was tat a right decision?
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What if the person is a quiet guy? Then how?
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Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:
i presume she knows you like her right... since you've sent her home before and gone out on a date before. come on lar she even went out on a date with you.. she knows you like her so you really should have sent her home.
i went out with a group of friends yesterday...we went to swim in the morning and after tat we went and play pool...while during the pool section, another of my friend join us, btw she is the girl i like...lets call her A...
after the pool some went home and some went to meet thier other friends... then left me, A and B( another female friend of mine). then we went for dinner... after tat we were going to take mrt at orchard mrt station...A live in tampines and B live at seng kang and i live at punggol...so tat means tat if we all go home, i will be taking the same line as B. B, who knows tat i like A, ask me to sent A home...but i was very tired then and i was afraid tat if i really going to send A home... i wont be able think of anything to talk with her, maybe just take train with her and walk her to her hse... so i didnt send her home afterall, meaning tat i go home with B...
So guys and gals...wat do u all think... didnt i make the right decision not to send her home as i might make her feel board and i think then it will be very awkward for me and her, just walking together and not talking cause i very tired then...and also i worry tat she get the wrong idea tat i like B...
so gals...how do u all feel if someone was to send u home but not talking to u and also look very lifeless all the way? would u rather go home alone?
and guys... do u all send your love one home even when u are really tired?
[b]just for your information...i use to send A home most of the time we went out , in group or a date...[/b]
it doesnt matter if you cant think of anything to talk about, i assume that the two of you are quite close to each other because you 2 have gone on a date before so even if there isnt a conversation going on it wont hurt because it wont be awkward. -
How old are the both of you...?Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:i went out with a group of friends yesterday...we went to swim in the morning and after tat we went and play pool...while during the pool section, another of my friend join us, btw she is the girl i like...lets call her A...
after the pool some went home and some went to meet thier other friends... then left me, A and B( another female friend of mine). then we went for dinner... after tat we were going to take mrt at orchard mrt station...A live in tampines and B live at seng kang and i live at punggol...so tat means tat if we all go home, i will be taking the same line as B. B, who knows tat i like A, ask me to sent A home...but i was very tired then and i was afraid tat if i really going to send A home... i wont be able think of anything to talk with her, maybe just take train with her and walk her to her hse... so i didnt send her home afterall, meaning tat i go home with B...
So guys and gals...wat do u all think... didnt i make the right decision not to send her home as i might make her feel board and i think then it will be very awkward for me and her, just walking together and not talking cause i very tired then...and also i worry tat she get the wrong idea tat i like B...
so gals...how do u all feel if someone was to send u home but not talking to u and also look very lifeless all the way? would u rather go home alone?
and guys... do u all send your love one home even when u are really tired?
just for your information...i use to send A home most of the time we went out , in group or a date...
What done cannot be undone.... What's the point of saying so much now...?
If it really bothers you so much... Just sms her or something and tell her that you're sorry that you didn't send her home that day because you were really too tired....? Yeah? -
agreeOriginally posted by Xcert:lets just say U dont like A enough...
if U think U really like A....then yeah...mistake. -
I felt that guys who send me home are interested in me, if not sending me home then they just want to remain as friends.
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Err... I don't think I would send a girl home even if I'm interested in her, unless I feel it's quite unsafe for her; she request or we lives pretty nearby...?Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:I felt that guys who send me home are interested in me, if not sending me home then they just want to remain as friends. -
wah swee la ur suggestionOriginally posted by BufPuf:aiyo
take cab solve the problem liao mah
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Yr personal thoughts. I will put in more efforts because i certainly will want the girl that i like to be my steady. Wait u do not give more effort she may doubt yr sincerity.Originally posted by Devil1976:Err... I don't think I would send a girl home even if I'm interested in her, unless I feel it's quite unsafe for her; she request or we lives pretty nearby...?
It is not about the (unless I feel it's quite unsafe for her; she request or we lives pretty nearby...?), it is yr companionship that is important in a relationship.
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i'd rather go back on my own unless the other person drive and it's on the way...
if not same direction and need to take mrt/ bus, i'll rather go home on my own and not have to entertain other ppl... -
Even if it's someone you adore/like a lot?Originally posted by coolger03:i'd rather go back on my own unless the other person drive and it's on the way...
if not same direction and need to take mrt/ bus, i'll rather go home on my own and not have to entertain other ppl... -
Even if the walk home is a quiet one, at least you sent her home and if she doesn't appreciate that, she is not worth the effort. And I ask you, what would the reasons be if you were to send a girl home? Find the answer deep in your heart. Is it a law? Is it a rule in relationships that guys must send girls home? Upholding all rules of the "game" = love? Sending a girl home must ultimately be something which you sincerely want to. Not just to uphold some stupid "rule".
I send my GF home everytime for the past years be it at night or day, be it I'm super tired or sick or even when I'm angry at her. Why? For the simple reason, I love her so much and ultimately I want her to be safe and sound reaching her doorstep or at least I see with my very own eyes that she has reached home safely. She doesn't demand it, I do it on my own accord. And unlike some guys who do it just to "impress" others that they have uphold such "laws" in the relationship.
Dear threadstarter, I'm saying this not because I'm braggin about my realtionship, but I just want to show you and help you understand that when you like and care for someone, how much are you willing to go the extra mile for that person? You know what, even if you are really so tired to even send her home its understandable, but at least did you like call her up and ask if she have reached home safely or something? So my say, answer to your question is probably you made the wrong decision but it's ok there's still opportunities for you so good luck yah?
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Thanks all of u for replying...
And from all of your reply i understand tat tired is not an excuse for not sending a girl home...
also i understand tat went i send a girl home is cause i am worry about her and i wan to see her reach home safely...and not because i wan to act gentleman...
i think tat i really make a mistake tat time and i will not make the same mistake again... also maybe i really didnt love her enough...
but still thanks for all the reply...i wanna specially thanks R3SsH|n for teaching me tat even keeping quiet and enjoying the walk home can be very romantic too... also thanks all the others who reply...really, i have learn alot from u all...thanks! -
swee.. next time must send her back home k -
So you've learnt your mistake dude! Better know what to do next time! -
u missed a chance...
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aiyah..incident over already. dun brood over it. now u know ur mistakes...next time just send her home la.
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do watever u really feel like doing at that point in time and damn the consequences.
if u have sent her home, who knows she'd be your gf by now and u'd be boasting abt how gutsy u were.
u can always talk abt yourself, her (preferably her more than u), astro signs, childhood memories, show her some pictures in your hp and talk abt it, preferably making her luff until she cant stop luffing...
geez. so many things to talk abt to get to know her better, but u didnt. instead, u went back with somebody u dun give a damn about.
like i said, do wat u really want in that point in time, and damn the consequences. u'll figure things out as it comes. cannot be scared to fall then dun walk for life right?
i understand that things happen very fast and u dunno wat to expect or say. but thats the whole idea. things happen fast, therefore u must choose watever u really want just as fast, or even faster to make sure that u r on the path that u want. succeed or not is secondary. who knows she'd start a conversation and make your job a whole lot easier? -
Actually have you ask the gal to be your girlfriend? Sometimes if girls let you send her home means more or less liao. But sometime you must see. Got some girls just want to play around. So you must know what kind of girl she is. So just try loh, no harm trying rather then you keep waiting and waiting no end one. Good luck to you Dude. All the Best.
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wah sian lah my crush got driver 1.
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good luck man!
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Yeah... My personal thoughts and you're missing the POINT...Originally posted by Urroh:Yr personal thoughts. I will put in more efforts because i certainly will want the girl that i like to be my steady. Wait u do not give more effort she may doubt yr sincerity.
It is not about the (unless I feel it's quite unsafe for her; she request or we lives pretty nearby...?), it is yr companionship that is important in a relationship.
The point is different guys handle things differently and different girls interpret things differently... It's all SUBJECTIVE... As much as it was my personal thoughts, how should giving him you people's personal thoughts really help him to interpret how 'A' might be seeing the whole situation
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Yeah tats wat i wanted to know also...can any gals tell me how A will think of me after this incident...i know tat all gals react differently to the situation...but i am still curious wat most gals will think if this happen to them...Originally posted by Devil1976:As much as it was my personal thoughts, how should giving him you people's personal thoughts really help him to interpret how 'A' might be seeing the whole situation
So gals wat do u think? from 'A' point of view.... -
1)she tinks tat u r not interested in her since u dun even care abt her safety.Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:Yeah tats wat i wanted to know also...can any gals tell me how A what will think of me after this incident...i know tat all gals react differently to the situation...but i am still curious wat most gals will think if this happen to them...
So gals wat do u think form 'A' point of view....
2)she tinks tat u like B tats y u go home wif her.
3)she is utterly disappointed cos she likes u too n was secretly hoping for a romantic walk home wif u.
4)she dun give a damn. -
Originally posted by TwinTurbo_Supra:wah sian lah my crush got driver 1. send her to the car la.
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-_-"Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:Yeah tats wat i wanted to know also...can any gals tell me how A will think of me after this incident...i know tat all gals react differently to the situation...but i am still curious wat most gals will think if this happen to them...
So gals wat do u think? from 'A' point of view....