Help!!I'm so vain..
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I'm an undergrad & i can never bring myself to go to sch without putting on makeup.
i simply cannot bring myself to face ppl without puttin on make up. I just feel so ugly.
I know there are people talkin behind me, saying this gal n her group of friends put on makeup even to sch bla bla bla. Actually, Im envious of those naturally pretty gals who have the confidence to strut their natural self in public. But i simply cant bring myself to do that! Even if its just for a short walk to the newspaper stand near my house, i will feel extremely insecure. I always tell myself that its ok and i survived thru pri sch, sec sch, jc without makeup, so what's the diff in uni??But i always nvr succumb to vanity.
Am i suffering from some kind of illness?? -
Kinda sad to deal with. People who have low self esteem.
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maybe can try with light makeup first .. than slowly go around without any makeup
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are you attached?
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go for courses?
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wah, I see blood liao... straight to the point worOriginally posted by M©+square:Kinda sad to deal with. People who have low self esteem. -
Originally posted by kopiosatu:go for courses?
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make up course. then become make up artist, earn moneyOriginally posted by M©+square: 
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If you know me.Originally posted by mistyblue:wah, I see blood liao... straight to the point wor
I always go straightforward. But don't take my words personal, take it objectively.
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SMDOriginally posted by M©+square:If you know me.
I always go straightforward. But don't take my words personal, take it objectively.
take it personally. -
I dont wana feel this way too but i simply cant help the way im feeling. sad i know but i just feel uneasy if i dont put on anything. i even thought of various alternatives to make myself look prettier..surgery included. That's how low my self esteem is i guess.
Thanks meltzy..i will try, though i think it might take a long time before i can go anywhere else without makeup. . -
work to get a good complexion first lor
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You've never gotten a friend who have problems/esteem with weight and looks.Originally posted by kopiosatu:make up course. then become make up artist, earn money
It's very taxing onto the people around. Which is why i say it's sad, because people gives the advice over and over again and assurances and encouragements but they just stuck to their thinking.
Which in the end made those around her look as though they were in vain. -
was there something that triggered this behaviour??
cos you said earlier that you used to be able to go without makeup... -
might as well don't advice.Originally posted by M©+square:You've never gotten a friend who have problems/esteem with weight and looks.
It's very taxing onto the people around. Which is why i say it's sad, because people gives the advice over and over again and assurances and encouragements but they just stuck to their thinking.
Which in the end made those around her look as though they were in vain. -
Originally posted by M©+square:If you know me.
I always go straightforward. But don't take my words personal, take it objectively. 
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That's why it's very tiring to explain to you there are such people in this world who are suffering the 'Puor Fu' syndrome. Not because they want it, cos they can't help it, or there are deeper reasons behind why they have come to this state.Originally posted by kopiosatu:might as well don't advice.
The same goes to Low self esteem. -
Actually i dont know what triggered..It just happened after i entered uni.
My ex bf used to tell me i still look good without cosmetics.i know i dont look ugly but its that tat i feel so much nicer with makeup on and once i doll myself up, i feel like i belong to a different league of beauties? And when the makeup is off, i just fall into the lower category and i dont want to be there. I dont know if i make sense to u guys..sighz..
You may not believe it but my current bf of six months havent even seen me without makeup! I'm just so afraid..that he'll see..the lower category of me? -
u think too much.Originally posted by Livvy:Actually i dont know what triggered..It just happened after i entered uni.
My ex bf used to tell me i still look good without cosmetics.i know i dont look ugly but its that tat i feel so much nicer with makeup on and once i doll myself up, i feel like i belong to a different league of beauties? And when the makeup is off, i just fall into the lower category and i dont want to be there. I dont know if i make sense to u guys..sighz..
You may not believe it but my current bf of six months havent even seen me without makeup! I'm just so afraid..that he'll see..the lower category of me?
if you're worried he'll leave you just because he feels that you're 'ugly', do u think such a guy would be worth being with? -
Can't be worse than xinyi.
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sup pal.. wannabe jockey don't even talk!!Originally posted by ditzy:Can't be worse than xinyi.
feed the horses & make em happy.. that's your job. motherfucka -
Originally posted by ditzy:Can't be worse than xinyi.
sup pal.. wannabe jockey don't even talk!!
this is AA. not bar of chit chat.
feed the horses & make em happy.. that's your job. motherfucka
there are people who do want help.
its not helping them if you are going to type shit like that... -
makeup is ok..i mean after u grad, go work in an office, almost 75% Of the females there will put on makeup..personally i feel that there is nth wrong with make up..you do not have a problem, u just think that u have a problem..well maybe the money factor..
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Vainity is a call for attention.
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People always comment on my good complexion (after i put on make up la ) ..and somehow i just feel i've got to keep up with those compliments
Thanks kopiosatu and guys for the kinds words/suggests.. hmm..but dont think i can give up my uni course and go for a makeup course..my parents will kill me perhaps in future after i earn enough $ i might just do this for leisure