Bye Bye!!
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Originally posted by GwenSilvz:
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Dear all,
several points made by the threadstarter are biased, in a way to make her the damsel in distress.
Firstly, it may seem that everything is just focused on her bf and that girl-friend of his where as in fact it's the threadstarter's own judgement to do so. (This statement will be labelled by her as "[b]He always say that I choose to be ...sad, sensitive, etc.) Whatever experienced by the threadstarter regarding the girl's action towards her boyfriend is felt by atleast 3 other couples too, but somehow the other girlfriends are not complaining. Only the threadstarter's boyfriend gets it and even after repeated explanation and adviced to view from different prospectives, the results are the same.
As mentioned by the threadstarter, everything seems to be "That girl and Threadstarter's boyfriend this, that, etc" but the fact is many others are involved as well. One such example would be "Oh, me and him did blah blah blah in Langkawi". As the girl was relating past events of the threadstarter's boyfriend to the threadstarter, the girl and the threadstarter's boyfriend always appear together in the statement. It may be tactless as she could have included more people. Probably due to the lack of trust, self-esteem or whatever there is, the threadstarter got threatened by the obsessive use of 'him and i" doing practically everything but the truth is others are involved as well and it's really understood.
Just tell that damn girl off if you feel you're in the right. I do not know how you came to the conclusion that everyone will go against you, even your boyfriend, unless there is really something wrong about what you're doing. Why do you have to be so submissive into accepting, or rather letting the statement about acting cute affect you. We're not a bunch of bengs and lians that pledge our allegiance to kawaii neh neh pok crap. The other guys initially couldn't stand even the slightest action or sound emitted from that girl. Over the time we just either ignore it, or just play along. I do not see why you have to get so upset over it.
I'm just going to say this one final time. I do not care if that girl is there or not. She is insignificant to me. What annoys me the most is that someone of no importance is making my life difficult. Stop making it sound as though I need her around. It's her bf that I'm concerned about. I do not care who care sing, bake, draw, etc. I appreciate whatever you do so wake up your idea and stop the perpertual comparison. If winning means so much, them stop drowning in your self-pity.
Stop all your assumptions and stand up for yourself if not this will never end. And work on your trust. Your imagination runs negatively wild; your bf messaging other girls? flirting behind your back?. Saying you trust someone yet feeling this way? This is just going to annoy someone more...
You want me to put some sense into that girl and make sure she knows where she stands just tell me. Don't have to put up a false front.
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[quote]Originally posted by GwenSilvz:
Dear all,
several points made by the threadstarter are biased, in a way to make her the damsel in distress.
Firstly, it may seem that everything is just focused on her bf and that girl-friend of his where as in fact it's the threadstarter's own judgement to do so. (This statement will be labelled by her as "[b]He always say that I choose to be ...sad, sensitive, etc.)
--->Because it is always put to me that way. How else do I see it?And come on, he does say that about me. Unless he has bad memory.
Whatever experienced by the threadstarter regarding the girl's action towards her boyfriend is felt by atleast 3 other couples too, but somehow the other girlfriends are not complaining.
--->Never make a statement like that until you hear what the other girls have to say to me. And they have no idea how I feel the same.
Only the threadstarter's boyfriend gets it and even after repeated explanation and adviced to view from different prospectives, the results are the same.
--->If ("use ur common sense la!! Shes only joking!!!" + Attitude) constitutes an explanation, I'd rather not have one.
As mentioned by the threadstarter, everything seems to be "That girl and Threadstarter's boyfriend this, that, etc" but the fact is many others are involved as well. One such example would be "Oh, me and him did blah blah blah in Langkawi". As the girl was relating past events of the threadstarter's boyfriend to the threadstarter, the girl and the threadstarter's boyfriend always appear together in the statement. It may be tactless as she could have included more people.
--> "MAY BE"? Gosh you do give her alot of credit.
Probably due to the lack of trust, self-esteem or whatever there is, the threadstarter got threatened by the obsessive use of 'him and i" doing practically everything but the truth is others are involved as well and it's really understood.
--->If it IS understood, she should be within the pple who understand, why is she still putting it that way to me? Obviously she's either deaf, stupid, or simply understands but prefers the resolution of placing my bf and her in the same situation. Just both of them.
Just tell that damn girl off if you feel you're in the right. I do not know how you came to the conclusion that everyone will go against you, even your boyfriend,
---> Because there was never a time nobody ever stood by her. Everyone was there when she played around, tickled, while the girls tried to maintain a smile, she was having the time of her life telling me this and that happily. And my bf just kept quiet. Nobody told her, down! Bad doggie! But my bf tells me that.
unless there is really something wrong about what you're doing. Why do you have to be so submissive into accepting, or rather letting the statement about acting cute affect you.
--->Nope. It affects HER. The idea of ostracising someone because they dont respond to your kawaii-ness is something only she can think of. She has completely gossiped about all the girls to all the girls behind all the girls' backs. Apart from her best friend who is overseas at the moment, we're all she has for the time being.
We're not a bunch of bengs and lians that pledge our allegiance to kawaii neh neh pok crap. The other guys initially couldn't stand even the slightest action or sound emitted from that girl. Over the time we just either ignore it, or just play along. I do not see why you have to get so upset over it.
--->Its ok. Dont you get it? Im okay with my bf playing around with her. However, when it goes so far as to her grabbing his butt when we're all playing in the water in Sentosa, lying on his tummy inSentosa on top of that float thing, seeing the picture of his dick and COMMENTING about it in such a matter-of-fact way, don't you think I would happen to be NOT okay?
I'm just going to say this one final time. I do not care if that girl is there or not. She is insignificant to me. What annoys me the most is that someone of no importance is making my life difficult. Stop making it sound as though I need her around. It's her bf that I'm concerned about. I do not care who care sing, bake, draw, etc. I appreciate whatever you do
--->If what I do was appreciated by my bf, he wouldn't just throw my presents around or leave them there to collect dust. If he can display his ex girlfriend's toys in his car, use the things that girl gives him, then my taste really really sucks. Probably its my choices, ugh.
so wake up your idea and stop the perpertual comparison.
--->Bro, you better wake up YOUR idea. You should know. When I first got with my bf, I have never compared anything until I was being repeatedly told at how pretty his ex is and how lucky my bf was to have her more than to have me etc etc. it goes on. I always thought of his ex as an ordinary cheena looking girl with weird teeth, but because of what that girl keeps saying on and on and on, what could have been nice reminiscing about the past turns into a comparison. It is not my nature to compare unless I am being told over and over again that I was the lesser being.
If winning means so much, them stop drowning in your self-pity.
--->Self-pity? nobody gave you the URL of this thread to come and judge me. You have judged me this entire post and for her, shes just MAYBE tactless. That's pretty biased. On your side. Since I didnt start this, it was triggered by her incessant blah blah blah blah until a small thing can become so huge because what she said has already grown on me, and I begin to associate what she says with almost everything I do. This is why Im tripping all over myself these days and making stupid mistakes.
Stop all your assumptions and stand up for yourself if not this will never end. And work on your trust. Your imagination runs negatively wild; your bf messaging other girls? flirting behind your back?. Saying you trust someone yet feeling this way? This is just going to annoy someone more...
--->Im not the one with trust issues. My bf is. Hes afraid that I will take advantage of him again or something so he just becomes a jerk towards me when i feel blue. He began to hide things from me too, so what am I supposed to trust? His balls?And for your information he has developed a habit of promising me things he can't fulfill. Giving me hope and then taking it away and expecting me to be okay with it is damn ridiculous, although I do try at times to keep my cool and pretend its nothing when it actually meant the whole world to me. not just the engagement part, the promise that he would try also to make us happy. What do you think I run here, a one man show?
:::He had many chances to intervene but it simply never occured to him that it would have an effect on me. Its ok, at least now I see that he is naturally like that. I've already made it clear i hate people to mian chiang for me. But Gwensilvz, do have a good long think and ponder over your own actions as to how you have contributed to make MY life easier.
BTW, she can't stop talking about how shes passed her driving test just like my bf, cant stop talking about her and him being utterly similar. I mean, if I already shown her that it had fallen on deaf ears already in the past, why does she keep on going at me until now? Its like propaganda. You read and hear it often enough, you'll believe it, especially when your own bf isn't there to tell u otherwise.
I could put up with her, as long as I know he's by my side and he doesn't think that way. He thinks his life's miserable? And mine isn't? -
Gwensilvz,
if you actually consider it very carefully although I doubt you would, there is a line I draw. I frankly am okay with anyone bringing up the past, about the ex girlfriend etc, its perfectly fine with me because let's face it. They are wonderful memories within it all and these are things one must appreciate and accept. I only got drunk the first time my bf and his friends were talking non-stop about how he tried to win her back. That was when it got a little too much. But my bf was still heart-broken then. I was just sticking around to mend it, right? Fine. Its cool. All I want is for him to smile.
But the reason why I was happy in the past, or at least, happier, was because 1) She didn't even dare to talk like that to me 2)My bf was always there to listen and explain. But that was only the first stage of the relationship.
He may think that I'm very petty, that he can't say or do anything with me. The fact is is that he can, and so can that girl and everyone else. However, there is a limit and one cannot rattle on and on without pausing to think on whether he/she is being very hurtful to others.
All accepted, his ex girlfriend is pretty, chio, whatever. I've heard it all. I took it in once, twice, thrice, four times, five even. But I am not going to hear the same old neverending story for the rest of my life. That's what annoys me. The repitition.
Let me enlighten you on what I've learnt from her.
1)him and her like to eat their vegetables the same way. Leaves only.
2)they both like the same songs AND not only did she go on about it. she put it on repeat when i was driving.
3)he likes cute girls. Clean-cut, not goth and fierce looking aka kind of like her.
(I looked at her and told her u gotta be kidding. She was like "its true wat!")
4)my bf requires a more understanding girlfriend. I am too oversensitive. Too harsh.
5)They had "wonderful memories" in Sentosa. Whatever that is. She has this tendency to say something and when I ask what is it she doesn't say. How irritating is that. If she wasn't gonna say it DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
6)That his ex girlfriend "is very pretty le" and I am "not so pretty". What's her point. That's really really really really hurtful. Especially when u think she is the kind who actually KNOWS how to be a friend. And turns out to be like this.
7)My bf's mom loves to hug that girl everytime she sees her. EVERY SINGLE TIME i get this. So she doesn't hug me. What, is it supposed to be meaning that if she hugs her she likes her better? I don't even WANT to put down the rest following this.
I am fat and my boobs are kind of huge for my body, and I have a funny nose, which I have no freaking idea what is so fun about commenting on other people's bodies. A real empty vessel.
9)My fingers are fat as hell, wonder how I play the piano "because hor I like that guy he got diploma in piano le! U only grade 5 u sure u can play like him or not??" Siao. Got hear me play before or not? Never right? Then keep quiet.
10)All the guys in the group either liked her before, or she liked them because she was cute, which resulted in many guys going after her. (what.....)
11)Both of them drive the same way, and passed their driving tests the first time. (that, over and over and over and over again. Haiyo. I get it.)
There is more, but its such a waste of space. So is there a point in all this? If I were to sit through a Sydney trip with all of them. And for her to keep bringing up the ex girlfriend. Tell me how you would react if it was you.
I get it, I get it, I get it. That's all I'm saying. She's already made it clear that she is the one and only cutesy pie. Its cool with me. But don't go around ostracising other people because they can't respond to her cuteness, dont go around poking and playing with other people's boyfriends, especially when their girls are around. Just watch closely. Just watch the girls. One of them even looked at me like she was begging me to intervene. We have conversations. We DO NOT BITCH about her. They merely tell me how they feel. I have said absolutely nothing to them about what I feel. If a guy begins to play with me, that way, maybe more who knows? What, that girl is going to say I''m being inappropriate? She hated the time the ex played with her bf like that. Why is she doing it to other people?
I have lost my mind a few times trying to maintain my past attitude of being happy and carefree. However, I've instead become extremely bitter, which is why I am like this now. I do not appreciate someone else telling me I do not know my own bf. I do not appreciate someone saying that I am less pretty than the ex girlfriend. Of all people, a molecule in no position to talk, spoke, and can't stop talking.
I have no intention of being harsh and direct nor do I have intention to be a b i t c h about it. You and everyone else can say I'm weak and making a mountain out of a molehill, and you can continue pointing out my flaws and saying its all in my head. But you do realize I didn't start this, and the fact that I have sat there and entertained her and numerous times, attempted to change the topic. You call her ""maybe flawless". You call me "petty, oversensitive," god knows what else. Tell me that's fair.
Im not expecting my bf to freaking whack her back. All I'm saying is that there are lines people do not cross, and if he chooses to continue, I won't mind playing the same game because I've simply had it with being Ms Nice. My engagement was completely ruined and so many promises have been broken to me. What more of hell do I require in my relationship? Competition? Comparison? No. Be clear Gwensilvz. I DID NOT START THIS. -
/me hugs Anna
Sorry I have not been following this thread, juz read it now.
it seems that the prob has not been solved yet.
I agree with Devil, let go while u can.. if not u will get more hurt.
Save some pride for yourself ba.
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Hi dearie..im 22.. old ya? heehee lol *hugs*Originally posted by browniebaobao:/me hugs Anna
Sorry I have not been following this thread, juz read it now.
it seems that the prob has not been solved yet.
I agree with Devil, let go while u can.. if not u will get more hurt.
Save some pride for yourself ba.
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Until Im perfectly calm and made my point. I was damn disappointed just now..so I just wanted to make sure everything I wrote made sense and wasn't too emotional. Besides, I keep leaving things out, don't ever wanna repeat them. sry yo.Originally posted by M©+square: How many times do you want to edit? 
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You're not alone.Originally posted by AshedAnna:Until Im perfectly calm and made my point. I was damn disappointed just now..so I just wanted to make sure everything I wrote made sense and wasn't too emotional. Besides, I keep leaving things out, don't ever wanna repeat them. sry yo.
I believe every single person who post in AA have genuine problems they want to voice out.
Especially bout the matter of the heart, who could keep it in their hearts and hide...? Surely there are forms of release, you've chosen your avenue of release, that is in here.
your repeated editing tells me that you're unsure/hasty of what you've typed, or said. Therefore, backtracking your steps.
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Unfortunately, well, to tell you the truth, i was editing because i had some grammatical and spelling errors, then when i clicked 'submit', i kanna logged out. When i went back in, gotta do it again. That happened about three times just now, which explains the constant editing. lolOriginally posted by M©+square:You're not alone.
I believe every single person who post in AA have genuine problems they want to voice out.
Especially bout the matter of the heart, who could keep it in their hearts and hide...? Surely there are forms of release, you've chosen your avenue of release, that is in here.
your repeated editing tells me that you're unsure/hasty of what you've typed, or said. Therefore, backtracking your steps.
Do you do that in real life as well?
Im an emotionally driven person most of the time. I get hysterical. It is hard to keep it under wraps since my mother, my boyfriend, other people, expect me to sit down and listen to them (and not all of what they say is nice at all), and when i get the chance to talk, they whistle and look away, or act like they aren't listening, or simply goes in one ear and out the other.
At the moment, I am confused because somehow the things I seem to say or do are deemed as wrong or stupid to others. I am neither. I do neither. That Im sure, although at times I do make my silly human errors.
I wish I could be sure in my real life too. As sure as I am typing every single letter. That if i press a 'T', i'll see a 'T'. not an 'a', 'B', or 'e'. But in life, no matter how certain one is, we can never always be certain. lol sounds a little cheesy but maybe I do need to practice a little more self-restraint, but not to the point where I am being played around with by idiots like the girl I mentioned above.
Im sorry to say, she is an idiot, a huge one, and as much as my reputation is fighting with me not to say this, she is really being an a s s h o l e. No matter how cute she is, what other people think of her, what she has done for her friends and me, which although they are nice, she uses her good deeds as arsenal for comparison. But, like I mentioned earlier, only the people who are present could ever really judge...I am trying to be as fair as I can too. No place in my heart hopes to hate, but sometimes I just get pushed too much to the point where I have to put my hands up and say "STOP! SHUT UP!" the vulgarities following are usually emotionally driven. That is the part I backtrack and check, but usually have no privilege of editing. -
edit again!!!
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Originally posted by M©+square:edit again!!! im angry again...
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I think Im gonna get away from the comp when im tulan. Before I either smash the keys or edit. lol lol
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wad did he do to you again....Originally posted by AshedAnna:I think Im gonna get away from the comp when im tulan. Before I either smash the keys or edit. lol lol -
I was surfing this forum and since i am new and cannot post anything, i registered and i really want to share this wit you so maybe u might feel a lil betta.
My gal and i were in the same situation as u and your guy. She also got this from one of my friends. I tot at first, she was being too sensitive. But as the months went by, she became more deprezd and smiled less and less. It hurt me becoz I tot she shouldn't feel like dis and she was overreacting. But as it turns out, my friend actually din like her. In fact, my friend later confess to me dat she was intimidated by my gal. Same also, dat gal bf my best friend since i was born le.
I also react the same way like your guy, scold her, tell her she is being sensitive. But sometimes we guys have tendencies to be too attached to our ego dat we never really see wat our gals are going thru. Even if my friend din confess, she realli went too far at timez and I wasn't there for my gal wen she needed me. I juz heck care her if she give attitude or juz be sad. She got even ask me to choose betwn my friend and her. Not becoz she is btchy or anything becoz at first i tot she was, but she feel she need to know dat she is important to me. She feel I side my friend everytime i angry with her. Pple say gals are sensitive and stupid stupid one anyhow feel sad, but in fact, only mostly guys say dat. They dunno how their gal feels becoz they nvr step in her shoes and kanna this from other gals. And she is not like dat also, like u, by nature one. She is kind and very sweet, and like u, the love nature kind, hippie hippie one.
I apologise to her before I confront my friend. I scared actually last time to confront her becoz I want to give my best friend face. not easy de, but in my heart, my gal is my baby and if pple want to hurt her, even dat other gal, i will protect her. But muz be careful nt to spoil friendship also. The other gal treat me very nice also, buy me presents and talk to me and last time when I got trouble she help me. Dat is friend. But what is not friend is wen she insult my gal.
I learn dat trust come from both sides one. U cannot expect a gal to trust u if u treat her liddat. Also not dat she don want to trust u, she cannot. If a guy can allow his gal to get insulted by other pple, and the insult is realli too much one, (i got read ur posts its realli too much le), sometimes the person who knows dat friend better must say something one. Cannot anyhow heck care his gal.
It worth it. My gal and I are veri happy now. Now I dun care if that gal is toolan wit me or not becoz she got no right to upset her. If i consider myself a gd bf, den I shuld b the one my gal run to, the one to lend her shoulder to cry on, and to tell her everything one.
Ur bf is veri lucky to have u, u tolerate for so long liao. U must realli love him, n i understand dat u dun mean to be like dis one. Jai you, ok? Everything will work out one. If need anything juz P.M me. -
Nothing..just thinking about it makes my blood freaking boil.Originally posted by M©+square:wad did he do to you again.... -
hey thanks alot..glad to hear that things are working out between you and your gf. Haha Im not sure also right now whether he feels lucky or not...all I know is i have had enough. BTW, two things: 1) did your gf have a very bad temper? 2)are u malay or chinese> because your nick's malay and u sound chinese (im sorry im just curious!!)Originally posted by NiNik:I was surfing this forum and since i am new and cannot post anything, i registered and i really want to share this wit you so maybe u might feel a lil betta.
My gal and i were in the same situation as u and your guy. She also got this from one of my friends. I tot at first, she was being too sensitive. But as the months went by, she became more deprezd and smiled less and less. It hurt me becoz I tot she shouldn't feel like dis and she was overreacting. But as it turns out, my friend actually din like her. In fact, my friend later confess to me dat she was intimidated by my gal. Same also, dat gal bf my best friend since i was born le.
I also react the same way like your guy, scold her, tell her she is being sensitive. But sometimes we guys have tendencies to be too attached to our ego dat we never really see wat our gals are going thru. Even if my friend din confess, she realli went too far at timez and I wasn't there for my gal wen she needed me. I juz heck care her if she give attitude or juz be sad. She got even ask me to choose betwn my friend and her. Not becoz she is btchy or anything becoz at first i tot she was, but she feel she need to know dat she is important to me. She feel I side my friend everytime i angry with her. Pple say gals are sensitive and stupid stupid one anyhow feel sad, but in fact, only mostly guys say dat. They dunno how their gal feels becoz they nvr step in her shoes and kanna this from other gals. And she is not like dat also, like u, by nature one. She is kind and very sweet, and like u, the love nature kind, hippie hippie one.
I apologise to her before I confront my friend. I scared actually last time to confront her becoz I want to give my best friend face. not easy de, but in my heart, my gal is my baby and if pple want to hurt her, even dat other gal, i will protect her. But muz be careful nt to spoil friendship also. The other gal treat me very nice also, buy me presents and talk to me and last time when I got trouble she help me. Dat is friend. But what is not friend is wen she insult my gal.
I learn dat trust come from both sides one. U cannot expect a gal to trust u if u treat her liddat. Also not dat she don want to trust u, she cannot. If a guy can allow his gal to get insulted by other pple, and the insult is realli too much one, (i got read ur posts its realli too much le), sometimes the person who knows dat friend better must say something one. Cannot anyhow heck care his gal.
It worth it. My gal and I are veri happy now. Now I dun care if that gal is toolan wit me or not becoz she got no right to upset her. If i consider myself a gd bf, den I shuld b the one my gal run to, the one to lend her shoulder to cry on, and to tell her everything one.
Ur bf is veri lucky to have u, u tolerate for so long liao. U must realli love him, n i understand dat u dun mean to be like dis one. Jai you, ok? Everything will work out one. If need anything juz P.M me. -
wus ur horoscope? libra?Originally posted by AshedAnna:Nothing..just thinking about it makes my blood freaking boil. -
lol no la...im chinese. My gal calls me ninik. She anyhow create one nick for me i also dunno her brain one. lol
to ans ur first question, ya i muz say her temper is quite bad. But gd thing is she dun anyhow angry one. Nobody is anyhow angry one, she onli angry when I der jui her or if someone do something wrong to her. But her angry is really damn angry one lol juz bigger reaction
den wen we quarrel, she juz keep talking i juz listen. at first very difficult becoz she is long winded wen she is angry one, but realli pay off to listen le. Becoz sometimes im very bochup one...and she dun like. I admit i got more bochup to her than dat gal. She feel out of place and i finally admitted my fault. it is my fault in the first place and i simply choose nt to see onli n think it will go away. But i try nt to do things dat upset her, n find life is much easier n we both also happier than last time when i give her headache and she absorb. lol lol (dis is regardin ur P.M le)
guy veri hard to let go of ego one...veri hard to admit his true feeling...but true man will nt be afraid to admit one becoz he got nothin to b scared wat. why i scared show my gal love in front of my friends. I also guy and my ego also veri big mah. I nt sayin ur guy is nt man, maybe he still growing up le. Juz gif him time...bt this thing u must settle yue kuai yue hao dun keep inside. ur not wrong to feel like dis one. he juz nvr use his eye to see who is the real person in the wrong, juz more convenient to blame u. In meantime u juz take care gal, chat soon! -
Nope. Leo.Originally posted by Ito_^:wus ur horoscope? libra? -
Originally posted by AshedAnna:Nope. Leo.
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What disappoints me is that I allowed everything to progess naturally. and naturally, this is how things end up. In my earlier posts, I have made it clear I do not intend for people to mian chiang for me...because I find it extremely BHB for some weird reason. If I have to MAKE him apologise or whatever you have done, it would be as meaningless as if I forced cotton balls into a container thats already full. *sigh*Originally posted by NiNik:lol no la...im chinese. My gal calls me ninik. She anyhow create one nick for me i also dunno her brain one. lol
to ans ur first question, ya i muz say her temper is quite bad. But gd thing is she dun anyhow angry one. Nobody is anyhow angry one, she onli angry when I der jui her or if someone do something wrong to her. But her angry is really damn angry one lol juz bigger reaction
den wen we quarrel, she juz keep talking i juz listen. at first very difficult becoz she is long winded wen she is angry one, but realli pay off to listen le. Becoz sometimes im very bochup one...and she dun like. I admit i got more bochup to her than dat gal. She feel out of place and i finally admitted my fault. it is my fault in the first place and i simply choose nt to see onli n think it will go away. But i try nt to do things dat upset her, n find life is much easier n we both also happier than last time when i give her headache and she absorb. lol lol (dis is regardin ur P.M le)
guy veri hard to let go of ego one...veri hard to admit his true feeling...but true man will nt be afraid to admit one becoz he got nothin to b scared wat. why i scared show my gal love in front of my friends. I also guy and my ego also veri big mah. I nt sayin ur guy is nt man, maybe he still growing up le. Juz gif him time...bt this thing u must settle yue kuai yue hao dun keep inside. ur not wrong to feel like dis one. he juz nvr use his eye to see who is the real person in the wrong, juz more convenient to blame u. In meantime u juz take care gal, chat soon!
Nah, I doubt he's blaming me out of convenience, although finding an alternative explanation is a little hard since its so queer to be able to blame one's own "love" and shun her and call her all types of names when she didn't even trigger this in the first place. Dude, men are weird you got that right. But Im glad for you, really. Not many guys could ever give their ego the finger. Bravo. -
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where got old?Originally posted by AshedAnna:Hi dearie..im 22.. old ya? heehee lol *hugs*
If u say u are old, I'm also old la.
I'm 22 too, Aries.
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She got say before le... never read probably!!!Originally posted by Ito_^:wus ur horoscope? libra? 
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deh*Originally posted by Yunhaier:She got say before le... never read probably!!!
Cheers
*properly* lah.