mr cocoda!Originally posted by saline:if u wana break, do it cleanly. better 4 both party. from wat u described, it seem like u2 nv even broke up!
go have a heart 2 heart talk him him. be frank.
Yes I understand that kind of feeling, it does feel miserable being lost and really don't know what to do and no mood to do anything at all. It's easier said than done whenever people says time will heal all wounds and so on. He will always have a special place in your heart whether you like it or not, all you can do right now is to keep yourself as busy as you can...so that you won't be reminded of the sadness. We felt emotional pain cos our curiousity (silly EVE) subconsciously forces us to seek it and think about it. Crying helps alot...but I don't want to cry alone anymore.Originally posted by missqi:Sigh.
I went out with the ex for dinner on Friday, and we ended up going to my place, and he stayed over. Big mistake, yes I know.
We went out today, and it was just like old times, he held my hand, etc.
I was so happy during the entire outing.
When he sent me home, I just hurled myself onto the bed and started crying.
It is impossible between us, again.
I want so much to forget him, and I hate being human, because the worst part about being human is that we feel pain. Emotional pain.
I wouldst gladly be happy again, and I just want to move on.
So hard to, and I know everyone says time will heal all wounds blah blah.
Sigh.
So lost now.
School sucks.
Life sucks.
Originally posted by snobbish:My ex and me went around in circles for 3 years. Either it was him who would miss the past or it would be me who clung on. We depended on each other so much we could not let go even though we knew things would not change. When he had a gf, we were still lingering on because he felt i was better. When i fell for someone my ex said he missed what we onced shared. My best frn called us the''Never Ending Story''I cannot advise u much as i do not know how your ex feels. Just dun be too hard on yourself.Ask yourself is there still love or juz becos of dependence?
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Originally posted by skid:Don't dwell on the past...move on to new experiences. After a lil while life and school won't seem to suck. It's good that you realize you and the ex can't be together even if you needed to spend the night together to find out.
Yeah. I used to cut myself.Originally posted by Parka:"Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know, maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop."
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Thanks.Originally posted by lonestar86:*all of us in sgForums sayang missqi..*
dun worry, we r here to comfort u..
and we r willing to lend u our listening ears whenever u need it..
[b]always look at the bright side..
life is beautiful..[/b][/quote]
[quote]Originally posted by CKeer:
Hey. U did the right thing by drawing the line.
Maybe becos he doesn't wan to end it too. Humans have feeling. The best for the 2 of u to do now, if u wan a clean break that is, is to stop seeing each other. However, u can still keep in contact wif him thru SMSs and occasion phone calls.
Move on wif ur life.
U still have us at sgforums eh?
Cheers.
C.K
Know your decisions in life and live by them...Originally posted by missqi:Thanks.
Trying to move on.