In the depth of sadness someone please help me !

• casino_king

  9 Jul 06, 07:59

  (fyi I am not a young teenager blinded by puppy love)
  
  FYI not only young teens are blinded by puppy love.
• killstyle

  9 Jul 06, 09:03

  Originally posted by ryan:O):

  Hi everyone that is looking at this post here. This is the first time I am posting a topic here. ItÂ’s quite late and I canÂ’t sleep. The reason being I am feeling very sad at the moment and I am writing this down case my soul needs to express the sadness I feeling for the past few months. My soul is crying for the lady I care about and the saddest thing is that I do not know how express my feelings to her. I think I am losing her.
  
  I knew this lady through a friend; she is nice lady and as time passed by my feelings for her grew stronger, wanted to get to know her better cause I did not want to fall blindly in love with her. Just wanted to know her better. Went out a few times, but it seems that we were unable to communicate. Both of us are the quiet type.
  
  Tried to express my liking for her once but I think it misfired and than it was down hill all the way. Tried to called her out few time after that but she always politely rejected me and everytime she does that I felt sad. Is she afraid of me?
  
  We are slowly drifting apart. Cried cause I think I am falling in love with her but will she ever know how I felt?
  
  Used to be a happy go lucky type of guy but I have been feeling down for the past year.
  
  Kept thinking of her for the last 2 years and the last time I went out with her was a few months back.
  
  Wanted to forget about her but I CANÂ’T.
  
  Is this what you call lovesickness? It really pains me
  
  How to get over it, it has been 2 years liao.
  
  I am afraid of loving her cause I am really afraid of losing her.
  
  Please help me to release my soul from this depth of sadness.
  
  I canÂ’t live like this
  

  
  
  points in the direction of geylang.
• casino_king

  9 Jul 06, 09:05

  Originally posted by killstyle:

  
  points in the direction of geylang.

  you want him to go bankrupt issit?
• Bontakun

  9 Jul 06, 09:48

  Thank you. You will find the answer you are searching for.
• Rock^Star

  9 Jul 06, 14:48

  All the best Ryan!!
  
  You can do it!! Just be brave enough to make ur choice. Gd Luck !!!!
• NotFromVenus

  9 Jul 06, 15:11

  Originally posted by ryan:O):
  Hi everyone.
  
  Thanks for reading my post and my appreciation for all you kind words of encouragements. Especially Bontakun, Rock^Star, snowbird82 and even neverendingtrauma Thanks again :O)
  
  Hmmm… from the posts I must acknowledge the fact that I have invested too much feeling in trying know her better and all those emotions seems one sided. Well that is maybe because this is the “First” time that I have been attracted to a nice lady. (fyi I am not a young teenager blinded by puppy love)
  
  Tried really hard to forget her a few times as I slowly started to realise that I was weighted down by these emotions. HmmmÂ… even some of my close friends seem to see the sadness in me. You really can see whether the person is happy or sad by looking carefully into their eyes. It seem like they are a window to your soul.
  
  ItÂ’s just a bit hard to carry on after all those feeling I felt and I guess I have to let go of my foolish emotions and I really hope that the hands of time can slowly wash away all the sadness in me.
  
  Hope this post will continue and help others that share the same experiences as me.
  

  It took you so long to have your 1st "Puppy - one sided love ?" have you been living alone ?
  
  Or have you not been looking at the opposite sex your whole life ? Its time to move on and try to know someone seriously and have a decent conversation that does not happen in your fantasies .