X2Originally posted by Anti-RuleSS:I suggest you let her go. Lonely wasn't a good excuse. So if you are lonely, you can go find chick too? Ask her to wake up her idea and don't give lame excuse. Why don't she just admit that she is having the urge to filrt with guys and she is feeling itch to try different guys? Human are just plain selfish, they do something wrong yet they don't wanna admit their truth intention and still find lame excuse to cover themself up. If you don't want to suffer in future, then i suggest you to leave her else you may get another shock sooner or later.
Originally posted by alexkusu:ask her if u could have an affair to aid the healing process
Which psychology book do you take reference to? I wish to read it.Originally posted by leungchunghong:GIVE UP on her. according to psychology, girl will leave u once she finds someone better than u in physical charactistic. GIRL tend to look at guys on phsyical aspect.
Easy bro, just like how i treat my ex gf she also cheat exactly the same way your gf does. I make her pregnant and at her most vunerable time, ditch her after she pregnant. That's the way man.Originally posted by vivasg:Hi,
I was feeling very troubled, my gf betrayed me when she went oversea for few months, She treat me very bad during those times even i'm making so much effort by doing a lot of things for our relationship.
we had been together for 5 yrs. and I really love her. I managed to found this out and she finally disclosed to me after i confronted her. I'm felt very hurt. She said she dunno why this happen as she is very lonely that time.
She promised me that it will never happen again and she said she really love me.
Do you think I can believe her? give her a chance again?
It is really hurt to be betrayed by somemone that i really loved and when i was alone, i never betray her eventhough i had a chance to.
Now she's back and i can see she making effort for our relationship, but now i'm really afraid being cheated again. The pain is too hard to beared. I'm trying to recover but the image sometimes still flying through my minds.
Do you guys and gals have any advice?
I know how u feel now, cos something like tat happened to me. Was with my ex gf for close to 5 years, and 1 night i wanted to give her a surprise waiting for her at her void deck to pass her something and guess wat , i saw a guy sending her hm. When i confront her, she told me everything. I was so sad and disappointed. In the end she left me for that guy. Now, close to 1 year later, i still could not forget her. My advice is , if you really love her, give her a chance . Thing may just work out. Try to spend more time with her and forget how she hurt her.Originally posted by vivasg:Hi,
I was feeling very troubled, my gf betrayed me when she went oversea for few months, She treat me very bad during those times even i'm making so much effort by doing a lot of things for our relationship.
we had been together for 5 yrs. and I really love her. I managed to found this out and she finally disclosed to me after i confronted her. I'm felt very hurt. She said she dunno why this happen as she is very lonely that time.
She promised me that it will never happen again and she said she really love me.
Do you think I can believe her? give her a chance again?
It is really hurt to be betrayed by somemone that i really loved and when i was alone, i never betray her eventhough i had a chance to.
Now she's back and i can see she making effort for our relationship, but now i'm really afraid being cheated again. The pain is too hard to beared. I'm trying to recover but the image sometimes still flying through my minds.
Do you guys and gals have any advice?