Love Problem , pls advice me .
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Hi ,
Last year January at my friend chalet .
I got to know a girl through my friend introduce .
During my first meeting with this girl , i find that we communicate well and share the
same interest .
As time grow , we started to call , sms each other , chat thru MSN messenger chat and go out together !
As month go , i develope a feeling over her and i decided to hint her .
During the hint , i find out she like me too and i was so happy .
One day ,
I meet her to tell her i love her and hope we can be a couple but she say she treat me as a good friend only and when i heard this 'i was heartbroken but i continue the conversation with her by switching the topic '.
Then one day , i found out that during that day when i told her that time her mum was there .
I know her mum don't allow her to go into relationship yet because of her studies .
So now i decided to wait for her after she
graduate from poly .
Am i foolish !
If she read this article now , i hope she know ' I LOVE HER '
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
Nope.You aren't foolish.You are on the right track.You have my support.Strive on!
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Thank for your support ,Originally posted by JacK84:Nope.You aren't foolish.You are on the right track.You have my support.Strive on!
I will success
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
sigh next time ask when you're out alone... alamak ask in front of mom... *slaps forehead*
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I don't understand what you are tryingOriginally posted by Malbordus:sigh next time ask when you're out alone... alamak ask in front of mom... *slaps forehead*
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He meant ask her to with your stead when you're alone with her... What for ask in front of her mum? This is not a marriage proposal ya know..?Originally posted by peace1983:I don't understand what you are trying
to say
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I finally understand !
But that time i don't know her mum was around !
Coz her mum was hiding there !
Then next day her mum confront me !
Like that loh , get my picture now ! -
Sigh ,
It seem like her mum control too much .
She been avoiding me recently and i never done anything wrong recently .
I try to sms her but no reply from her and when i call her hp nobody answer !
So what should i do now . -
Maybe it's exam period...? Why not try calling her after her exams?Originally posted by peace1983:Sigh ,
It seem like her mum control too much .
She been avoiding me recently and i never done anything wrong recently .
I try to sms her but no reply from her and when i call her hp nobody answer !
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wah kao if i kena her mother like you like that, i dunno go where dig hole ah haha... ok lah not making fun of you... just telling you to be more alert next time... u born in 1983 ah? same age as me... good luck for jioing this girl... hope u do better than me haha... me broke off with my first and only gf a few months ago...Originally posted by peace1983:I finally understand !
But that time i don't know her mum was around !
Coz her mum was hiding there !
Then next day her mum confront me !
Like that loh , get my picture now ! -
Actually her mum problem is control her daughter too much .
This is the choice and road i chose .
I chosen her so i must go forward !
Is there wrong with chosing her !
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
Wow!"HIDE" somemore.You gotta be careful next time.But |'m sure she'd be impressed if yer first appearance's successful.Originally posted by peace1983:I finally understand !
But that time i don't know her mum was around !
Coz her mum was hiding there !
Then next day her mum confront me !
Like that loh , get my picture now ! -
Too early to tell...?Originally posted by peace1983:Is there wrong with chosing her ! -
Well , maybe .
I just get a email from her yesterday night &
i quite touched coz she concern about me .
I guess i not wrong in chosing her now .
I guess i must let her mom have a good impression about me .
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
nothing to say. Can only wish u luck.
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u might be a bit deluded into thinking tat is was because of her mom tat she started to say all those things while the fact is she might genuinely have meant what she said.
think abt it and prepare for the worst. -
Thank ,
Anyway the problem already be solve .
Be happy . -
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
peace1983,
Hear me out or not depends on you. I do believe in jin cheng suo zhi jing shi wei kai (with sincerity even the stone will open up for you). well, now that her mum knows you... it's actually in your favour if your love for her will last. coz it will only prove to her and her mother your sincerity in getting her.
However, since she got a protective mother, her mother will definitely not want her dear daughter to suffer. thus she will expect her daughter to be in a comfortable position if she's going to let go of her daughter.. this is the part where you have to think about.. and will be the other 50% that will determine your success in the end.
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Thank for your advice and support .Originally posted by Bear:peace1983,
Hear me out or not depends on you. I do believe in jin cheng suo zhi jing shi wei kai (with sincerity even the stone will open up for you). well, now that her mum knows you... it's actually in your favour if your love for her will last. coz it will only prove to her and her mother your sincerity in getting her.
However, since she got a protective mother, her mother will definitely not want her dear daughter to suffer. thus she will expect her daughter to be in a comfortable position if she's going to let go of her daughter.. this is the part where you have to think about.. and will be the other 50% that will determine your success in the end.
Me too believe with sincerity everything can be done this meaning .
Yes , you are right - she have a protective mother who over care for her .
Anyway , her mother didn't told me to keep away from her daughter this word yet so i still stand a chance .
Her mother told me that her daughter should not have a boyfriend unless she graduate from her poly studies !
Now , i try to maintain a distance with the girl i love but i still show her concern & understanding as she show me too .
We are just like a close friend currently .
Sincere hope her studies wouldn't be affected and obtain good result as her mum have high expectation from her .
She have told me in her email that she feel pressure in handling a relationship now that why she reject me that time but she told me that she have feeling for me too(Happy upon hearing this).
So we both agreed not to go into couple relationship at the moment.
I have told her i will wait for her.
And anyway , i still on NS yet .
By the time i ORD , she should graduate too.
We both believe remain as best friend now is the best solution.
Well , at least now i have a peace of my mind.
Don't think too much .
Just hope for ' Good Luck ' to me and her .
Thank for all those who post here , thanks.
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SINGAPOREAN , CHINESE GUY BORN IN YEAR 1983 WISH TO FIND FRIENDS TO CHAT ! -
Hi ,
I have one last thing to add specially for all those in love here(Well , shouldn't be selfish.)
To all those in love currently :
I sincere wish success , courage & happiness in your relationship .
THANKS -
Wish you all da best then,ehehe
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You can offer her daughter LOVE... Though not all woman wants LOVE, but you'll still stand a chance... But what can you offer for her mum? Not all mother want LOVE for her daughter.... I'm not saying none of them desire that... But this is a VERY PRACTICAL problem... SWALLOW IT?Originally posted by Bear:peace1983,
Hear me out or not depends on you. I do believe in jin cheng suo zhi jing shi wei kai (with sincerity even the stone will open up for you). well, now that her mum knows you... it's actually in your favour if your love for her will last. coz it will only prove to her and her mother your sincerity in getting her.
However, since she got a protective mother, her mother will definitely not want her dear daughter to suffer. thus she will expect her daughter to be in a comfortable position if she's going to let go of her daughter.. this is the part where you have to think about.. and will be the other 50% that will determine your success in the end. -
Devil,Originally posted by Devil1976:You can offer her daughter LOVE... Though not all woman wants LOVE, but you'll still stand a chance... But what can you offer for her mum? Not all mother want LOVE for her daughter.... I'm not saying none of them desire that... But this is a VERY PRACTICAL problem... SWALLOW IT?
Think we're on the same beat.. =)
Peace,
well, I'm not saying that you don't stand a chance.. but think of her mother's position. she will want her daughter to be well-clothed and well-fed right?? I'm not freaking you out, but I challenge you to find a way to win the girl's heart always well as her mother's worry. Like I say, her mother knows you know and has not rejected you totally, so you're actually at an advantage position than any other competitors if there is. The future is just about your determination, your effort, you hard work, your foresight, and you planning.
sounds like a lot of pressure right?? Well, I guess you want her to have a good life too right??
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