Does he still loves me?
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Does that answer your question?Originally posted by shining*star:Is it true that people don't know how to treasure what they've got till they lost them?
My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 1 year plus. Honeymoon period has been over long ago, and for months, I have found myself engaging in quarrels with him almost every other day.
He used to be so sweet and gentle to me – whispering on the phone, caring about my wellbeing, bringing me home every single time we meet up etc.
But now, fourteen months down the road, he seems like a totally different person. [color=red]He doesnÂ’t respect me anymore. Scolding me vulgarities whenever he likes. Like ch**bye fcuker bitc* etc.
I really love him, and put a lot into this relationship. Friends tell me he is using me but somehow I just cannot bring myself to believe this. He borrows money from me all the time, now totalling up to more than $3k and he never ever returns them.
We come from very different background. I am quite educated, and my parents disapprove of our relationship actually. He is a very typical ah beng. So actually I am really not sure what the future holds for us. But as I've mentioned, I really love him and dote on him. Friends all tell me to stop wasting my time and to break up all that. But it is much easier said than done
What should I do? My ex boyfriend also treated me very badly, after months of debating with myself, I finally took the courage to break up with him. But he came back after all. I didnt want to patch, and he threatened suicide twice. Why this kinda things always happen to me de??
Please help! [/color]
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How could a lady depends on the guy who threatens to waste his life by means of suicide? What does this shows? Jus some of the many things to think about.
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Hi everyone, im a fren of shining*star.
She jus passed away together with her bf yday wednesday around evening.
Let us wish her that she will rest in peace.
She was involved in a motorbike accident.
all i can say is that her bf and her lead veri tiring relationship with alot of break ups, but eventually patch back. if only they did not patch back 4 days ago, maybe she will still be around posting on this forum during her worktime. -
Is this a joke or are you serious?
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are u fcuking serious?Originally posted by kelx:Hi everyone, im a fren of shining*star.
She jus passed away together with her bf yday wednesday around evening.
Let us wish her that she will rest in peace.
She was involved in a motorbike accident.
all i can say is that her bf and her lead veri tiring relationship with alot of break ups, but eventually patch back. if only they did not patch back 4 days ago, maybe she will still be around posting on this forum during her worktime. 
how come...got report in papers? -
ya chinese papers.
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Originally posted by kelx:ya chinese papers.
i am so sorry to hear that...
hope she rest in peace and finally be freed of all problems... -
"If Tomorrow Never Comes"
Sometimes late at night
I lie awake and watch her sleeping
She's lost in peaceful dreams
So I turn out the lights and lay there in the dark
And the thought crosses my mind
If I never wake up in the morning
Would she ever doubt the way I feel
About her in my heart
If tomorrow never comes
Will she know how much I loved her
Did I try in every way to show her every day
That she's my only one
And if my time on earth were through
And she must face this world without me
Is the love I gave her in the past
Gonna be enough to last
If tomorrow never comes
'Cause I've lost loved ones in my life
Who never knew how much I loved them
Now I live with the regret
That my true feelings for them never were revealed
So I made a promise to myself
To say each day how much she means to me
And avoid that circumstance
Where there's no second chance to tell her how I feel
If tomorrow never comes
Will she know how much I loved her
Did I try in every way to show her every day
That she's my only one
And if my time on earth were through
And she must face this world without me
Is the love I gave her in the past
Gonna be enough to last
If tomorrow never comes
So tell that someone that you love
Just what you're thinking of
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my condolences to shining*star's family..
hope they will rest in peace, and be happily together in the other world.. -
dear junie,
rest in peace....we miss u.....always........hope u find true happiness now.... -
Anyone knows the full story? Please end this thread and episode in a right note.
Facts and sources please?
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you can find the whole story on 29 June chinese newspp. both Sin Ming and Wan Bao published it.
as mentioned by kelx, both shining star ( Junie) and her bf died in a car accident at yishun central area. she was flung 4 lanes away and passed away on the spot. her bf was sent to the hospital and passed away 1 hr later. the police is still investigating as to what actually happened.
both kelx and me attended her wake earlier on. it was really heart wrenching the moment u stepped into the mourning hall and saw her picture.
anyway just hoped that she has the freedom that she always wished for....... -
Thanks.Originally posted by m33soup:you can find the whole story on 29 June chinese newspp. both Sin Ming and Wan Bao published it.
as mentioned by kelx, both shining star ( Junie) and her bf died in a car accident at yishun central area. she was flung 4 lanes away and passed away on the spot. her bf was sent to the hospital and passed away 1 hr later. the police is still investigating as to what actually happened.
both kelx and me attended her wake earlier on. it was really heart wrenching the moment u stepped into the mourning hall and saw her picture.
anyway just hoped that she has the freedom that she always wished for.......
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OMG...............Originally posted by m33soup:you can find the whole story on 29 June chinese newspp. both Sin Ming and Wan Bao published it.
as mentioned by kelx, both shining star ( Junie) and her bf died in a car accident at yishun central area. she was flung 4 lanes away and passed away on the spot. her bf was sent to the hospital and passed away 1 hr later. the police is still investigating as to what actually happened.
both kelx and me attended her wake earlier on. it was really heart wrenching the moment u stepped into the mourning hall and saw her picture.
anyway just hoped that she has the freedom that she always wished for.......
*Prays*
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RIP.
I read this thread at the beginning once. It's sad. May God give her soul eternal release and joy. -
Rest In Peace...
My sincere condolences to her friends and family.
With all due respect, if someone is kind enough to help, please help to translate the Chinese article in English. -
woman heart too soft
chao ah beng.....haizzz.....die also bring pple with him......
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i hope everyone who read this understand that relationship is part of growing up...it is not an essential...but just a supplement for growing up emotionally...
we are all young people, we have all the time in the world to grow up emotionally...if a relationship doesn't work...take it easy and let it go...you will definately find someone who is your soulmate in the near future...its not never...its just a matter of time...
always value life as it is hard to come by...all problems can be solved...don't think that breaking up is the end of the world...you still have friends and family that will cheer you on whenever you are down...and probably another person who is waiting to meet the perfect you...
i will like to shout out to those who are reading AA...if you have a problem...come and look for people in sgforum...we might not always solve your problem...but we will definately lend you a hearing ear...
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+1 This part: "i will like to shout out to those who are reading AA...if you have a problem...come and look for people in sgforum...we might not always solve your problem...but we will definately lend you a hearing ear... "Originally posted by R3SsH|n:i hope everyone who read this understand that relationship is part of growing up...it is not an essential...but just a supplement for growing up emotionally...
we are all young people, we have all the time in the world to grow up emotionally...if a relationship doesn't work...take it easy and let it go...you will definately find someone who is your soulmate in the near future...its not never...its just a matter of time...
always value life as it is hard to come by...all problems can be solved...don't think that breaking up is the end of the world...you still have friends and family that will cheer you on whenever you are down...and probably another person who is waiting to meet the perfect you...
i will like to shout out to those who are reading AA...if you have a problem...come and look for people in sgforum...we might not always solve your problem...but we will definately lend you a hearing ear...
As for relationships, I prefer to to think of relationships as essential. It is not "essential" only in the sense that you will not go into hospital and need ICU attention when you break up. You can form relationships with some other or have some other types of relationship. For an abundant life, you need relationships; relationships with bf/gf, friends, cousins, father, mother, uncles, aunties... and yes, relationship with God too. -
So sorry to hear of the threadstarters sudden death...Dunno what to say..
shining*star , may you in your next life finally meet your true love and be happy finally. As a gal, i understand what u have been through. Please let all grievenaces end this life time.... -
From CNA News
SINGAPORE: A traffic accident at Yishun Central on Wednesday evening saw a motorcyclist and his pillion passenger dying just hours apart.
Police say they got a call about 5.15 pm evening about an accident involving two motorcycles.
A teenaged girl, who was riding pillion on one of the bikes, died on the spot.
The rider of the motorcycle was rushed to hospital but died just hours later.
The other motorcyclist escaped with abrasions on his arms and legs. - CNA /dt 
R I P, Shining Star -
Originally posted by shining*star:
Originally quoted from casino_king:
yeah I think you all are right. just cannot find the will to execute the action.
I think you are right, she already knows what to do
actually you all got it wrong. the one who threatened suicide is my ex. but the guy i am talking about is my current boyfriend. last week, been around sgforums looking at other's relationship problems, only have the courage to start this thread bcuz we quarrelled yet again, and I haven't seen him in a week le. why is it always me to patch things up with him de? -
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