Being “hooked” by female staff in the pub..
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1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
What shld we do??
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Let him get cheated.
No point advising him if he doesn't want to listen. After getting cheated he'll learn from his mistake
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encourage him to jio the girl out.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
spare the rod and spoil the child.......CHAIN HIM UP!!!!
1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
[b]What shld we do?? [/b]
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he's going back to the pub cus the gal jio him de..Originally posted by Ito_^:encourage him to jio the girl out.
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dont spam this crap lah.
stick to your oringinal thread
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=191571
n AA is not a place for crapping! -
He won't learn if he don't suffer. Perhaps you can try hinting his parents about it,maybe cut down his pocket money so that he won't have that much money to spend on beers stuff but you all did what you all friend did, to advise him, if he sitll don't heed your advice, there noting much you can do either. All the best.
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exactly, if i'm his dad, i'll do tt..Originally posted by gohkatkat:spare the rod and spoil the child.......CHAIN HIM UP!!!! -
u seriously think tt i'm crapping??Originally posted by skeujin:dont spam this crap lah.
stick to your oringinal thread
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=191571
n AA is not a place for crapping!
if yes, i'm really sorry abt tt.. -
Hohohoho.
Naive boy.
And I'm younger than him by a year.
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den jio her OUT of the pub. catch a movie or something, u noe.Originally posted by lonestar86:he's going back to the pub cus the gal jio him de..
if they end up well, den u dun have to worry about him being hooked le.
if the girl keep refusing and only wans him to go to the pub den u confirm got fish smelling le.
if dats the case, den after some time, he himself will smell the fish. how come this person only wan me go to pub?
but really, got commision to jio a guy to pub one meh? so hardworking juz to jio ur fren arh.
if not den over some time, im sure the gal oso sian le, at most one heartbreak for u fren lor. -
maybe the gal can earn commision, i dunno..Originally posted by Ito_^:den jio her OUT of the pub. catch a movie or something, u noe.
if they end up well, den u dun have to worry about him being hooked le.
if the girl keep refusing and only wans him to go to the pub den u confirm got fish smelling le.
if dats the case, den after some time, he himself will smell the fish. how come this person only wan me go to pub?
but really, got commision to jio a guy to pub one meh? so hardworking juz to jio ur fren arh.
if not den over some time, im sure the gal oso sian le, at most one heartbreak for u fren lor.
but 1 thing i'm sure..
she wants him to spend $$ in the pub..
no doubt abt tt.. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
actually there is another way to deal with such issue.......perhaps..........since you adviced him out of good will and he gets angry......let him be.............if he gets killed in a pub fight if any............robbed in the pub..........or infected with some STD with the pub girl.........that's his own problem.....to such a people who do not "see" how much care and concern someone is showing.....let him be........and when he stumbles upon some "rock" and slips........he will then have memory in the future to avoid such situation........as the saying goes.....once bitten twice shy......let him be...............
1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
[b]What shld we do?? [/b]
let him see his own foolishness himself if someone can't light his path.......he will eventually later in life...... -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
yr colleague go pub 3 times a week is not yr problem or isnt a problem at all. its not as thou he gets drunk n starts fight or causes problems in his studies.
1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
[b]What shld we do?? [/b]
he being 17 is the pub's problem not yours.
hes spending his parents $ not yours n hes not begging or stealing. dun see a problem here either. at 17 hes still expected to b spending his parents $. i wld regard kids tt spend $ on arcades to b wasting their parents $
so what if he doesnt tell his parents? again not yr problem. do you tell yr parents wen u go pubbing or wen u knw its somethg they will not approve of? duhz
he go to the pub cause he likes one of the gals. so what? other choose food quality or ambiance.
he get angry wen his 'frens' get naggy n kpo... expected... -
his fren go pub spend his money oso not our prob...
no need to reply lah... -
erm 17 ? 17 how to go pubbing and drinking ?
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Tip-off the mata he's there.=D
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mata will also tip off his parents.Originally posted by missqi:Tip-off the mata he's there.=D -
lol .. but how can enter a pub so easily without getting caught ??Originally posted by missqi:Tip-off the mata he's there.=D -
tell u for wat? u wana go also ah? thn a 'fren' of your will kpo n post another similar thread for u...Originally posted by lalala1999:lol .. but how can enter a pub so easily without getting caught ?? -
the problem is they didn't check our ages..Originally posted by lalala1999:erm 17 ? 17 how to go pubbing and drinking ?
seems like they dun care as long as they can earn $$.. -
cus he doesn't look like a 17yr old guy..Originally posted by lalala1999:lol .. but how can enter a pub so easily without getting caught ??
he looks quite "cao lau" aka mature looking.. -
do ur best to advise him
to tell him to control his spending...
once u have done all u can n he's still crazy over e girl n spent huge amt..
ignore him..
he will learn once he burn his pocket..
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Lonestar:
You may get your friend to post in this thread.
If he listens to you, you've done your part as a friend.
If he doesn't, then all our advices will only end up with you. -
since he dun appreciate my advice, maybe i shld not care abt him anymore..