money or relationship?
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it's not like those food which are being separated which are easier to store the food in the fridge, the food that i buy back, have to being eaten fast, if not will turn bad de, coz the dry and wet part are mixed together, cannot store for longOriginally posted by shade343:Errm keep the food for tml lunch or dinner?
if personally cook, all those then can store, my mother usually also store food, so i know which food can or cannot store -
Ok.Originally posted by weijian:
why would she wanna do that?
i might as well hope that i faster grow up, move out, then end of my problems.
i know this is an unfillal act, but at least, i will still pay my mom allowances if it's within my means..and i get the freedom to bring my friends back home, now she is like super supicious of the frenz whom my brother and i invite back home, invite that they are bad ppl who just go round to other ppl's hse to steal etc...
What that, i think there isn't anything more to say on my end.
I suppose there are things which you'll have to experience and with time, you see and understand situations more clearly.
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Hmm...My mum is also very money minded. I talk to her about stocks and finance every night when she comes back from work.Originally posted by weijian:whenever i talk money matters with my mom, she will flared up over it, and start to shout at me even if i am asking her something, which doesn't require her to put in some money for me.
it will worsen if i want to discuss money matters with her.
i just did discuss with my mother, she flared up...i end up quarreling.
since young, when my brother and i accidentally hit or knock into something, she will scold us, not to hit it again, if not it will cost her a lot of money to repair it.
everything she speaks, it's money...
seldom do we get to discuss bout others, and i usually don't speak to her, just greet for as part of greeting manners only. nothing else already..
do you guys also have a parents who care more bout money more then relationsip??
Sometimes, its good to have a mother that is prudent and money minded. You can learn alot from her. Like how to save money and becareful about unnecessary expenditure. I dont see anything wrong with your mum telling you not to break things up in your house. It does not make financial sense to break things in the house and repair it due to tardiness.
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hm... I think that ur family had heavy financial problems cause it is not easy to support a family. She maybe too stressful or tired to talk and something when u talk about $$$. It may trigger some thoughts in her mind and remember the problems she maybe facing now.
As a son, try talking nicely to ur parent.. Maybe ur can approach somebody who is close to your mother and ask her what she is facing. Try talking in a nicely way. Dun think that ur parents dun love u , maybe she does not know how to express or express in a wrong way. Try guide her.. Tell her how to change some of her ways of expression concern. Tell her what u like her to do...Maybe she had no idea... too busy with earning $$ to support the family
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Ok. How old are you and your siblings now?Originally posted by weijian:something like taking care of materialistic needs, but not in the heart, it's like not showing care etc...hard to say it out la
Maybe we really do not know the situation enough to comment much
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His sis should be in her twenties.Originally posted by Devil1976:Ok. How old are you and your siblings now?
Maybe we really do not know the situation enough to comment much
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Then I think I'll concur with your post.Originally posted by M©+square:His sis should be in her twenties.
Both his brother and himself hasn't gone into National Service yet.
But I would like to remind topic-starter.. To turn 'bad' or not is really one's choice... Though I've got somehow quite a similar past as you and I did no better than what you're at now even...Originally posted by M©+square:Ok.
What that, i think there isn't anything more to say on my end.
I suppose there are things which you'll have to experience and with time, you see and understand situations more clearly.
Cheers
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in the past, everyday she says that, just that these few years, she said less of that, but more on getting the house neat and tidy, but at times she still will say that..Originally posted by shade343:Hmm...My mum is also very money minded. I talk to her about stocks and finance every night when she comes back from work.
Sometimes, its good to have a mother that is prudent and money minded. You can learn alot from her. Like how to save money and becareful about unnecessary expenditure. I dont see anything wrong with your mum telling you not to break things up in your house. It does not make financial sense to break things in the house and repair it due to tardiness.
But I dont think any mother will value money over family relations. Maybe you are just abit sensitive and extreme? -
my brother has gone through and completed nsfOriginally posted by M©+square:His sis should be in her twenties.
Both his brother and himself hasn't gone into National Service yet.
whereas i have yet to do so
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what did you do in the past? care to share?Originally posted by Devil1976:But I would like to remind topic-starter.. To turn 'bad' or not is really one's choice... Though I've got somehow quite a similar past as you and I did no better than what you're at now even... " -
I apologise for the inaccurate info.Originally posted by weijian:my brother has gone through and completed nsf
whereas i have yet to do so
my sis is reaching her 30s soon -
Sorry. I don't really like to share my past with people. Unless I just feel like it at a certain time or with a certain person.Originally posted by weijian:what did you do in the past? care to share? -
But simply put. I turned 'bad'?Originally posted by Devil1976:Sorry. I don't really like to share my past with people. Unless I just feel like it at a certain time or with a certain person. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:But simply put. I turned 'bad'?
Thanks for sharing!
Cheers