Shld i tell her that i like her??
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For the past 20 yrs, IÂ’ve never ever tell a gal straight in her face that I like her b4..
I seriously think that I shld try it before I get enlisted into the Army..
Cus if I dun try, IÂ’ll never know what I can achieve..
IÂ’ve been working part-time for 3 months..
Will be enlisting in Oct (3 months from now)..
ThereÂ’s this colleague of mine who is 18 yr old, 2 yrs younger than me..
I kinda like her and I must admit that I do have some feelings for her..
We have topics to chat abt and I like chatting with her..
SheÂ’s in the same poly and same course as me..
Just that IÂ’ve graduated while sheÂ’s currently in her 1st year..
If I tell her that I like her,
Result 1) She doesnÂ’t feel the same way as me..
(ItÂ’s ok. We can still remains as colleague. But IÂ’m afraid that sheÂ’ll start to avoid me..)
Result 2) She feel the same way as me..
(ThatÂ’s great cus I know that itÂ’s not one-sided. But IÂ’m not ready for relationship..)
Shld I tell her?? -
In red, does that answer your question?Originally posted by lonestar86:For the past 20 yrs, I've never ever tell a gal straight in her face that I like her b4..
I seriously think that I shld try it before I get enlisted into the Army..
Cus if I dun try, I'll never know what I can achieve..
I've been working part-time for 3 months..
Will be enlisting in Oct (3 months from now)..
There's this colleague of mine who is 18 yr old, 2 yrs younger than me..
I kinda like her and I must admit that I do have some feelings for her..
We have topics to chat abt and I like chatting with her..
She's in the same poly and same course as me..
Just that I've graduated while she's currently in her 1st year..
If I tell her that I like her,
Result 1) She doesn’t feel the same way as me..
(It's ok. We can still remains as colleague. But I'm afraid that she'll start to avoid me..)
Result 2) She feel the same way as me..
(That's great cus I know that it's not one-sided. But I'm not ready for relationship..)
Shld I tell her??
btw, did you copy this from somewhere?
Cheers -
tell her b4 someone esle do. otherwise you'll btich again in sgforums
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so that's a no??Originally posted by M©+square:In red, does that answer your question?
btw, did you copy this from somewhere?
Cheers
no i didn't.. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
u already said u are not ready for a relationship mah..So does that means no??
[b]so that's a no??
no i didn't..[/b] -
You want to go NS already, confess for what? Stop wasting her time and ur time lar.
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if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
IÂ’ll be very content if I know that itÂ’s not one-sided.. -
Oh?Originally posted by lonestar86:if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
I’ll be very content if I know that it’s not one-sided..
We'll see lah.
Cheers -
Ya lah.Originally posted by Eternal-fire:You want to go NS already, confess for what? Stop wasting her time and ur time lar.
Having bf in NS very sway one.
Mon to fri, no time, and feel very lonely one.
Sat spend one day tog, sun cant spend much time because gonna book-in.
Save her the agony. -
like what i've said..Originally posted by missqi:Ya lah.
Having bf in NS very sway one.
Mon to fri, no time, and feel very lonely one.
Sat spend one day tog, sun cant spend much time because gonna book-in.
Save her the agony.
if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
IÂ’ll be very content if I know that itÂ’s not one-sided.. -
so what u going to do after knowing it is not one-sided??Let her hang there wondering what should be done next ah??Originally posted by lonestar86:like what i've said..
if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
IÂ’ll be very content if I know that itÂ’s not one-sided.. -
imo.. no.
unless you are ready for a r/s, leave it be. -
ya lah.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:so what u going to do after knowing it is not one-sided??Let her hang there wondering what should be done next ah??
its like ur mother cook one big pot of shark's fin then let u smell and have a teaspoon of it, then throw the whole pot away.
tell her gum lan? -
Originally posted by missqi:ya lah.
its like ur mother cook one big pot of shark's fin then let u smell and have a teaspoon of it, then throw the whole pot away.
tell her gum lan?
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seems like many of u r against the idea of telling her..
but i'll regret my whole life if i dun tell her.. -
then u post this thread gum lan?
u want us to tell you to tell her right?
if u already have the answer in your heart, then why post this thread?
U want to tell her, then be a man and tell her.
If U don't know whether to tell her anot, heed our advice.
If U don't want to tell her, then shut up and be happy serving NS.
Gosh~``` -
is not we are against the idea of u telling her..U want to tell then tell her..Most importantly is don't have any regrets in the future..Originally posted by lonestar86:seems like many of u r against the idea of telling her..
but i'll regret my whole life if i dun tell her..
What we don't see eye to eye is that if she also likes you, but you don't do anything about it..What is the point of telling her??Like making her happy for nothing right??Wouldn't that make her feel even worst?? -
relax..Originally posted by missqi:then u post this thread gum lan?
u want us to tell you to tell her right?
if u already have the answer in your heart, then why post this thread?
U want to tell her, then be a man and tell her.
If U don't know whether to tell her anot, heed our advice.
If U don't want to tell her, then shut up and be happy serving NS.
Gosh~```
u sounds like u r
at me..
i'm still considering whether to tell or not to tell..
i'm afraid that i can't control myself..
canÂ’t stop myself from telling her.. -
nice way to describe..Making me hungry now..........Originally posted by missqi:ya lah.
its like ur mother cook one big pot of shark's fin then let u smell and have a teaspoon of it, then throw the whole pot away.
tell her gum lan? -
lol.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:nice way to describe..Making me hungry now..........
i come up with the weirdest analogies.
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still considering???????????????????????????????????Originally posted by lonestar86:relax..
u sounds like u r at me..
i'm still considering whether to tell or not to tell..
i'm afraid that i can't control myself..
canÂ’t stop myself from telling her..
gosh.
man.
make a decision quick.
anyways, crushed fade fast.
dont tell then dont tell lor.
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my advice...wait for a week...do not think the future about how nice it will be if you went steady with her and all kinds of nice things that could happen..at the end of the week...think over again...do you like her for her or just because you wanna look for a stead before enlisting?Originally posted by lonestar86:For the past 20 yrs, IÂ’ve never ever tell a gal straight in her face that I like her b4..
I seriously think that I shld try it before I get enlisted into the Army..
Cus if I dun try, IÂ’ll never know what I can achieve..
IÂ’ve been working part-time for 3 months..
Will be enlisting in Oct (3 months from now)..
ThereÂ’s this colleague of mine who is 18 yr old, 2 yrs younger than me..
I kinda like her and I must admit that I do have some feelings for her..
We have topics to chat abt and I like chatting with her..
SheÂ’s in the same poly and same course as me..
Just that IÂ’ve graduated while sheÂ’s currently in her 1st year..
If I tell her that I like her,
Result 1) She doesnÂ’t feel the same way as me..
(ItÂ’s ok. We can still remains as colleague. But IÂ’m afraid that sheÂ’ll start to avoid me..)
Result 2) She feel the same way as me..
(ThatÂ’s great cus I know that itÂ’s not one-sided. But IÂ’m not ready for relationship..)
Shld I tell her??
if its true you like her...express your feelings to her...see whats her reaction...
i don't blame you for wanting to tell right before enlistement...its like a curse for us singaporean guys...
anyway my reason for waiting a week is that you are probably just head over heels at the moment...probably just falling in love with all the fantasy you could have if she goes steady with you...take time out and think it over... -
Be a Man...Do the Right Thing!!!Originally posted by missqi:still considering???????????????????????????????????
gosh.
man.
make a decision quick.
anyways, crushed fade fast.
dont tell then dont tell lor. -
just tell can!! u ppl ar... before relationship come here and whine. during relationship also come here and whine. after relationship also come here and whine...
hehehe kidding only laa....
Just Do It ok!!! Jia YU!!! -
I still stick to not telling.
Reasons quite obvious what.