I really do, love her.
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just look her in the eye, and spill your heart out.
it really takes balls, but if u really love her the way u claim you do, then its worth it.
if some other guys comes along and snatches her off, then.. ah.. -
17 messages and 1 reply?
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Originally posted by M©+square:You remind me of someone whom i treasured alot. A male friend of mine.
He was always into his talk about his beaut. Claiming what he would have done for her and how much he loves her.
He likes to paint Airy Fairy tales around her. He'll describe how he'll reach out to her and fight for her if ever such incidents and scenario happens.
He'll weep and smile himself silly over the failed attempts(he withdrew his confess) and smile over those things he could do for her.
Sadly, he didn't understand what she wants in a guy.
My dear friend was a pathetic fool.
I understood my friend, how he felt, his tears and his hurts.
All his hot air jazz over becoming her hero became nothing. It became dust....worthless.
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My friend(you, yes you), how long could you play the waiting and dreaming game?
You could be freed from your fantasy if you'd just confess your interest to her. It shall no longer be a dream.
Right now, you're just think of yourself.
Go on protecting yourself and you'll reap what you sow.
Love is not this. And This is not love.
MC.
Ouch, but I had to agree with MCsquare.
You feared rejection so much, that if you were to break down your thoughts, you will realize somehow, you will do the darnest things that destroy your chance and fulfilled the condition for this rejection to take place again. It is a reiterated cycle because what and how we exude our love, comes from the condition inside of us.
You know why your emotions are so intense? (If you are Scorpio, then x2 to that amount)
Simply because it is SUPPRESSED emotions.
Hate to douse you in cold water, but it is not true love dude. It is love nevertheless, but it is overwhelming... overflowing because it is suppressed. You tried to brush it away and bring down the intensity of your love for her but it kinda backfire. What you did merely strengthen this wild energy of love and the more you tried to control, the more erratic it gets... until:
I) You are unable to control it and it runs berserk.
II) Fulfilled the self prophesy of rejection.
III) Repeat karmic cycle.
If you want love, then remove the fear of rejection. If your love cannot remove the fear of rejection, it will question your love instead.
Cheers -
After reading MC's post, can really empathise with it.
You can be the white knight that slays the dragon & fights the trolls to save the princess. But you can never be her prince. -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Now he swung to the other end of outbrust of 'love'. Ouch, but I had to agree with MCsquare.
You feared rejection so much, that if you were to break down your thoughts, you will realize somehow, you will do the darnest things that destroy your chance and fulfilled the condition for this rejection to take place again. It is a reiterated cycle because what and how we exude our love, comes from the condition inside of us.
You know why your emotions are so intense? (If you are Scorpio, then x2 to that amount)
Simply because it is SUPPRESSED emotions.
Hate to douse you in cold water, but it is not true love dude. It is love nevertheless, but it is overwhelming... overflowing because it is suppressed. You tried to brush it away and bring down the intensity of your love for her but it kinda backfire. What you did merely strengthen this wild energy of love and the more you tried to control, the more erratic it gets... until:
I) You are unable to control it and it runs berserk.
II) Fulfilled the self prophesy of rejection.
III) Repeat karmic cycle.
[b]If you want love, then remove the fear of rejection. If your love cannot remove the fear of rejection, it will question your love instead.
Cheers [/b]
Extreme to extreme. Hai.
Yup, the cycle should start.
But how long will it last...?
Interesting.
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Reminds me of Guang Liang - Tong Hua? I think he listen too much?Originally posted by Magnus:After reading MC's post, can really empathise with it.
You can be the white knight that slays the dragon & fights the trolls to save the princess. But you can never be her prince.
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Ever wonder how sometimes fairy tales mirrors reality?Originally posted by M©+square:Reminds me of Guang Liang - Tong Hua? I think he listen too much?
Happened to me some time back.
The girl would approached me first for my opinions & she does listen.
Saved her from some nasty situations too.
We were the best of pals. We have very good 'mo4 chi4'. Sometimes we even will say the same things at the same time.
She said I understood her best.
I tot we have must something wonderful there. Until she found her prince. And that's when I realised that I'm only the knight. A dark knight.. -
I no longer feared rejection, But the thing is. Im no longer given a chance to be able to prove myself. I blewed the first. And its really miserable for me.
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oh well , 17 smses and only one reply already is a rejection .Originally posted by rikki:I no longer feared rejection, But the thing is. Im no longer given a chance to be able to prove myself. I blewed the first. And its really miserable for me. -
should try with play the dating game..it's 50 - 40 win-loseOriginally posted by forfun_cash:oh well , 17 smses and only one reply already is a rejection .
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And?Originally posted by rikki:I no longer feared rejection, But the thing is. Im no longer given a chance to be able to prove myself. I blewed the first. And its really miserable for me.
You did your part, she did hers... Anymore question? -
ermz...rikki, how old are u? I think u r about 17 if i am not wrong?
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You sound like someone who know me? Who are you? Cs?
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same problem man..make friends liao donno what to do next..not sure if choi her will kanna rejected not..Put gummy sack on her head then bring her home la lol she surely yours what.
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gummy sack?Originally posted by teckton:same problem man..make friends liao donno what to do next..not sure if choi her will kanna rejected not..Put gummy sack on her head then bring her home la lol she surely yours what.
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this is nice =DOriginally posted by M©+square:"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Lao Tze
You only have the courage to think. You lack the doing...then what use is the courage and love?
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I'll like thank all of you, especially M©+square and many others who gave me honest response. I've confessed to her via msn. Like i expected, It was'nt a positive response. But its not a negative response either. To me, It meant hope. She said she was'nt ready for love yet, and because of that. I've decided to wait till she's ready. Some of you might ask me, how long will i wait? I'll tell you, Forever. Because I have a feeling that, for the rest of my life. I'll only like her.
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Good, at least you've tried and you got a respond.Originally posted by rikki:I'll like thank all of you, especially M©+square and many others who gave me honest response. I've confessed to her via msn. Like i expected, It was'nt a positive response. But its not a negative response either. To me, It meant hope. She said she was'nt ready for love yet, and because of that. I've decided to wait till she's ready. Some of you might ask me, how long will i wait? I'll tell you, Forever. Because I have a feeling that, for the rest of my life. I'll only like her.
All the best yeah?
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Hmm.Originally posted by rikki:I'll like thank all of you, especially M©+square and many others who gave me honest response. I've confessed to her via msn. Like i expected, It was'nt a positive response. But its not a negative response either. To me, It meant hope. She said she was'nt ready for love yet, and because of that. I've decided to wait till she's ready. Some of you might ask me, how long will i wait? I'll tell you, Forever. Because I have a feeling that, for the rest of my life. I'll only like her.