Am I just thinking too much?
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Realise that it's a lock on your mind... Something you CHOOSE to HOLD ON...Originally posted by N|ck:Hmm so that's only way? Just forget about it?
If you don't wanna forget about it, we cannot force you also... Neither can we choose to forget on your behalf....
Perhaps you might just get a clearer picture when the guilt starts to rub up your girl and sours your relationship a bit...? -
she trust you thats why she told you. dont lose that trustOriginally posted by FBI:at least she confess to u, if she doesn't then i think she isn't true to u -
mmm thanks guys, never really thought about that, the whole she trust me thing. Yeah I think I am getting overly paranoid and overreacting over the incident. Trying to accept it now and be thankful that it's not an open and shut case of cheating and that she deemed it important to tell me about it.
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Ah...finally you see A ray of light.Originally posted by N|ck:mmm thanks guys, never really thought about that, the whole she trust me thing. Yeah I think I am getting overly paranoid and overreacting over the incident. Trying to accept it now and be thankful that it's not an open and shut case of cheating and that she deemed it important to tell me about it.
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Originally posted by N|ck:mmm thanks guys, never really thought about that, the whole she trust me thing. Yeah I think I am getting overly paranoid and overreacting over the incident. Trying to accept it now and be thankful that it's not an open and shut case of cheating and that she deemed it important to tell me about it.
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If that's the case then ok. At least she's trying too. But don't whine too much because it would drain the both of you. If you're holding on to her for the comfort because obviously shes the only one who can give it to you, don't drain her. Find other ways and means to channel this jealousy. What youre thinking about is probably that she's been touched by another guy in a certain way etc. F it and at least she's with you now and she''s come clean. Give it time.Originally posted by N|ck:Hmm does it matter? Just know that I think she's worth it and I like her enough to look past this. -
You're right, but well what other ways and means can I channel this jealousy?Originally posted by AshedAnna:If that's the case then ok. At least she's trying too. But don't whine too much because it would drain the both of you. If you're holding on to her for the comfort because obviously shes the only one who can give it to you, don't drain her. Find other ways and means to channel this jealousy. What youre thinking about is probably that she's been touched by another guy in a certain way etc. F it and at least she's with you now and she''s come clean. Give it time. -
By channelling your thoughts and energy to treat her well.Originally posted by N|ck:You're right, but well what other ways and means can I channel this jealousy?
But ultimately, you've got to overcome it. In long run, it'll be benefitual to both you and her. -
Hmm.. Jealousy can be a pain in the neck for your relationship in the future... It can very often easily lead to a relationship with a weak foundation.. Be careful with that.Originally posted by N|ck:You're right, but well what other ways and means can I channel this jealousy? -
Thanks for all your help guys.
I am glad I posted here, learned something. Funny how when you guys said "it's like that one" then it dawned on me it's true, although it was probably lurking at the back of mind all along. -
Its AA man. Whatever that bugs you I'd rather you ji tao whack everything here elsewhere. Best of luck. Time heals all wounds. As long as there's love.Originally posted by N|ck:Thanks for all your help guys.
I am glad I posted here, learned something. Funny how when you guys said "it's like that one" then it dawned on me it's true, although it was probably lurking at the back of mind all along.