Changes in a 9 year relationship
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jus treat everyday the same.. let him get back the same old feeling.. and BETTER!Originally posted by linc:understood.
will give him some time to sort himself out instead of probing.
hopefully, he'll open up when he's ready.
now will just pass the days as if it's normal.
You can do it!
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Don't marry for the sake of getting married (e.g. responsibility).
Married because you love each other so much that you can't do with each other.
My fren knew his gf when they were in secondary school. They got married after 10 years of courtship. They divorced 5 years later. His ex-wife's reason: He doesn't understand me and he din spend enough time with me.
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he is most probably at a stage where he is wondering if you are the girl for him, as in if u are suited to be his wife and will he regret after marrying you.
this is why is is asking you to change everything that he sees as possible barriers/problems if both of u are eventually married.
try to change for him if you treasure him... i believe you can do it if you love him. -
Although it's been nine years, both of you are still relatively young. Perhaps you should sit down with your boyfriend and consider your options. We can only give you so much advice, but ultimately it's up to you to make the choice. Good luck.
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Isn't 25 the time for charbo to get married?
Pressure him. Your bio clock has starte counting down!