Originally posted by bladez87:
not sure liao. you gotta ask bbb, surely they dont tell the person they are badmouthing what they saying behind his back would they? haha
but i heard of me backstabbing. (fake)
heard of me being v competitive and arrogant ( true)
untactful (true)
and when people dont do their parts for projects, i will mark them down.real bad.
then got 1 time, a girl go around saying i molest her Zzz. obviously that is fake la.
i am always in bad luck it seems.
dats y u should be tactful; or be prepared to be backstabbed about it.
u mark down alot of people is it?
there was this guy in my class like to put people down.
in the end, alot of peeps like to talk bad about him behind his back.
for me, if my mates never do for their projects ill try my best to help without critisizing although i am not a sweet talker.
u never know 10 years from now, you will need their help instead. who knows when i ended up begging in the streets it wld be em who will get me back on track?
usually, its never one person who backstabs u, it would be a group of people sharing some common gossip. even if one person starts the spark, it would the the others that bloom it into a flaming discussion.
if u wanna find out who, you'll end up blaming alot of people.