I am worried
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I am worried. I'm 26 this year and I am still unattached. Many men my age would prefer to have fun and such but I would rather settle down and get married and have a family. Not as if I have never been in relationships but it's been 2 years since my last one. Even at work, all are guys and finding a partner there seems almost impossible. Seems it's getting more difficult in finding a partner as you grow older. I'm no hunk nor am I super rich but I ain't a gollum nor a beggar.
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u ever tried SDU?
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Go for ''Lunch Actually'' Modern speed dating
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dun worry so much la..
26 for a man is still v young wor.
u marry 10 yrs later also no prob ar. -
I think that there are lots of girls in churches.....
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relax man, the most stay single
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me too.
no seriously, im worried about alot of things and this is one of em. u're not alone for sure. -
neh. go look for your ex jc/poly classmates or smth. secondary or primary sch also can.
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now im really worried.
they come look for me, i siam them all -
emmm did u at least have a steady b4? if nt realli waste ur young adult life...
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amitobo.
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OMG..your own nick is so pessismestic.. Cheer up dude..
26 years old only. Still young. You have a long way to go. Like some mentioned, if you are really really so desperate for a gf, join some activites where it will open up your social circles. From there, you can see if you have any chances or not.
I am sure, everybody is destined to be loved by someone. Its a matter of time, opportunity, chance, and also, whether you treasure him/her when they are around.
Good luck in your search...
Concentrate on your career first. When you have $ and career stability, other things will follow.. -
Thanks for the comments. But I don't want to wait till my career is stable or my bank has a sufficient amount of money to marry. I believe love is growing together and not what the other party has to offer. I would be sad if someone married me because I have money and career.
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comeon......take your time..........the right one shouldn't be too far away.........look harder..........or was it because your expectations are too high.......sometimes...it might be right closeby.......but you didn't look hard enough.......Originally posted by worryman:I am worried. I'm 26 this year and I am still unattached. Many men my age would prefer to have fun and such but I would rather settle down and get married and have a family. Not as if I have never been in relationships but it's been 2 years since my last one. Even at work, all are guys and finding a partner there seems almost impossible. Seems it's getting more difficult in finding a partner as you grow older. I'm no hunk nor am I super rich but I ain't a gollum nor a beggar. -
i guess u misunderstood the definition of money and career stability. What i meant was to get you to work for your OWN future first before you worry about your martial status...Originally posted by worryman:Thanks for the comments. But I don't want to wait till my career is stable or my bank has a sufficient amount of money to marry. I believe love is growing together and not what the other party has to offer. I would be sad if someone married me because I have money and career.
btw, we all have to face up to reality. NO gal will want to marry a guy without security and stability. And this 2 are attributes by your financial and job security. Think about it..will a girl marry someone who doesnt plan for his own future or one with a future prospect? I am not deeming gal as materialistic in this situation. If you wan to set up a family, you need money. If you want to get married, u need money. If you wan to have children, you need money..so where does money comes from? You work hard for it...
of cse, there must be a balance between r/s and work. So, if you cant find one yet, work hard first. If you have a gal target, by all means go for it, but continue to progress towards career heights. If you are jobless now, i suggest you work hard to get one....
always prioritise your life points...
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I think fate plays an impt part. For me, i am looks wise ok,personality ok but been single some time liao..Relax, theres nothing wrong with you. Looklook seesee more! Good luck ! Save the best 4 last
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Originally posted by worryman:Thanks for the comments. But I don't want to wait till my career is stable or my bank has a sufficient amount of money to marry. I believe love is growing together and not what the other party has to offer. I would be sad if someone married me because I have money and career.
You mentioned a good point.
But at the same time, you must have a wider social network to allow the condition for you to have your other half appearing isn't it?
The simplest way I know is to pursue interest and know like-minded people.
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try matchmaking agencies or ask ur frends help u introOriginally posted by worryman:Thanks for the comments. But I don't want to wait till my career is stable or my bank has a sufficient amount of money to marry. I believe love is growing together and not what the other party has to offer. I would be sad if someone married me because I have money and career. -
one thing for sure, wasting your time in sgforums won't help!!!!
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Dun get too worried.
My brother 34 yrs old still not married either...too shy to get a girlfriend.
He also kan cheong...but kan cheong no use.
Must be relax and natural with gals.
Revealing your desperate self will scare them away. -
get wrong gal also more troublesome horOriginally posted by Troy437:Dun get too worried.
My brother 34 yrs old still not married either...too shy to get a girlfriend.
He also kan cheong...but kan cheong no use.
Must be relax and natural with gals.
Revealing your desperate self will scare them away. 
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I wish I could. I always tried to meet and be a good friend but people always disappoint me. I don't know how to explain it but to put it in a blunt way, my friends are useless. Impossible to find a partner through them. Even the girl friends I meet are disappointing too. Sort of like those kind who only cares about themselves.Originally posted by Yunhaier: You mentioned a good point.
But at the same time, you must have a wider social network to allow the condition for you to have your other half appearing isn't it?
The simplest way I know is to pursue interest and know like-minded people.
Cheers -
no wonder you are un attached. Your attitute suckz big time. there are lots of nice gers out there... you just need to go out and find them instead of kpkb all the time.
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This is easy. Just defuse your worrryness then you won't feel worry anymore
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he dont want to be a loser you see. he thinks staying single is loser. hahahahaaOriginally posted by hudax1:This is easy. Just defuse your worrryness then you won't feel worry anymore