnt understand [hokkien?] -
thanksOriginally posted by Itachi:er... "Not choosy not bad liao laa"
imma gonna learn hokkien!! -
why..? girls attracted to hokkien speaking guy?Originally posted by udontknowme:thanks
imma gonna learn hokkien!! -
they like guys wif broad shoulders and muscular?
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Definitely not... cantonese-speaking guys maybe.Originally posted by Itachi:why..? girls attracted to hokkien speaking guy? -
im not a guy!!!Originally posted by Itachi:why..? girls attracted to hokkien speaking guy?
IM A FRIGGIN TRANS!
and i can speak canto...heh...randomness is cool!
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i think guys more easily satisfied ...girl chio can liaoOriginally posted by bksianzz:sg girls liketat one la.... want guy to support family... say its "tian jing di yi" but they nv thought about them self.. whether they are "xian qi liang mu" anot... want this want tat, everything guy pay
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girls attracted to sex, money & power
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according to you...Originally posted by alexkusu:girls attracted to sex, money & power -
no wonder got guys having affaird with their maid over their chio bu wives.Originally posted by hyperactivechatterbox:Good point, but if there are domestic workers (Maid, if you prefer) to do that, wouldn't girls take the easier way out? But you've made an excellent point... For the sake of love, perhaps, girls might be willing to do that. Then again, might.
Anyway, it just seems that most guys' requirements are chiobu, slim, mostly appearance-wise. *smile* -
1. GentlemanlinessOriginally posted by Itachi:What issit in guys tt girls are attracted to?
Some say yandao, some $, some like guys tt talks alot.. some like humourous one..
Issit true tt girls like guys tt talk alot, joke around and sometimes a little act cute one?? very sad leh, sometimes the ones tt talk less in the group are like thrown aside one.
actually which is main thing tt girls look at ah..? and how to make girls feel like talking to u more??
haiz.. i need a break through.. still can't communicate very well wif girls. i used to dislike ppl tt flirt around one. but now i think it's time to learn some flirting techniques liao.. it sarks to just stand aside watching another guy joking/flirting wif the girl making her laugh, cheering her day.. sigh... im really envious of guys tt can communicate so well wif girls...feel so helpless.
girls.. i really need u to share ur views.. haha.. thanks a million.
2. Ability to grow facial hair and leg hair, chest hair an advantage
3. Sensitivity
Sh!t, does the abve sound like a jobscope? -
which one you DO NOT have?Originally posted by udontknowme:according to you... -
if you had MEGA SUPER DUPER BIG BALLS like me, you'd be pulling in all the birds no problem....
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Different girls have different likings... Some people don't like chest hair, Some people don't like too muscular, some people like bad boys?Originally posted by foxwalk:1. Gentlemanliness
2. Ability to grow facial hair and leg hair, chest hair an advantage
3. Sensitivity
Sh!t, does the abve sound like a jobscope?
Actually, the best guide to this kind of question if finding out what kind of shows do the gal you are interested in watch. Then emulate the guy to the best you can. But then, hmm, fantasy is different from reality, so by that, at most I can only tell you the gal would be attracted to you, but the relationship won't necessarily work out. All gals would like something like those sort of channel 8 sort of fairytaile drama, romantic etc. -
U need to socialise more to be able to enhance ur charisma. There's no use in coming here seeking advice and reading posts after posts, theories after theories. U need to go out there and and socialise and find out what works well for u.Originally posted by Itachi:What issit in guys tt girls are attracted to?
Some say yandao, some $, some like guys tt talks alot.. some like humourous one..
Issit true tt girls like guys tt talk alot, joke around and sometimes a little act cute one?? very sad leh, sometimes the ones tt talk less in the group are like thrown aside one.
actually which is main thing tt girls look at ah..? and how to make girls feel like talking to u more??
haiz.. i need a break through.. still can't communicate very well wif girls. i used to dislike ppl tt flirt around one. but now i think it's time to learn some flirting techniques liao.. it sarks to just stand aside watching another guy joking/flirting wif the girl making her laugh, cheering her day.. sigh... im really envious of guys tt can communicate so well wif girls...feel so helpless.
girls.. i really need u to share ur views.. haha.. thanks a million.
U dun come and read this forum and expect to be a casanova right? Experienced guys are able to attract gals because they have failed the most.
We can only share our experience.
But if u ask me my personal take is that gals like guys who are comfortable in their own skin and not being desperate, definitely not attention-seekers to try all sorts of ways to impress them. Impress urself, not gals. After all, if u try to be what u are not, after the gal finds out who u really are dun accpet u, isn't it back to square one? U need to find one who likes u for who u are...ur interests ur hobbies ur ideals ur opinions etc. U get what im saying?
Again its my humble opinion. U need to find out urself. It's more rewarding that way.
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i can teach uOriginally posted by udontknowme:thanks
imma gonna learn hokkien!! -
10 Traits i believe gals are attracted to:
1. Confidence
2. Patience
3. Courage
4. Decisiveness
5. Assertiveness
6. Humor(includes teasing them for fun)
7. Able to say 'no' when you think you are right
8. Smile
9. Ability to communicate
10. Creativity in imagination and pulling them into your world
10 Traits I believe that will turn off gals:
1. Showing of Desperation
2. Trying to get their attention at all costs which is very obvious to them
3. Calling them and msging them every day
4. No social life
5. Being too nice to them by saying 'yes' all the time, meaning too boring
6. Trying too hard to impress them
7. Giving gifts too early to try win their affection
8. Being impatient
9. Inability to communicate well and can't seem to make ppl laugh
10. Trying too hard to impress
The above listed are not in order of priority. Notice that physical looks are not
mentioned because it depends on the gal's taste. My personal belief is that gals look at u as a person rather than as based on ur looks alone unless u are extremely handsome like Takeshi Kaneshiro. Even nerds can get laid. -
The third one is definitely true.Originally posted by dokono:10 Traits i believe gals are attracted to:
1. Confidence
2. Patience
3. Courage
4. Decisiveness
5. Assertiveness
6. Humor(includes teasing them for fun)
7. Able to say 'no' when you think you are right
8. Smile
9. Ability to communicate
10. Creativity in imagination and pulling them into your world
10 Traits I believe that will turn off gals:
1. Showing of Desperation
2. Trying to get their attention at all costs which is very obvious to them
3. Calling them and msging them every day
4. No social life
5. Being too nice to them by saying 'yes' all the time, meaning too boring
6. Trying too hard to impress them
7. Giving gifts too early to try win their affection
8. Being impatient
9. Inability to communicate well and can't seem to make ppl laugh
10. Trying too hard to impress
The above listed are not in order of priority. Notice that physical looks are not
mentioned because it depends on the gal's taste. My personal belief is that gals look at u as a person rather than as based on ur looks alone unless u are extremely handsome like Takeshi Kaneshiro. Even nerds can get laid. -
The highlighted point may vary.Originally posted by dokono:10 Traits i believe gals are attracted to:
1. Confidence
2. Patience
3. Courage
4. Decisiveness
5. Assertiveness
6. Humor(includes teasing them for fun)
7. Able to say 'no' when you think you are right
8. Smile
9. Ability to communicate
10. Creativity in imagination and pulling them into your world
10 Traits I believe that will turn off gals:
1. Showing of Desperation
2. Trying to get their attention at all costs which is very obvious to them
3. Calling them and msging them every day
4. No social life
5. Being too nice to them by saying 'yes' all the time, meaning too boring
6. Trying too hard to impress them
7. Giving gifts too early to try win their affection
8. Being impatient
9. Inability to communicate well and can't seem to make ppl laugh
10. Trying too hard to impress
The above listed are not in order of priority. Notice that physical looks are not
mentioned because it depends on the gal's taste. My personal belief is that gals look at u as a person rather than as based on ur looks alone unless u are extremely handsome like Takeshi Kaneshiro. Even nerds can get laid.
some girls, no matter how impatient a guy is, as long as he has traits that turns her on, she's okay with it.
no what kind of impatience are u toking abt?