Originally posted by bestrongnow:
I am a close friend of shiningstar and I am most upset to see posts from strangers demanding to know the details of her death and something along the line. I must say I do respect the concern many have expressed and I truly appreciate the well wishes from the sympathetic readers. However, I think her death is a very intimate and private affair and I believe her family shares the same thoughts too. I question the very people who are so willing to share the details of her death. To bring such a private matter into the public eye and turn it into a discussion is hardly what a friend would do. In fact, it is crossing the line of cruelty. If you are a friend, I'm sure you would understand even more so and respect her. Having said that, I sincerely call out to all those people who are at this point dying to get their hands on the intimate details of her life, to please show her respect. You owe it to her. Once again, I thank all the people who have expressed their concern and condolences for my dear friend and I hope this thread will end here in a peaceful note.
Yes, i would like to clarify on why i've asked for a confirmation of truth.
It is to keep us updated on the situation. And onto confirmation of truth, the contributors here will hopefully act/respond accordingly in respect and integrity of the deceased.
We would like to give respect to the deceased, through knowing the facts of threadstarter(decease). We, on our part could and should be sensitive to this thread and prevent unnecessary comments and misuse of thread from others.
We need scources and facts, to cease unnecessary speculation on our end. With this, i wish to thank the posters for letting us know it's on the Chinese papers - This, is enough for us.
I hope the minimal info infomation given to us did not offend any parties here.
I'm sure we might have differing views, which i understand as you stand at the perspective of a friend.
On my/our end. We want to respect the decease in our possible ways. That is - to express and condolences and let the whole matter rest.
And i sure hope, this issue and thread will end in a peaceful note.
Thank you for posting your views. You may wish to Private Massage me if there are other issues to discuss.
MC