Is it normal to lust over someone u love?

• dibilo

  15 Jul 06, 19:56

  i feel this strong sense of lust for my gf.. like wanting to hug and kiss her almost all the time. Is it normal?
• rathcycle

  15 Jul 06, 19:58

  yesh, itsh normalz
• browniebaobao

  15 Jul 06, 19:59

  somebody posted this before..
  
  hug and kiss is normal ba?
  
  i tot that's expression of love, duno y ple label it as 'lust'.
• kopiosatu

  15 Jul 06, 20:00

  i hug and kiss my bike.
• alexkusu

  15 Jul 06, 20:02

  Kopi is normal
• Agenda

  15 Jul 06, 20:16

  I don't see kissing and hugging as lust, unless you fantasize it leading to sex that is..
• dibilo

  15 Jul 06, 21:35

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  I don't see kissing and hugging as lust, unless you fantasize it leading to sex that is..

  erm lol... hmm then what if its more like wanting to touch and hold her?
• xShevchenkox

  15 Jul 06, 21:40

  Well there is nothing wrong mah..she is ur gf mah..but dun owazs have those lustful thinkings, cuz if she noe it, she might be mistaken thinking that you lust over her body or wad...then lead to problems...
  
  But come to think, all guys are lustful..out of 10 guys, 9 are lustful...l admit l am one of them oso, but l control it well..=)
• outofcontrol225

  16 Jul 06, 01:00

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i hug and kiss my bike.

  Now that is not normal.
• Seth35

  16 Jul 06, 01:02

  Its ok lust...But not go over the Limit...Control yourself...
• ^tamago^

  16 Jul 06, 01:18

  Originally posted by outofcontrol225:

  Now that is not normal.

  it's normal, just dun do anything further than that...... oh men, i can't imagine it.............
• Eternal-fire

  16 Jul 06, 14:33

  Originally posted by xShevchenkox:

  But come to think, all guys are lustful..out of 10 guys, 9 are lustful...l admit l am one of them oso, but l control it well..=)

  Then the one who is not lustful must be a gay?
• lonestar86

  16 Jul 06, 14:37

  lust??
  wrong word being used in this case..
• Rejected

  16 Jul 06, 14:37

  Originally posted by ^tamago^:

  it's normal, just dun do anything further than that...... oh men, i can't imagine it.............

  
• SGpork

  16 Jul 06, 14:40

  normal..
  
  
• casino_king

  16 Jul 06, 14:45

  Originally posted by dibilo:

  i feel this strong sense of lust for my gf.. like wanting to hug and kiss her almost all the time. Is it normal?

  By asking this question, you seem to be under some sort of good social practice ethics, moral code or religious rules and reguations.
  
  Otherwise, you would find not problem with it. The problem comes only because you feel that you have violated some rule or law or other.
  
  So what is the basis of your obvious assumption that it might be wrong?
• Devil1976

  17 Jul 06, 09:26

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i hug and kiss my bike.

  So long as you don't try to bait your bike with soap, you're still VERY NORMAL... "
• choco B

  17 Jul 06, 09:29

  I think it's something wrong if you DON'T lust for your partner.
• the Bear

  17 Jul 06, 09:32

  i would that i would look at Mrs Bear with love in my heart and lust in my eye
  
  
• dork3d

  17 Jul 06, 09:34

  Yes, it's normal... There are times that you just wish that the person you love so much could be by your side, and you just wish that you could hug the person you love tightly...
• Gwangetto

  17 Jul 06, 11:08

  it's not normal of u if u think this is lust.
• dork3d

  17 Jul 06, 11:36

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  it's not normal of u if u think this is lust.

  Well, there's only a fine line that separates lust and love...
• dragg

  17 Jul 06, 12:24

  its normal lah.
  
  i lust over people i hate as well.
  
  
• kenshin_himura

  20 Jul 06, 01:46

  Originally posted by dragg:

  its normal lah.
  
  i lust over people i hate as well.
  
  

  
• finoq

  20 Jul 06, 02:16

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  Then the one who is not lustful must be a gay?

  no...even gays are lustful