Is she afraid of me?yes.
Afraid or not, you've probably already 'lost' her...Originally posted by ryan:O):Hi everyone that is looking at this post here. This is the first time I am posting a topic here. ItÂ’s quite late and I canÂ’t sleep. The reason being I am feeling very sad at the moment and I am writing this down case my soul needs to express the sadness I feeling for the past few months. My soul is crying for the lady I care about and the saddest thing is that I do not know how express my feelings to her. I think I am losing her.
I knew this lady through a friend; she is nice ladyand as time passed by my feelings for her grew stronger, wanted to get to know her better cause I did not want to fall blindly in love with her. Just wanted to know her better. Went out a few times, but it seems that we were unable to communicate. Both of us are the quiet type.
Tried to express my liking for her once but I think it misfired and than it was down hill all the way. Tried to called her out few time after that but she always politely rejected me and everytime she does that I felt sad. Is she afraid of me?
We are slowly drifting apart. Cried cause I think I am falling in love with her but will she ever know how I felt?
Used to be a happy go lucky type of guy but I have been feeling down for the past year.
Kept thinking of her for the last 2 years and the last time I went out with her was a few months back.
Wanted to forget about her but I CANÂ’T.
Is this what you call lovesickness? It really pains me
How to get over it, it has been 2 years liao.
I am afraid of loving her cause I am really afraid of losing her.
Please help me to release my soul from this depth of sadness.
I canÂ’t live like this
Originally posted by monoslayer:how come recently always have new forumites coming to AA to post their sad stories ah.. somemore always at tis kind of hr one..![]()
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Originally posted by monoslayer:how come recently always have new forumites coming to AA to post their sad stories ah.. somemore always at tis kind of hr one..![]()
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Well said.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:
I too am still awake.Originally posted by ryan:O):Hi everyone that is looking at this post here. This is the first time I am posting a topic here. ItÂ’s quite late and I canÂ’t sleep. The reason being I am feeling very sad at the moment and I am writing this down case my soul needs to express the sadness I feeling for the past few months. My soul is crying for the lady I care about and the saddest thing is that I do not know how express my feelings to her. I think I am losing her.
I knew this lady through a friend; she is nice ladyand as time passed by my feelings for her grew stronger, wanted to get to know her better cause I did not want to fall blindly in love with her. Just wanted to know her better. Went out a few times, but it seems that we were unable to communicate. Both of us are the quiet type.
Tried to express my liking for her once but I think it misfired and than it was down hill all the way. Tried to called her out few time after that but she always politely rejected me and everytime she does that I felt sad. Is she afraid of me?
We are slowly drifting apart. Cried cause I think I am falling in love with her but will she ever know how I felt?
Used to be a happy go lucky type of guy but I have been feeling down for the past year.
Kept thinking of her for the last 2 years and the last time I went out with her was a few months back.
Wanted to forget about her but I CANÂ’T.
Is this what you call lovesickness? It really pains me
How to get over it, it has been 2 years liao.
I am afraid of loving her cause I am really afraid of losing her.
Please help me to release my soul from this depth of sadness.
I canÂ’t live like this
Did you actually express your feelings for her? If yes and she politely rejected, most likely it meant she wasn't ready to accept but is unwilling to break this friendship too.Originally posted by ryan:O):Hi everyone that is looking at this post here. This is the first time I am posting a topic here. ItÂ’s quite late and I canÂ’t sleep. The reason being I am feeling very sad at the moment and I am writing this down case my soul needs to express the sadness I feeling for the past few months. My soul is crying for the lady I care about and the saddest thing is that I do not know how express my feelings to her. I think I am losing her.
I knew this lady through a friend; she is nice ladyand as time passed by my feelings for her grew stronger, wanted to get to know her better cause I did not want to fall blindly in love with her. Just wanted to know her better. Went out a few times, but it seems that we were unable to communicate. Both of us are the quiet type.
Tried to express my liking for her once but I think it misfired and than it was down hill all the way. Tried to called her out few time after that but she always politely rejected me and everytime she does that I felt sad. Is she afraid of me?
We are slowly drifting apart. Cried cause I think I am falling in love with her but will she ever know how I felt?
Used to be a happy go lucky type of guy but I have been feeling down for the past year.
Kept thinking of her for the last 2 years and the last time I went out with her was a few months back.
Wanted to forget about her but I CANÂ’T.
Is this what you call lovesickness? It really pains me
How to get over it, it has been 2 years liao.
I am afraid of loving her cause I am really afraid of losing her.
Please help me to release my soul from this depth of sadness.
I canÂ’t live like this
Originally posted by Bontakun:HELLO!! LONG TIME NO SEE!!
Did you actually express your feelings for her? If yes and she politely rejected, [b]most likely it meant she wasn't ready to accept but is unwilling to break this friendship too.
If no then are you afraid of losing her as a friend? Or as something else?
I am in no position to say what you should do because I myself have issues of my own, but I can suggest a few things which MAY be of help.
Tell this to a close friend of yours. You may not get 'enlightenment' but at least there is someone lending a listening ear.
Go out and meet other people. It will give you a fresh feeling at least and you may see more things and perhaps have a new interest?
Seek professional counselling. I am not saying you are in such a horrible situation to require it. Even people who looked fine seeks pro counselling. They are unsure of what to do in their lives and feel lost at times.
Of course there will be more people posting here so you can wait and see more options available later.
I do have another question though: Do you prefer to let her know how you feel and risk losing possibly everything or would you rather keep this feeling quiet and hope it will go away?[/b]
Originally posted by Devil1976:HELLO!! LONG TIME NO SEE!!![]()
I'm happy to know that I'm healthy too!Originally posted by Bontakun:![]()
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Dats my feelings basically when I came back here.
Good to see you still healthy and good along with others I know. Woooo~~~~~
Originally posted by ryan:O):Hi everyone that is looking at this post here. This is the first time I am posting a topic here. ItÂ’s quite late and I canÂ’t sleep. The reason being I am feeling very sad at the moment and I am writing this down case my soul needs to express the sadness I feeling for the past few months. My soul is crying for the lady I care about and the saddest thing is that I do not know how express my feelings to her. I think I am losing her.
I knew this lady through a friend; she is nice ladyand as time passed by my feelings for her grew stronger, wanted to get to know her better cause I did not want to fall blindly in love with her. Just wanted to know her better. Went out a few times, but it seems that we were unable to communicate. Both of us are the quiet type.
Tried to express my liking for her once but I think it misfired and than it was down hill all the way. Tried to called her out few time after that but she always politely rejected me and everytime she does that I felt sad. Is she afraid of me?
We are slowly drifting apart. Cried cause I think I am falling in love with her but will she ever know how I felt?
Used to be a happy go lucky type of guy but I have been feeling down for the past year.
Kept thinking of her for the last 2 years and the last time I went out with her was a few months back.
Wanted to forget about her but I CANÂ’T.
Is this what you call lovesickness? It really pains me
How to get over it, it has been 2 years liao.
I am afraid of loving her cause I am really afraid of losing her.
Please help me to release my soul from this depth of sadness.
I canÂ’t live like this
I dont think she will.. Gers when it comes to r/s are very straightforward..if they dun like you , there is NOTHING you can do to change their mind. That is if they like you , they can even sacrifice anything for you.Originally posted by the.owl:sing her a song, about how your soul is crying and stuff, and she will be touched![]()