~ Qns: Love or Loved? ~
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of cos prefer to love and be loved lah
but die die mus choose then i would prefer to be "making love out of nothing at all' (option 1) then "everything I do, I do it for u" (option 2)
can't help but be corny hahaha
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I would prefer love than loved. Cos it brings out the best (or worse?) in me.
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To love, coz it makes me feel that I am still living in this world...
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seawater prawn leh?Originally posted by casino_king:there might be a scorpian... prawn lives in water... or are you refering to a rock on the ocean floor? -
True but many people hate to have the same effect or Gamble until they kill themselves.
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what if we are in love with someone we dont even want in the first place?
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then lidat is in love liao..no qns ask about first place or notOriginally posted by alexkusu:what if we are in love with someone we dont even want in the first place?
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YEAH. Join forum outing one day?Originally posted by jusgal:wat is LTNS? sorry i long time never come. is it long time no see?
i finish my exam today
but today paper very tough i no confident to pass -
It works both ways...Originally posted by Yunhaier:So what's the other half? 
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When you are being loved, you need not recipocate.. But it takes a certain level of learning to appreciate what the other party is giving to you.. Whether you decide to love him / her back or not... You could be put into a dilemma situation... Whereby you'll have to balance between the decisions of... To love someone back because he / she loves you... Or not to simply love someone back because that person love you... -
i will choose neither of the options that you have listed as per above.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
Meaning: would you choose
1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
(you could try to understand and love the person)
2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
(the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
i would like to see some of your views if possible...
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
what i will choose is the 3rd option: mutual love, though it's hard, but it's better
i have had one experience of being loved by a gal who thinks too much and clings on to me so tight, when i still haven't love her as much as she loves me.
to make things worse, it's the 'first blind date' and things are already like that, as we spoke to each other on the net for over a year, so we roughly know each other here and there..
to be loved by somebody, means that you have to appreciate what the other party is doing for you, and you try to return it to them if you can.
to love someone, is to run the risk of rejection which is normal, at least you are doing something that you like, but too much of loving someone (one sided love can be damaging) do take note!! -
To love. I like to see everybody around me smiling. I believe that's more important than worrying about whether there is someone in this world who loves you.
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I'll choose number 2, it's easier to love someone then trying to accept someone who loves me.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll.. Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
Meaning: would you choose
1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
(you could try to understand and love the person)
2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
(the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
i would like to see some of your views if possible...
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
At least at the very end of all, at the most I will be the only person who will be hurt if things don't turn out right. If I choose number 1, both will be hurt in the process. -
I have given too much love twice, for now i only wanna be loved
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And just do you even know if that person would be smiling even after you've decided to love that person?Originally posted by CenturionMBT:To love. I like to see everybody around me smiling. I believe that's more important than worrying about whether there is someone in this world who loves you. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:It works both ways...
When you are being loved, you need not recipocate.. But it takes a certain level of learning to appreciate what the other party is giving to you.. Whether you decide to love him / her back or not... You could be put into a dilemma situation... Whereby you'll have to balance between the decisions of... To love someone back because he / she loves you... Or not to simply love someone back because that person love you... Yeah, I understand what you mean.
Ok, we have the full post now.
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Well, if you like somebody, you don't just hide in one corner do you? You will try your best to make life happier for the person. If she smiles for you, good. If not, just take it as it is. So what if the feeling goes unreciprocated? If i like the person, and i see the person smile, whther it is for me or not, I will feel happy. Simply because the person is happy.Originally posted by Devil1976:And just do you even know if that person would be smiling even after you've decided to love that person? -
i used to think tt loving was e better o[tions becos it makes ppl happy.
but after loving so much, i woul prefer to be lvoed though.
but to be in a r/s, i tot tt it had to be a case of mutual love. that both parties ought to be loving each other n receiving one anothers love.
now, i think tt all i wan n need is e company an attention from him, and from e interactions n experience we share then hopefully love will grow. -
I'd rather love than be loved. If i had to make a choice, that is.
Its better to feel bad when you're rejected than to be sad and cause others to be sad when you reject them. and there's just a thing about loving someone that you don't get if someone loves you but you don't feel the same way towards him/her.
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Another 'complete' addition for Cloudism chapters?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Yeah, I understand what you mean.
Ok, we have the full post now.
Cheers
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Some people can get very irritated when ya try to love them...Originally posted by CenturionMBT:Well, if you like somebody, you don't just hide in one corner do you? You will try your best to make life happier for the person. If she smiles for you, good. If not, just take it as it is. So what if the feeling goes unreciprocated? If i like the person, and i see the person smile, whther it is for me or not, I will feel happy. Simply because the person is happy. -
depends on how you do it.Originally posted by Devil1976:Some people can get very irritated when ya try to love them... -
of course tu be loved..but if he is worthy i will love him wif mui whole heart tuU..
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To love and shall be loved.
When you find the 'Right Person' to love, you will be loved by the 'Right Person' in return. Expecting to be loved ONLY is a trying thing, most of the time, we don't see the expection being met. -
Mmm... Quite true to an extent....?Originally posted by CenturionMBT:depends on how you do it.
Also depends on who ya do it for? -
This question makes no sense.
Its a mutual thing in a relationship. I dont believe in one way. If i dont like the person. I will not like her. If I like her but she dont like me. I wont like her oso.
Therefore, my choice is to like someone who like me.