Going insane over the mistress etc. ARGH.
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I think I am going nutty.
Dad and the stepmom are ending up in court.
For domestic violence.
And the stepmom has gone off to goodness knows where with the kids.
And Dad told me last night he has a mistress, and even let me speak to her on the phone, and she's pregnant.
He might sell this house, where I grew up, and we might go live in the other apartment he has; which is in some obscure location. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
What I am angry about is that everyone(aunts and uncles( all know about the mistress except me. She even stayed at my uncle's house before.
Suddenly I remember that joke my uncle made on CNY about china wives and got scolded by all my aunts.
And I just feel like the biggest fool on earth.
The mother's gone, the stepmother's gone.
What's next.
And Dad's business isin't quite going well, and because of the world cup, the losses amount to about hundreds of thousands.
Lucky he can still hold out.
I think the only thing good is that out of this is that I will gain another sibling, and that I managed to tell my daddy that i wanted to quit poly for jc. Surprisingly he didn't flare up and explode.
Gosh.
The court date is approaching.
Dad assures me that he will get a fine only.
What if he gets a jail term???????????????
blah.
complicated family.
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*pats* we r here for u if u need a listening ear.
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Don't worry too much for now bah.
If you're really into JC and out of Poly, then just go for it....
The main thing now is to be CLEAR about your OBJECTIVE(s) and STICK to it / them... Don't dangle around too much anymore... You would probably have to depend very much on yourself in the near future as you grow up....
Err.. Another thing which I've thought of but don't know if it's really right to tell you at this point...? Your dad... Might be on a 'drifting mode'... He might be a little confused at this point about most things... And I really don't know how long he might hold out in the future... Though it's certainly better if you know you want to go JC and subsequently where you wanna go... But you've to be FOCUSED enough this time round... Otherwise, POLY might be a better choice as you would be able to be better self-independent at a younger age... Just in case you can't rely on your dad anymore...? -
woa reali complicated...Originally posted by missqi:I think I am going nutty.
Dad and the stepmom are ending up in court.
For domestic violence.
And the stepmom has gone off to goodness knows where with the kids.
And Dad told me last night he has a mistress, and even let me speak to her on the phone, and she's pregnant.
He might sell this house, where I grew up, and we might go live in the other apartment he has; which is in some obscure location. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
What I am angry about is that everyone(aunts and uncles( all know about the mistress except me. She even stayed at my uncle's house before.
Suddenly I remember that joke my uncle made on CNY about china wives and got scolded by all my aunts.
And I just feel like the biggest fool on earth.
The mother's gone, the stepmother's gone.
What's next.
And Dad's business isin't quite going well, and because of the world cup, the losses amount to about hundreds of thousands.
Lucky he can still hold out.
I think the only thing good is that out of this is that I will gain another sibling, and that I managed to tell my daddy that i wanted to quit poly for jc. Surprisingly he didn't flare up and explode.
Gosh.
The court date is approaching.
Dad assures me that he will get a fine only.
What if he gets a jail term???????????????
blah.
complicated family.
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anyway jz sort things out 1 at a time... right now is your dad... now jz do your part n study n supporttive of ur dad... after tat sort out your future(best is stay in sch).... right now worry also no use... look for plan B incase bad things happen... seek relatives help if u can handle it... -
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dun feel soO sad ba Qi we r oways here fer ya...
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I can lend u my shoulders.
Cheers.
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we are always here for you if you need us
we can't really help you but we can offer advice -
good man... u got a new brother or sister... jkjk
let ur parents handle the matter or try talk to them about what is bother u? -
advice, maybe, maybe not..
but a listening ear or eyes.. we're here... -
I know how you feel because we are in the same boat but I don't have a step sibling. We can only lend you a ear because what's done cannot be undone.
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Be strong gal.. Best to take a talk w ur dad over ur future, ur studies..
Well, are u ok w ur stepmom? If u guys are on talking terms, den better to talk her out and ask her not to go to court due to the monetary terms involved..
Stay strong gal, at least i see u mantaining ur cheery position in other threads(whether it's real or not )
I'll check back soon, remember tian1 wu2 jue2 ren2 zhi1 lu4.
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ur dad power. ur stepmom kids same father as you?
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I tink the step mom more power leh..Originally posted by Ito_^:ur dad power. ur stepmom kids same father as you? -
Need help we're here =)
Need a shoulder or ear We're all here too..
Take Care missqi, go for your aims...
Believe in urself, and be more conserve. -
u dun seem too affected.
anyway, take care. -
God bless and take care.
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hopefully the best is yet to come. complications are just part and parcel of life
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your dad is a bastard period. got STEP MOM liao still go outside and pluck grass. and now there will be a STEP STEP mom for u missqi. i really pity you. no joke here.Originally posted by missqi:I think I am going nutty.
Dad and the stepmom are ending up in court.
For domestic violence.
And the stepmom has gone off to goodness knows where with the kids.
And Dad told me last night he has a mistress, and even let me speak to her on the phone, and she's pregnant.
He might sell this house, where I grew up, and we might go live in the other apartment he has; which is in some obscure location. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
What I am angry about is that everyone(aunts and uncles( all know about the mistress except me. She even stayed at my uncle's house before.
Suddenly I remember that joke my uncle made on CNY about china wives and got scolded by all my aunts.
And I just feel like the biggest fool on earth.
The mother's gone, the stepmother's gone.
What's next.
And Dad's business isin't quite going well, and because of the world cup, the losses amount to about hundreds of thousands.
Lucky he can still hold out.
I think the only thing good is that out of this is that I will gain another sibling, and that I managed to tell my daddy that i wanted to quit poly for jc. Surprisingly he didn't flare up and explode.
Gosh.
The court date is approaching.
Dad assures me that he will get a fine only.
What if he gets a jail term???????????????
blah.
complicated family.
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you have the chance not to repeat ur parents' mistake when you become one yourself. what has happened has happened. look to the future no matter what happens. you have great ppl around you. all the best.
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Ah qi, take it easy ya?
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Humh... whole story sound so much like my friend plight.
Advice or non-advice from me. Just be strong my dear, we are here for you.
That's your dad life, let him settle it. Drop out of study i wouldn't advice you to do so, you might regret.
Take care ... Chat with us if you are feeling down.
See ya..Originally posted by missqi:I think I am going nutty.
Dad and the stepmom are ending up in court.
For domestic violence.
And the stepmom has gone off to goodness knows where with the kids.
And Dad told me last night he has a mistress, and even let me speak to her on the phone, and she's pregnant.
He might sell this house, where I grew up, and we might go live in the other apartment he has; which is in some obscure location. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
What I am angry about is that everyone(aunts and uncles( all know about the mistress except me. She even stayed at my uncle's house before.
Suddenly I remember that joke my uncle made on CNY about china wives and got scolded by all my aunts.
And I just feel like the biggest fool on earth.
The mother's gone, the stepmother's gone.
What's next.
And Dad's business isin't quite going well, and because of the world cup, the losses amount to about hundreds of thousands.
Lucky he can still hold out.
I think the only thing good is that out of this is that I will gain another sibling, and that I managed to tell my daddy that i wanted to quit poly for jc. Surprisingly he didn't flare up and explode.
Gosh.
The court date is approaching.
Dad assures me that he will get a fine only.
What if he gets a jail term???????????????
blah.
complicated family.
): -
yea. study hard. ok. be independent so that you can secure a good job next time and take no shtye from no one. inculding your dad.
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have fun in jc
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Dun get too dishearten, yr dad causes all this prob. Hopefully things get ok..
So dun get too down, things will get ok. Yr stepmom and her kids need support too if they comes back.