Empty Promises From Guys
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My ex-bf whom i have just broken off with recently gave me lots of empty promises. We planned to get married next year and etc. We didn't quarrel at all. He loved me alot then and out of sudden he wanted to break up all because i'm from a broken family. My heart was so broken. I felt cheated. I trusted him so much yet he gave me so much pain. Why are guys like that? Moreover he's a Christian! He's currently in his late twenties.
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My friend was due to get married after 7 years of dating with his girlfriend.
On the day of ROM. She told him," I dont have any feelings for you anymore" And she left. -
Your present feelings have got alot to do with your family situation as well.
Naturally these are not known to you.
- Did he give you a proper reason?
- How did the both of you break up, under what circumstances, how was the atomsphere like(arguement, calm discussion, emotional, non confrontational.etc.)? -
like tat oso can? on the day of their ROM?? nb.. should jus give the gal one tight slap to wake up her bloody idea! b!tch!Originally posted by Pitot:My friend was due to get married after 7 years of dating with his girlfriend.
On the day of ROM. She told him," I dont have any feelings for you anymore" And she left.
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Last point. He is eligible. The whole group of us just cant figure out what on earth happened. He has a career, money, looks.Originally posted by monoslayer:like tat oso can? on the day of their ROM?? nb.. should jus give the gal one tight slap to wake up her bloody idea! b!tch!
Sorry to hijack ur thread. But just wanted to point out to you that not all guys are like what you said. And girls can do it too. -
There were no quarrels. He felt that he couldn't take the stress I've in my family. I have never given him stress at all but only to tell him my family condition to let him understand that all I need is to have a shoulder to cry on from him. And he also blamed me that I am giving him pressure to settle down soon when he was the one who proposed to do so many many times.Originally posted by M©+square:Your present feelings have got alot to do with your family situation as well.
Naturally these are not known to you.
- Did he give you a proper reason?
- How did the both of you break up, under what circumstances, how was the atomsphere like(arguement, calm discussion, emotional, non confrontational.etc.)? -
Then you should be HAPPY that you broke off with such a kinda guy what..??Originally posted by musicbox:There were no quarrels. He felt that he couldn't take the stress I've in my family. I have never given him stress at all but only to tell him my family condition to let him understand that all I need is to have a shoulder to cry on from him. And he also blamed me that I am giving him pressure to settle down soon when he was the one who proposed to do so many many times. 
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then are u a christian?
or have the intention to convert to christian?
so far i know from my christian frens, many want to have a partner who is a christian also. some even wun date with non-christian. -
i am full of promises... if only you couldve met me instead. But i know u will find the one, this is but a minor setback in your chapter of life.
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you just met an unsuitable person.
so move on,
btw, how old are you? Your family seems to have quite a bit of influence on you that you need someone to lean on.. -
According to my Christian friends, their partners have to be Christian too.Originally posted by browniebaobao:then are u a christian?
or have the intention to convert to christian?
so far i know from my christian frens, many want to have a partner who is a christian also. some even wun date with non-christian.
Sharing the same faith... -
guys n gals can give empty promises...i wun dare 2 say i
've not broken any promise b4..but then i feel tt yr guy is taking yr family situation as an excuse 2 break up wif u...
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Is better that he break off now then after married. Don't be upset, you will find one better.
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tok cock is wat Christian do best
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The best line you can give to your jerk ex.
When we were together, you always said you would die for me. Now that we've broken up, I think it's time you kept your promise.
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:then are u a christian?
or have the intention to convert to christian?
so far i know from my christian frens, many want to have a partner who is a christian also. some even wun date with non-christian.
Lets not talk about religous issues here, cause it kinda stupid trying explain this kind of stuffs....Originally posted by rebound:tok cock is wat Christian do best
Plus, I myself, don't really like christians,
am gonna say, not all christians are like that.
Just chill lady...
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the question is, what will you do from now?
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power...Originally posted by Pitot:My friend was due to get married after 7 years of dating with his girlfriend.
On the day of ROM. She told him," I dont have any feelings for you anymore" And she left. -
Actually you haven't even really said what he promised you. Did he promise to marry you and take care of you forever, this sort of thing? Or is it something more materialistic, like I'll buy you this and that?
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What a waste of 7 years of his life. Stupid girl must have found someone better, then ditched him for her.Originally posted by Pitot:My friend was due to get married after 7 years of dating with his girlfriend.
On the day of ROM. She told him," I dont have any feelings for you anymore" And she left.
See girls it works both ways, guys get victimized by your crap too -
That is just an isolated example.Originally posted by rebound:tok cock is wat Christian do best
MOD. No general spectaculating comment against any religious group or your post would be edited without prior notice. No arguement would be entertained. -
How long have u been together with this guy?
How much do u know about him?
If it's not meant to be, letting go is the best solution.
Cheers.
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Same sentiments, Mr Devil1976.Originally posted by Devil1976:Then you should be HAPPY that you broke off with such a kinda guy what..?? -
Omg.. poor guy ...Originally posted by Pitot:My friend was due to get married after 7 years of dating with his girlfriend.
On the day of ROM. She told him," I dont have any feelings for you anymore" And she left.