~ Qns: Love or Loved? ~

• StarPuppy

  13 Jun 06, 17:11

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  This question makes no sense.
  
  Its a mutual thing in a relationship. I dont believe in one way. If i dont like the person. I will not like her. If I like her but she dont like me. I wont like her oso.
  Therefore, my choice is to like someone who like me.

  right..but if nobody likes you? you not gonna like anybody?
  
  
• Devil1976

  13 Jun 06, 17:12

  Originally posted by listan:
  
  To love and shall be loved.
  
  When you find the [b]'Right Person' to love, you will be loved by the 'Right Person' in return. Expecting to be loved ONLY is a trying thing, most of the time, we don't see the expection being met.
  
  [/b]

  Err... How nice...?
  
  But when you find the 'Right Person' who loves you, you will love the 'Right Person' in return mah...
  
  Expecting to love ONLY is also a trying thing which expectation need not be met up...?
• StarPuppy

  13 Jun 06, 17:15

  Originally posted by listan:
  
  To love and shall be loved.
  
  When you find the [b]'Right Person' to love, you will be loved by the 'Right Person' in return. Expecting to be loved ONLY is a trying thing, most of the time, we don't see the expection being met.
  
  [/b]

  so how do you know if you are loving the right person?
  
  
• Pitot

  13 Jun 06, 17:16

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  right..but if nobody likes you? you not gonna like anybody?
  
  

  It dosent work this way. If you like a person. And she dont like u. You lan lan right?
  
  So if nobody likes me. I can still like someone. But it just wont work out in the end.
• StarPuppy

  13 Jun 06, 17:18

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  It dosent work this way. If you like a person. And she dont like u. You lan lan right?
  
  So if nobody likes me. I can still like someone. But it just wont work out in the end.

  so like that...if the person likes you...you not gonna consider?
  
  
• Pitot

  13 Jun 06, 17:20

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  so like that...if the person likes you...you not gonna consider?
  
  

  if the person like me. But i dont like her. No.
• StarPuppy

  13 Jun 06, 17:23

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  if the person like me. But i dont like her. No.

  actually theres many levels of liking
  
  what would be your level of "liking" someone?
• listan

  13 Jun 06, 17:26

  Originally posted by Devil1976:
  
  
  Err... How nice...?
  
  But when you find the 'Right Person' who loves you, you will love the 'Right Person' in return mah...
  
  Expecting to love [b]ONLY is also a trying thing which expectation need not be met up...? [/b]

  It's really vice versa eh.. It really depends then, whether who initiates the relationship eh? I guess it drills down to the point when you determine that person is right...
  
  So what I was saying was really a positive cycle, which is easily found in human interaction, reciprocation eh.
  
  On the second line, it comes down really to the mindframe, if we love with expectation, whether in giving or receiving, expectations placed on others are always challenging.
  
  For example.. has anyone met anyone who tries to discipline or change his/her partner? (then again ah.. if you find the right person, there is no need to change )
• listan

  13 Jun 06, 17:36

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  so how do you know if you are loving the right person?
  
  

  I know what I am going to say may seem lame. Well, you know he/she is right, when he or she is right....
  
  Ok.. when that is the right person, you are likely to be able to envision a vivid image of future with this person. With minimal 'Need to Change' to be made.
  
  I know it may sound complicated, yet too simple???
  
  The best thing to do is not to pretend that things are ok when they are not, vice versa. You should have a good judgement whether this person is buying your concept of relationship (or marriage, lifestyle) etc for the sake of getting into your good books. When someone buys your concept, be ready for some challenges, cos this person is likely to not think alike with you. So you are likely to fall in love with someone's desire to be (means what he/she desire to become). It's like placing a purchase of future stocks, while the value now is unclear.
  
  Ok.. Too much analysis..
• Pitot

  13 Jun 06, 17:38

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  actually theres many levels of liking
  
  what would be your level of "liking" someone?

  when it becomes love.
  
  And btw, dont think too much. Kills ur brain cells.
• nici

  14 Jun 06, 02:41

  Most pple will choose to be loved.... who doesn't want?
  
  But life is just imperfect......... and it can only be perfect if we think it is. Meaning that it all depends on how we feel, think and perceive.
  
  And most of the time we might fall for someone whom we thought we love alot but the other party may not love you as much. This is life bah.
  
  There's no which one is right or wrong. All depends on how u think.