girl i like blocked me.
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Originally posted by mistyblue:We understand the word 'constructive' very well. We hope you also understand the concept of rejection also.
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hmm got a few questions to ask.
1) What's the cause of her blocking you in the first place?
2) What's the relationship between you and her prior to this? (As in online friends? RL friends? Classmates? Colleagues?) -
I can see why she blocked you in the first place. Well Done!
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Ristar
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Send Message 30 May 2006 · 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by chanff8:
Many of the replies are so constructive you simply overlooked them
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out of so many posts in this thread, only 3 of them are constructive, namely.
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mistyblue
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u could assume she hates u and move on. but if she doesnt, and is just trying to boost her ego by playing hard to get, then its a lost opportunity for u.
the best solution is to call her up, and if she tells u in the face "get lost i dun wanna see u ever again!", then u can move on w/o worries (:
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ask a friend whom u trust to contact her and ask her out to meet/jus hang out... then u show up (like u jus happen to be there)... and pick her up using ur pick-up skills. she probly will gif u another chance after a long time.... appearances change and maybe she'll like u.
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yeah, there are many replies that are so construcive.
of coz, we can just let this thread degenerate to mud-slinging, but im better than this.
[This message was edited by Ristar on 2006-05-30 13:32:31.]
Seems like those "constructive" comments (In your ways of interpretation) are "nice" comments that you still have a chance.....
Obviously, to many others, you do not find faults in yourself...you don't know what's wrong with yoourself....
Why she blocked you in the very 1st place....becoz she likes you and she's shy to face you? Or ??? What're your thoughts about it..... -
Isit time to +1?
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don't wait, just do itOriginally posted by chanff8:Isit time to +1?
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Alright, this is an official +1Originally posted by mistyblue:don't wait, just do it
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Originally posted by Ristar:
Your meaning/interpretation of Constructive: Those comments that're smoothing to hear, nice to hear and not depressing are "Constructive" comments....
keyword: [b]constructive
haha... u guys just luv to flame others.[/b]
You just couldn't face yourself to admit...do you? Hence, "u guys are just luv to flame others." -
there we go.Originally posted by NekoRin:hmm got a few questions to ask.
1) What's the cause of her blocking you in the first place?
2) What's the relationship between you and her prior to this? (As in online friends? RL friends? Classmates? Colleagues?)
1) like wat i said, a long long time ago in a galaxy far far far far away, i am not very good with BGR stuff.
we liked each other mutually, but me, being a young guy, din know wat to do.
then, after losing contact for a while (and getting back in contact again) i got too kan cheong and didnt say the right things at the right time. poof, gone.
2) classmates.
actually, constructive means exactly that. i asked for ideas, remember? coz i already know that theres little to no chance already.
dcx
Seems like those "constructive"; comments (In your ways of interpretation) are "nice" comments that you still have a chance..... -
Unconstructive........Originally posted by NekoRin:hmm got a few questions to ask.
1) What's the cause of her blocking you in the first place?
2) What's the relationship between you and her prior to this? (As in online friends? RL friends? Classmates? Colleagues?)
just kidding...no offences... -
Ok, following the official +1, here's mine:
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I see.......Originally posted by Ristar:actually, constructive means exactly that. i asked for ideas, remember? coz i already know that theres little to no chance already.
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its not constructive telling me wat i already know.Originally posted by dcx:I see.......
No wonder there's NO chance already....
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It ain't constructive to yourself not realising that you already know.....Originally posted by Ristar:its not constructive telling me wat i already know.
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where is your +1Originally posted by dcx:I see.......
No wonder there's NO chance already.... -
yea right. oh no, i just realised that i know wat my birth date is.Originally posted by dcx:It ain't constructive to yourself not realising that you already know.....
Do you know what's the meaning of constructive now?
no need for you to continue if u r just going to talk trash here, man. u've got nothing to prove. -
oops........pai seh pai seh.....coming up...coming up.......Originally posted by mistyblue:where is your +1
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Nothing to prove your stupidity???? aww.....never mind........Originally posted by Ristar:yea right. oh no, i just realised that i know wat my birth date is.
no need for you to continue if u r just going to talk trash here, man. u've got nothing to prove. -
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Originally posted by dcx:Nothing to prove your stupidity???? aww.....never mind........
man, was i right about mud-slinging. keep it coming, man. -
So bossy for what Fcuk?Originally posted by mistyblue:where is your +1
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crazy monkey come, iveco also come ... hmmmm...
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Since you both are classmates, should be able to see her face to face I assume. Try to find an opportunity to have a talk to her. It will be good to hear her side of the story on why she resort to block you. Be prepared to hear things that are not pleasing to hear, offer an sincere apology if you agree to what she said.Originally posted by Ristar:there we go. Very Happy
1) like wat i said, a long long time ago in a galaxy far far far far away, i am not very good with BGR stuff.
we liked each other mutually, but me, being a young guy, din know wat to do.
then, after losing contact for a while (and getting back in contact again) i got too kan cheong and didnt say the right things at the right time. poof, gone. Laughing
2) classmates
Note that this will not reinstate the r/s you two had before but at least it's a small step forward from where you are standing now. Oh, and do try to have the mindset that you are trying to get back on 'friends' status with her. -
*koks dcx*Originally posted by dcx:Unconstructive........
just kidding...no offences... 
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Originally posted by Ristar:u guys are pathetic. instead of giving suggestions, u guys just have to flame, give stupid comments, or ask stupid qns. not constructive at all.
oops, im sorry, words by itself arent stupid at all.
as for cannot accept ppl who dun wanna be my fren... actually, i think of this as a challenge, not that i like her that much after all this crap.