Why are sg girls so notorious?
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I won't say it's a Singapore thing. I rather say it's a product of society.
Especially in more developed cities.
I do notice that nowadays wommen are becoming more assertive and individualistic, to the point of being less gracious.
You see them on the roads. oblivious of the road conditions around them.
In my company, we do have zebra crossings. Tendency not to stop when they see pedestrian about to cross. Their time more precious?
You see them walking around, assuming they have a right of way, you have to siam them. Expecting you to be the 'gentlemen'.
I dunno, just to name a few examples here. Probably I worked in a non service-oriented line. -
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no offense to the gals or guys out there........as the saying goes...survival of the fittest.........even as a guy........i would be notorious if needed at times.......but that;s only when needed..............
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hmm... no wonder the prediction that humans will get themselves killed as we progress onwards into the future is so true... the fall of our morality is so evident in today's context!
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I dont think U would have seen the true picture had U really worked in service-oriented lines...Originally posted by Magnus:Probably I worked in a non service-oriented line.
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i agree as sg gals are more educated and pampered(not all as there are always exceptional cases)in a sense,they dont even need to serve the nation like we guys do so in a sense they dont know what suffering means...and when they went out to work, they are already ahead of guys so in term of financially they are capable to support themselves...even our ..............cant said his name...he regreted allowing women to have an education as its part of the reason y our nation birth rate is declining....
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I second that, maybe 1 out of 20 are doable...the remaining 19 ended up pointing fingers at all the girls and complained to each other.Originally posted by Devil1976:Probably because local guys have no virtues to start with...?? <>
Surprising, none of the guys complained that they aren't romantic and considerate enough to the girls. How many sg guys actually know how to romance a girl?
And for your info, malaysian guys are a lot worse than sg guys. The only advantage that they have over sg guys is money. malaysian guys started working much earlier than sg guys and thus got better spending power and social experiences.
The guys/girls in malaysian are still brought up with a very traditional mindset, while the guys/girls in singapore are brought up with a westernised mindset. It's no wonder that both gender from these two countries find each other intriguing.
Ultimately, it depends very much also on the person's character and nature. Guys are often nice and caring and considerate and best-tempered when they are going after girls. But once they got the girl, that's when their true and real nature and character will show. Some guys will change, many will revert to their true self eventually. Girls on the other hand may seems nice and impossible to reach for a lot of guys. But once girl decided to fall in love, they do really do show the guy their love sincerely. No doubt there are some girls out there who are bad in terms of character and nature, and those are left on the shelves for a very good reason and guys should stay away from them.
Meet the right person to fall in love with. If you're complaining, perhaps it's time to realise maybe you aren't good enough to get a girl or you just haven't meet the right one.
Two good tips for guys to follow when they think they've met the right girl:
1) How do you make sure the girl knows that you really care about her?
2) How do you make sure the girl knows that you really like/love her?
There are no manuals nor processes to follow to get the girl that you like. Everyone has their own individual ways of answering the two questions above.
By the way, any attempt to hurt girls will not be forgiven. -
Actually... I was just kinda joking...??Originally posted by parn:I second that, maybe 1 out of 20 are doable...the remaining 19 ended up pointing fingers at all the girls and complained to each other.
Surprising, none of the guys complained that they aren't romantic and considerate enough to the girls. How many sg guys actually know how to romance a girl?
And for your info, malaysian guys are a lot worse than sg guys. The only advantage that they have over sg guys is money. malaysian guys started working much earlier than sg guys and thus got better spending power and social experiences.
The guys/girls in malaysian are still brought up with a very traditional mindset, while the guys/girls in singapore are brought up with a westernised mindset. It's no wonder that both gender from these two countries find each other intriguing.
Ultimately, it depends very much also on the person's character and nature. Guys are often nice and caring and considerate and best-tempered when they are going after girls. But once they got the girl, that's when their true and real nature and character will show. Some guys will change, many will revert to their true self eventually. Girls on the other hand may seems nice and impossible to reach for a lot of guys. But once girl decided to fall in love, they do really do show the guy their love sincerely. No doubt there are some girls out there who are bad in terms of character and nature, and those are left on the shelves for a very good reason and guys should stay away from them.
Meet the right person to fall in love with. If you're complaining, perhaps it's time to realise maybe you aren't good enough to get a girl or you just haven't meet the right one.
Two good tips for guys to follow when they think they've met the right girl:
1) How do you make sure the girl knows that you really care about her?
2) How do you make sure the girl knows that you really like/love her?
There are no manuals nor processes to follow to get the girl that you like. Everyone has their own individual ways of answering the two questions above.
By the way, any attempt to hurt girls will not be forgiven.
Anyway, I think it's not quite fair to say that 'those girls are left on shelves for good reasons'.... 1st of all, people can change... 2nd, they might have opted out themselves...? 3rd, maybe they just haven't find the ones suitable for them...? -
Doesnt it make u wonder.. whatever happened to the power of own beliefs ? That we allow the media, the people around us, the hearsays.. to 'control' our thinking ?Originally posted by alvinz:Come on guys, sg girls are known for being materialistic, fussy and domineering... and personally, i think it has something to do with them receiving higher education, being more independent, having their own source of income e.t.c. I know its beneficial for them, but i guess it somehow, it took over their mind and they succumb to the blind pursuit of money, looks, fame, all of which makes them so undesirable to us since most of them would actually resort to underhand methods... I'm sure all of us want a girl who would take care of things that they are supposedly good at and behaving in a way which makes them more "feminine" right?
And recently, i saw how the miss singapore universe contestants answered the impromptu qn on "What do you think of the notion that foreign guys are more attractive than local guys?". Basically, i think none of them answered well, though all expressed that they would prefer local guys (probably a politically correct answer) but none of them actually mentioned why local guys are specifically the preferred ones. I don't think its that hard to touch on the virtues of local guys IF they really prefer local guys right?
Well, i guess its just another talent(hypocritical) which they've learnt while they are growing up just to get wat they want...
No wonder local guys are going for foreign brides and local girls are going for foreign guys la, no denying that this is an increasing phenomenon...
Sigh... anyone care to comment?
It works both ways. We think women are materialistic and women think men are not good catch (locally speaking).. why ? I feel its whatever we absorb and it affects and clouds our better judgement.
Not saying its wrong to choose your own other half, regardless of nationality. But what is disturbing is knowing the fact that people choose people based on rigid criterias, set by own 'beliefs' (which were instigated by others) .. see the irony ? -
Sometimes our criterias are even more outrageous than those told by "others".Originally posted by Alleycat:Doesnt it make u wonder.. whatever happened to the power of own beliefs ? That we allow the media, the people around us, the hearsays.. to 'control' our thinking ?
It works both ways. We think women are materialistic and women think men are not good catch (locally speaking).. why ? I feel its whatever we absorb and it affects and clouds our better judgement.
Not saying its wrong to choose your own other half, regardless of nationality. But what is disturbing is knowing the fact that people choose people based on rigid criterias, set by own 'beliefs' (which were instigated by others) .. see the irony ? -
On this issue of SG guys lacking charm and romance, the flip side of the coin is that the Western women I've been with have said that Asian men treat women better than the Western men do. So go figure.
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because of the media...
but then sadly, the media is fake... -
it goes to prove another thing - the pasture at the other side is always greener.Originally posted by Rexdriver:On this issue of SG guys lacking charm and romance, the flip side of the coin is that the Western women I've been with have said that Asian men treat women better than the Western men do. So go figure. -
I think being dumped by sg girls because you are not up to their standard is better than kenna cheated by money and love. Which one you prefer? Nothing is perfect, S'pore girls may not be the best in the world. But other countries gals maynot be better. Take Japanese as an example, they are more materialistic than S'pore and they buy branded goods and don't work after married. But Japanese men can afford and not going everywhere complaining about their wife. Why??? Is it because they are more capable? Or should I say S'pore men are less capable as compare to Japanese men.
We are educated and independant since young. To be frank I want my husband to be better than me not because I want their money. It is because I want someone to be same or better than me. If you have $50, you won't use $50 to buy a $0.50 paper right?
Lastly, you not a prince don't expect a princess to love you. -
It takes two hands to clap.
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And only 1 hand to slap?Originally posted by XiaoBlurGal:It takes two hands to clap. -
haha.... u treat us malaysian as "product" nah, let me be importer and exporter. Well, i found most sg guys come to MY to search for gal... yet, i feel most sg gal prefer guy frm japan, korea, HK etc....Originally posted by Devil1976:X 2. Often in a general sense, I just couldn't help thinking that Malaysian Chinese males and females are much better products compared to Singapore... -
Depends on what people want bah...?Originally posted by ric4573:haha.... u treat us malaysian as "product" nah, let me be importer and exporter. Well, i found most sg guys come to MY to search for gal... yet, i feel most sg gal prefer guy frm japan, korea, HK etc....
With the globalisation going on these days, and travellings make more and more common... I think people just have more choices...?? And like they always say... "Grass seems greener on the other side...?" -
I prefer thai girls...