Originally posted by blu_sky:
Latest update:
Before i had the chance to say anything, he told me he kinda likes me, and hope to bring this to the next level. But i told him lets not think about that now and stay as friends.
I brought up the drinking thing to him. Told him that it is not nice to drink till tipsy especially when you juz know a gal, and the gal may think that he has a drinking problem. He said he didnt know that it will affect me. And said that he was just happy, thats why. And he will be more conscious of that part in future.
seems that u have a mindset that one should do this or should not do that at a date.
he could be behaving like a gentleman, knows how to carry himself well etc at the so called 'date', but that's NOT him. Ultimately, he will show his true self. Would you rather see the real him before or after you accepted him? I think it's better to let him be himself lor, if not in future u will think that u have been deceived. If the first and second date is already so disappointing to you, then dun bother with him lor, dun go for the third one. 