Originally posted by worryman:
I wish I could. I always tried to meet and be a good friend but people always disappoint me. I don't know how to explain it but to put it in a blunt way, my friends are useless. Impossible to find a partner through them. Even the girl friends I meet are disappointing too. Sort of like those kind who only cares about themselves.
If you want to be cynical about everyone and play caution, then how would you ever allow yourself the condition of having someone decent for your pursue?
It is like even if Love wants to give you a chance, you don't really want to work on them.
In this case, the best scenario would be to celibate and be a monk forever because I tell you, you will
always meet disappointing people.
The catch is not about the disappointing people you meet; it is about the one person out of the ten.
Our love life, is not always born out of a movie-style plot where you could be extremely passive and Love force it upon you as if it owns you one. Sad to say, most of us don't have it that way.
If you want Love, you got to evolve before you could attract one and work towards it.
Cheers