I can't get over a girl.
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I always thought of myself as being emotionally strong.
Being a guy and all. I was determined not to let a dumping bring me down. I confess it is an ego thing. The she-didn't-mean-much-to-me-anyway sour grapes syndrome. Hell, the fact that I am actually appealing for help on an online Aunt Agony forum is a hell of a bruise to my pride. Again, that macho-guy-I-can-handle-anything comes into play.
Yes ladies, males are assholes.
But I cannot lie to myself. I am still crazily in love with her. I catch myself doodling her name, almost subconsciously. I suddenly became self-aware of how gorgeous she actually is - beautiful face and hot body. Nice boobs and tight butt. It's funny how I have never appreciated how pretty she truly is.
After all, I did not fall for her looks when I first went out with her. Beauty is only skin-deep and that rings true for me. She just had this ability to make a broody guy like me smile alot. And that, dear friends, is what had truly melted my heart to pieces about her. She was such a happy soul, and happiness as they say is infectious.
But alas, I proved too much of an asshole for her. Feel like smacking myself for letting slip such a babe. There are many qualities about me she dislikes. I am a rather unruly and vulgar person, as well being rather unrestrained in my promiscuousness (I leave that open to your interpretation). My mistaken impression was that she was willing to accept my faults. I was wrong. And I do not blame her at all. For I am a first rate bast-rd at times.
Right now, I can safely say it is affecting me badly - her absence. I live out my days with no motivation going on. My work is in a mess. My mind is in a mess. I have alot of tasks to sort out right now, in a crucial part of the year. But I just cannot seem to focus. Jumping off tall heights sounds faintly attractive. My temper and behaviour has gotten even worse than before.
Help me people.
A part of me wants so badly to win her heart back. So badly. But I feel that she just would not accept me anymore.
Another part of me, the rationale and logical voice within me, tells me to move on and forget her. But the thought of forgetting her truly torments me. -
cannot get over her? Than get under her lor
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Let time do it.
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To the shiok sendiri smart aleck above.
Am I supposed to laugh or what. Idiot. -
Seems like suicide is your only option.
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But surely we have not exhausted all other options five replies into the thread.
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Cold turkey treatment
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what have you done so far btw? (to get her back)
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Nothing really.
I have tried to be a gentleman and give her space.
i.e I have avoided her like she was carrying bird flu. -
She must be thinking you really hate her now. gg.Originally posted by iSpeak:Nothing really.
I have tried to be a gentleman and give her space.
i.e I have avoided her like she was carrying bird flu. -
Yeah. Probably.
Heard she bitched about me.
"He's such an assh-le these days.."
But I apologized to her. Just the other day. Guess she was happy about it. Love it when she smiles. Just love it so much. -
ask her back
see what she says
if she dosent give you straight answer, you have some homework to do -
Nabeh I not so buay paiseh ask her just like that.
Damn shy sia.
"Oi zhar bor. Can come back to me anot? Dowan ah?! ceeba..."
I hate being direct. If I were to go about doing it, any suggestions for being more subtle? -
No.Originally posted by iSpeak:Nabeh I not so buay paiseh ask her just like that.
Damn shy sia.
"Oi zhar bor. Can come back to me anot? Dowan ah?! ceeba..."
I hate being direct. If I were to go about doing it, any suggestions for being more subtle? -
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well, buy flowers and get it send to her workplace dailyOriginally posted by iSpeak:Nabeh I not so buay paiseh ask her just like that.
Damn shy sia.
"Oi zhar bor. Can come back to me anot? Dowan ah?! ceeba..."
I hate being direct. If I were to go about doing it, any suggestions for being more subtle?
then hire a plane with a banner "Oi charbor, Come back to me.Love XXX" to fly all over sg -
Actually she sits on the other side of the classroom. Maybe just whack her with a few balls of crushed foolscap paper will do. Keep doing it until she capitulates.
Seriously. How?! -
cheh
that one..
u need to have a diary -
She will think you are having cheap fun throwing paper to annoy her. GG lame jerk.
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That's wat i used to do in primary skoolOriginally posted by Cenarious:She will think you are having cheap fun throwing paper to annoy her. GG lame jerk. than again e girl i disturb later became my girl fren. Do note that this trick dun work everytime. -
Originally posted by Cenarious:She will think you are having cheap fun throwing paper to annoy her. GG lame jerk.
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I guess you were just lonely, that's y your felt that you still loved her. There are no true love anyway, is all about companionship.Originally posted by iSpeak:I always thought of myself as being emotionally strong.
Being a guy and all. I was determined not to let a dumping bring me down. I confess it is an ego thing. The she-didn't-mean-much-to-me-anyway sour grapes syndrome. Hell, the fact that I am actually appealing for help on an online Aunt Agony forum is a hell of a bruise to my pride. Again, that macho-guy-I-can-handle-anything comes into play.
Yes ladies, males are assholes.
But I cannot lie to myself. I am still crazily in love with her. I catch myself doodling her name, almost subconsciously. I suddenly became self-aware of how gorgeous she actually is - beautiful face and hot body. Nice boobs and tight butt. It's funny how I have never appreciated how pretty she truly is.
After all, I did not fall for her looks when I first went out with her. Beauty is only skin-deep and that rings true for me. She just had this ability to make a broody guy like me smile alot. And that, dear friends, is what had truly melted my heart to pieces about her. She was such a happy soul, and happiness as they say is infectious.
But alas, I proved too much of an asshole for her. Feel like smacking myself for letting slip such a babe. There are many qualities about me she dislikes. I am a rather unruly and vulgar person, as well being rather unrestrained in my promiscuousness (I leave that open to your interpretation). My mistaken impression was that she was willing to accept my faults. I was wrong. And I do not blame her at all. For I am a first rate bast-rd at times.
Right now, I can safely say it is affecting me badly - her absence. I live out my days with no motivation going on. My work is in a mess. My mind is in a mess. I have alot of tasks to sort out right now, in a crucial part of the year. But I just cannot seem to focus. Jumping off tall heights sounds faintly attractive. My temper and behaviour has gotten even worse than before.
Help me people.
A part of me wants so badly to win her heart back. So badly. But I feel that she just would not accept me anymore.
Another part of me, the rationale and logical voice within me, tells me to move on and forget her. But the thought of forgetting her truly torments me. -
Find an appropriate time/place to tell her whatever you just told us. See how she respond, and take it from there. If you paiseh, just copy/paste to her the url of this forum post
but then, it may show a lacking in sincerity . -
You hopeless is it? Treat gals like that. Talk to them properly lar, use vulgarities and such so low class. How to get gals huh? And throw paper, at her, you think she what, your dog ah? Come on lar, be a better person maybe she will come back to you. It's your fault.
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To show your sincerity, ask her directly.
Rule number one:
Dun expect her to read your tots/indirect actions, even if she can, she may just been waiting for you to be direct instead. Simple.
How you react will show how bad you want this woman...