RE: eye contact
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I got that from playing The Sims.Originally posted by icYwATeR:ty for your information there. But talking to the mirror would that help?or is there any alternative
But seriously, you have to practise. Set for yourself a goal, say you will maintain eye contact with 3 people today, or you will maintain your eye contact with everyone you speak to for a minimum of 10 seconds. Try and see if it works.. -
No lah, just a glance cos threadstarter say he/she don't look at people's faces at all.Originally posted by Ito_^:u mean stare at strangers huh? 
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i will maintain eye contact and occasionally glance away
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Personally i get very irritated by people who do not make eye contact with me when talking.
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10sec isit too long? later people think i have some kind of eyes disorder or somethingOriginally posted by ^spidee^:I got that from playing The Sims.
But seriously, you have to practise. Set for yourself a goal, say you will maintain eye contact with 3 people today, or you will maintain your eye contact with everyone you speak to for a minimum of 10 seconds. Try and see if it works.. -
if u r having difficulties because u think u'll get electrocuted by the other party for looking into his/her eyes, look at the nose.
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Depends..?Originally posted by icYwATeR:When you're talking to your friends, do you actually look at their face or rather eye contact, when talking?
cause i have this habit that i wouldnt look at peoples face when im talking, is that a bad habit ? if so how am i gonna change .
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MI3Originally posted by FireIce:i look at lips
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Originally posted by field:I look at the groin and smile
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depends on how long the conversation lasts, actually.. doesn't have to be 10 secs, just guage how long is appropriate lor..Originally posted by icYwATeR:10sec isit too long? later people think i have some kind of eyes disorder or something -
i feel uncomfortable when the person im speaking to keeps staring at my eyes
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ya.. ill think this person is siao ding dung.Originally posted by bksianzz:i feel uncomfortable when the person im speaking to keeps staring at my eyes
another habit is greeting waiters, etc (strangers) by their first name, i dunnoe, maybe its good manners to some, but i find it a little offensive if someone does dat to me. -
i hate it when ppl call me "tan", felt more like an object
army ppl should know what i mean -
first name is ah kow if ur full name is tan ah kow.Originally posted by bksianzz:i hate it when ppl call me "tan", felt more like an object
army ppl should know what i mean
call me last name i'll be even more pissed off. especially directly. Tan! -
ya la... is "oi tan, help me do this"
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Many people always say out my surname without realizing it.
I'm used to it liao, tho sometimes I will call that person's surname back. -
Than when i stare too long people think i siao and when i didnt eye contact while talking people say i impolite
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Oh! Is it that bad?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Many people always say out my surname without realizing it.
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i got a friend like to do that on me wan....sometimes in mid conversation he will fix his eyes on me....if i caught him doing that i will look at him and he will purposely rolled his eyes abit until i feel
then he laugh.
wah liew.
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huh?
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i feel uncomfortable when looking at ppl eyes too ..
my eyes tend to float around ..... haiz i dont know hw to change too .. -
/me kokz ah square!!!Originally posted by M©+square:Oh! Is it that bad?
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Morning Uh OH!Originally posted by browniebaobao:/me kokz ah square!!! -
Gd morning mango!Originally posted by M©+square:Morning Uh OH!
I muz go buy mango and cut cut cut into pieces, then put them in blender make mango juice.
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I'm going Bangkok's Mango Tango, can get to drink blended Mango juice wor!Originally posted by browniebaobao:Gd morning mango!
I muz go buy mango and cut cut cut into pieces, then put them in blender make mango juice.
Till date. Only two person called me mango. One was my NS mate. and the other is you.