is it alrite to chase a ger who is already attached ?
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Nobody's faithful. Everyone desires a grand and romantic love. But often ended up with a good-looking/dependable/nice person without the grand and romance.
Alternatively as a reminder to guys, being submissive and nice and gentlemenly doesn't necessary get you the gal that you're after. It's not a manual and neither it's a process. You just gotta show her how concerned you are for her and how much you love her...in your own ways. Different guys for different girls...who says love is easy? Meeting the right person is more important than anything else. Nice girls must match with equally nice guys or the relationship will suffers. Nice doesn't means good-looking ok? It means comfortable.
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WHat has Potong Jalan dot to do with this topic?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:haha...wheres pontong jalan when you need him?
despicable way like chap ji ki lor...attack from behind...back stab the guy...spread rumours...
i rather not la...one thing its a real emotional strain...imagine the pressure you might put on the girl to choose and secondly its not very ethical anyways... -
because potong jalan means coming from an angle and break up the couple...snatch the girlfren...Originally posted by iveco:WHat has Potong Jalan dot to do with this topic? -
i wun recommend that.
if the girl's attach, u should forget about her and get over her ASAP.
dun butt in. -
and so lets say she dumps the guy she is with for you...
and next guy comes along...
since she dumped her bf for you, isnt there this possibility that she might dump you for the next guy too...
best to just leave it as it is...unless of course, she comes to you... -
I know how u feel too.. Well ask u all, wat if u think that her bf is a playboy. Can try to potong jalan in this case ?
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is it really so fun wearing other ppls worn sock?
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any comments from the gers ? anyone of you in this position before ?
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u have nothing to lose going after some guy's gf...
but if ppl chase your gf... will u buey song..?
wat goes around... comes around...
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Never do things to others which you don't want done to yourself.
I live by this saying. -
.... haiz its heart over mind never tot i'll be in these position.
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No harm letting her know how you feel. If she's not interested you get rejected that's all.
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she knows lah i've been so nice to her. i think the other collegues know also. anyway i'm not the only person interested in her. so other guys chasing her also. she's a very popular ger.Originally posted by choco B:No harm letting her know how you feel. If she's not interested you get rejected that's all.
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ah... There are so many factors involved it's hard to know where to start LOL
Honestly speaking, is she just playing all of you guys?Originally posted by crazy monkey:she knows lah i've been so nice to her. i think the other collegues know also. anyway i'm not the only person interested in her. so other guys chasing her also. she's a very popular ger. -
if u wanna snatch pple's gf, can... no one can stop u.
if u snatch mine, prepare to smell the ground.. which, i dun think my gf will ever betray me lidat. -
Agree with this..Originally posted by dibilo:remember- what goes around, comes around.
today she leave her ex for u, tomorrow, she'll leave u for another.
Cus human r always craving for better things..
In this case, we crave for better bfs/gfs..
History always repeats itself..
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nope. she's not that type of ger. she naturally sweet friendly and out going thats why so popular.Originally posted by choco B:ah... There are so many factors involved it's hard to know where to start LOL
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In that case , go ahead and show your affection. You can trust that she knows where to draw the line and tell you to back off when you've reached it.Originally posted by crazy monkey:nope. she's not that type of ger. she naturally sweet friendly and out going thats why so popular.
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ya lor its a fine lineOriginally posted by choco B:In that case , go ahead and show your affection. You can trust that she knows where to draw the line and tell you to back off when you've reached it. -
As long as she shows you the line, it's ok
it's when she doesn't that you should be wary of LOLOriginally posted by crazy monkey:ya lor its a fine line -
Aiyo..Originally posted by crazy monkey:nope. she's not that type of ger. she naturally sweet friendly and out going thats why so popular.
This kinda gal will cause lots of misunderstanding..
I mean many guys will think sheÂ’s interested in them..
Actually sheÂ’s just being friendly but ppl always think sheÂ’s flirting..
IÂ’ve encountered this kinda gal b4.. -
Better dun lah..
Cus uÂ’ll be name as 3rd party who destroys pplÂ’s relationship..
Unless u wanna be a r/s destroyer.. -
Don't tell me you are the Guy A?Originally posted by crazy monkey:any views from the gers ? anyone of you in the situation whereby somebody nice comes along and chase you when you are already attached ? -
Originally posted by poon cho tang:it's alrite, but expect a 90% failure rate
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Can chase over still not so bad... Worse is when you're stuck halfway through...
It's just like having your sh|t stuck to your @ss halfway through... Cannot suck back in and also cannot come out... Then you'll know what sh|t's like....