Being “hooked” by female staff in the pub..
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Each decision will reap new experience, growth.Originally posted by lonestar86:since he dun appreciate my advice, maybe i shld not care abt him anymore..
You've got to learn as well. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
let him learn the hard way by keeping ur distance from him for a short period of time first.
1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
[b]What shld we do??
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let him do what he wants since he doesn't heed ur seed of advice.
see what happens after that. -
17 years old got balls leh..can drink meh? The Pub Owner wanted to close door faster?.
Make the girl walk road, then go after her easier. -
My friend goes to a certain pub 5 times(the other day cannot goes he do shift) a week to see a waitress he likes.Open Bottle after bottle. As for some pretty waitesses i know, they have customers who are courting them go the pub almost daily for few months til they give up,then another cycle comes along. Take note these guys are not teens liao.
The pub boss will ask the waitress everyday call these men down to drink. That is whats called regular customers. -
Actually what u guys mention like cutting down the son's pocket $,ignoring him and all that,it might onli b fesible for a short term onli
reason is bcuz he dosent have $ to go pub
to clarify,its not the gal who jio him right?its the female staff workign there which hes attracted to isnt it?
if this is so,then i think hes still very naive
pub dun hire pretty waitress for 10-13$ and hr for ntus
its part of their marketting strategy to get guys to come back
these gals will juz ask u to open drinks here and there t o earn commison
its part of their job,but if ur friend cant udnerstand this
then let him learn by falling loh
and if ur doen ur part as a friend to the fullest,dun whine...
theres nth u can do -
Just remain as his fren and be there for him if he needs you. Just don't lend him money; if fact try to borrow as much as possible and then keep in a bank for him.
He is in love and he cannot even change himself so how are you going to change him? The only hope he has is that the girl change job or pubs and disappear from his life. -
Wah... they get paid so much $$$ per hour ah... you sure or not 1 hour $13 bucks. 1 day 8 hrs alot leh... That means 1 day $100+ then 1 month $2600 to $2800 as a waitress... Better than you study 3yrs at singapore poly to be an Optometrist & work 11 long hours a day in a small little shop and get only $2500 a month.Originally posted by olala:pub dun hire pretty waitress for 10-13$ and hr for ntus
its part of their marketting strategy to get guys to come back
these gals will juz ask u to open drinks here and there t o earn commison
its part of their job,but if ur friend cant udnerstand this
then let him learn by falling loh
and if ur doen ur part as a friend to the fullest,dun whine...
theres nth u can do
Wah like tat better go and be a waitress better... LOLz -
I got another idea... the next time he goes to the pub you ask him to call you. when you know he is there, you make a report to the police straight... so the cops goes there, fine the owner for allowing underage in to drink then next time they will stop him from entering again right. Not nice lah but maybe it can still save him from Big trouble coming his way.Originally posted by casino_king:Just remain as his fren and be there for him if he needs you. Just don't lend him money; if fact try to borrow as much as possible and then keep in a bank for him.
He is in love and he cannot even change himself so how are you going to change him? The only hope he has is that the girl change job or pubs and disappear from his life. -
exactly..Originally posted by snobbish:My friend goes to a certain pub 5 times(the other day cannot goes he do shift) a week to see a waitress he likes.Open Bottle after bottle. As for some pretty waitesses i know, they have customers who are courting them go the pub almost daily for few months til they give up,then another cycle comes along. Take note these guys are not teens liao.
The pub boss will ask the waitress everyday call these men down to drink. That is whats called regular customers.
the pub gal call/sms my colleague very often..
asking him to visit her @ the pub.. -
btw, he has already borrowed $$ from another colleague of ours..Originally posted by casino_king:Just remain as his fren and be there for him if he needs you. Just don't lend him money; if fact try to borrow as much as possible and then keep in a bank for him.
still doing it now.. -
leave him be, recommend ur colleagues dun lend him money..Originally posted by lonestar86:btw, he's already borrowing $$ from another colleague of ours.. -
But gals must be both pretty and sexy in order to work in a pub..Originally posted by zocoss:Wah... they get paid so much $$$ per hour ah... you sure or not 1 hour $13 bucks. 1 day 8 hrs alot leh... That means 1 day $100+ then 1 month $2600 to $2800 as a waitress... Better than you study 3yrs at singapore poly to be an Optometrist & work 11 long hours a day in a small little shop and get only $2500 a month.
Wah like tat better go and be a waitress better... LOLz
tt's the reason y the boss is willing to pay them so much $$.. -
Last nite went to a pub along neil road. The pub owner ( young chap ) employs a few young chio super ah lian waitress. At first when me and my frenz ( 2 of us only ) went in, the pub was so quite. No other customers. Then after 9pm, customers starts to pour in. I can tell all r their frenz lah ( regular customers ). And guess wat? They r mostly young teens or the most still doing NS loh. They open bottles after bottles just to show off to those ah lians...... stupid.
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exactly, they r using this kinda "dirty" strategy to lure navie guys back to the pub again and again to spend $$ in the pub..Originally posted by olala:to clarify,its not the gal who jio him right?its the female staff workign there which hes attracted to isnt it?
if this is so,then i think hes still very naive
pub dun hire pretty waitress for 10-13$ and hr for ntus
its part of their marketting strategy to get guys to come back
these gals will juz ask u to open drinks here and there t o earn commison
its part of their job,but if ur friend cant udnerstand this
then let him learn by falling loh
its the female staff working there keeps asking my colleague to visit her @ the pub..
Once he visits her, he gonna spend $$..
so stupid of him.. -
tsk tsk tsk..Originally posted by Manager433:Last nite went to a pub along neil road. The pub owner ( young chap ) employs a few young chio super ah lian waitress. At first when me and my frenz ( 2 of us only ) went in, the pub was so quite. No other customers. Then after 9pm, customers starts to pour in. I can tell all r their frenz lah ( regular customers ). And guess wat? They r mostly young teens or the most still doing NS loh. They open bottles after bottles just to show off to those ah lians...... stupid.
NS guys where got the $$..
monthly allowance only peanuts..
surely kena burn holes in pockets.. -
Ya..Originally posted by Manager433:They open bottles after bottles just to show off to those ah lians...... stupid.
i find this so foolish..
but sad to say many guys r doing tt jus to show off..
many even treats those female staff loh..
in the end, the bill can be hundreds of $$.. -
btw, there was once our manager went with my colleauge (i didn't join them)..
our manager open a few bottles of liquor..
in the end, the bill was $300++ -
normal? or what for employ girls to pour drinks and chat with people..
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She just wants to keep her job.Originally posted by lonestar86:exactly..
the pub gal call/sms my colleague very often..
asking him to visit her @ the pub..
Ask your colleague to date her out outside her work schedule.
See how's her response. -
there is nothing much u can do..
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aiya everyone is young before u know,last time when i was in my teens also alway chiong pub lah never go sch etc,after a while sian liao will start to think straight, especially after enlisting NS.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
Learn the hard way.
1 of my colleague is being “hooked”..
HeÂ’s going to the pub @ least 3 times a week..
HeÂ’s only 17yr old, poly yr 1 student..
HeÂ’s spending his parentsÂ’ $$ on all the beer and liquor he drinks in the pub..
His parents are still being kept in the dark loh.. Hai~~
The reason y heÂ’s going back to the pub again and again itÂ’s bÂ’cus of 1 of the female staff..
When we advise him not to go back again, he gets angry..
[b]What shld we do?? [/b] -
yes. i suggested that too.Originally posted by Magnus:She just wants to keep her job.
Ask your colleague to date her out outside her work schedule.
See how's her response. -
let him be
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There’s another colleague of mine who is “hooked” to another 1 of the gal from the pub..
He has started to go out with her..
She has borrowed $$ from him..
She even told him tt sheÂ’s not trying to cheat him..
He lent $$ to her..
Dun u guys think heÂ’s so foolish??