falling for my friend's sis
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i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis
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OMG shes a minor u pervertOriginally posted by needloveNOW:i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis
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he's only 14.Originally posted by the.owl:OMG shes a minor u pervert 
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u seemed desparate
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one of the gals i like is my friend's sister and the other is well,her friendOriginally posted by needloveNOW:i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis
both are sec 1 too...
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she's not even fully developed!~
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You "fell" for you friend's sister. Is this the 1st time? You must know that the 1st experience of "feelings", some say "puppy love" is simply an infatuation and not those kind where you say, "Ah, she is the one for me for life".Originally posted by needloveNOW:i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis
How long do you know her? How well do you know her? Is she being sec 1 (a year younger than you) an issue to you, like age diff maybe got some difficulty getting along?
Are you sure you will be "okay" in your studies and confident your grades will not be affected? There are many people who think exactly the same too and their grades dropped after they are attached.
Do know that you are in your puberty time and its natural to have raging hormones and such. Its a trying period for all who reached this age. They will experience love, hate, rebellion, peer pressure, changes in general.
I will NOT tell you to forget about dating her and concentrate your studies, its your life and I have no rights to do so. All I can tell you is the consequences you may have to face if you decide to date her. I can also tell you that UNLESS you are very clear in what you are doing, the 2 of you will not be dating for long.
There is nothing wrong in asking her out. You can do so as friends and there is less pressure looking at her as one. If either of you feels uncomfortable going out 1 on 1, get your friend to join in. There is nothing paiseh about unless you REALLY care about what others think. If that is the case, you might as well don't even ask.
You can also ask your friends or classmates who are around the same age as you regarding this, but most likely they are in the same maturity level or higher by a little, thus cannot tell you the answers you are looking for. If you have friends who are way older than you, eg. 19, you can also ask them what they did when they were young.
Similarly you can ask your parents for advice IF you think they will not freak out hearing you wanna date the girl. It is the parents responsibilities to educate their kids on such issues and more during times of puberty. You can also consult any teachers whom you feel COMFORTABLE with, they can help you too. Do not be afraid to ask them because afterall, they were once 14 years olds.
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You should concentrate on your studies.
Puppy love is usually what you experienced during such age. -
Wah, I also like secondary 1 girls.
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Eh gin nah, study lah......relationship next time got alot of time ok.Originally posted by needloveNOW:i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis -
Originally posted by de_middle:Eh gin nah, study lah......relationship next time got alot of time ok.
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Just so you guys know, In western countries.. 15 and never been in a relationship before = mummy's baby, loser, wanker and jackass
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Yes you should ask if you already feel the need.Originally posted by needloveNOW:i'm 14 this year... and i fell for my friend's sister... who is only secondary1... and i'm okay at my studies and confident that my grades won't be like kanasai after i have myself a gf...so should i ask her out or should i not and if i should ask , then how should i ask? very paiseh as it is my friend's sis
Have you already know her as a friend or do you only know your friend.
You've got to let her know your existance before working on dates.
How you should ask is very straight forward, don't use any sneaky methods. Be creative in your question.
Hmm...don't have to worry about your friend.
Just one question. How do you know she's interested in a relationship?
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13 year old compared to 17 year old are worlds apart
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Originally posted by M©+square:
Your one question win mee liao. GG
How do you know she's interested in a relationship?
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14 nia y the hurry?
xiao di di wana pian xiao mei mei.. aiyo...
concentrate on studies pls.. -
She's still young n innocent...DUN HURT HER!!!!
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Your parents and teachers would tell you to focus on your streaming exams.
And I concur. I hardly think that anyone would be mature enough for a relationship at the tender age of fourteen. Even more so considering the fact that she's just thirteen.
And even if you say that you're ready for a relationship, the same may not apply to her. -
concentrate on your studies.
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Many potential Father and mothers here.
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my god..
ur still young..
dont think so much
furthermore..seriously..starting at so young age..
how long can it last?
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Ya... You and mee~~~Originally posted by M©+square:Many potential Father and mothers here. 
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Honestly?Originally posted by Bontakun:Ya... You and mee~~~
I support him in doing what he thinks is right.
No youths should suppress their feelings to express onto another.
It is the age of adolescence which people can afford to make mistakes(non grievous) and understand certain principles as they grow.
I don't intend to have a kid. Not thinking of marriage too. -
let just say if you are matual enough ok... but have you consider what love is about??? what relationship is about?? do you only LIKE her or you really LOVE her... if only like den forget about goin into a relationship with her and concentrate on ur studies... anyway... do you know what is real love??? thnk about it...
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bachelor life is very boring you know?Originally posted by M©+square:Honestly?
I support him in doing what he thinks is right.
No youths should suppress their feelings to express onto another. It is the age of adolescence which people can afford to make mistakes(non grievous) and understand certain principles as they grow.
I don't intend to have a kid. Not thinking of marriage too.